I've never had a Valentine

So here goes... I'm a smart, funny broad who's intelligent, independent, very artistic and a hell of a lot of fun to hang out with. And yet... *gasp* I've never had a Valentine. Yeah, I know it's a BS holiday made up by greeting card manufacturers and chocolatiers... but still, just once I'd like to have one.

Anybody else never had a valentine? Or feel guilty for wanting to have one this year? I fear I may be going bonkers for actually wanting this foolish romance stuff in my life.

i can't believe you've never had a valentine.

Your not alone sweetie, i wish i had someone to share valentines with as well but i dont

hugs



[Edited on Feb 11, 2005 by ALIO]

No valentines ever for me. Well, I guess it saves me some money.

believe it, kids! I've never once celebrated V-day.

I'm not looking for the"awww.... you poor thing" comments. Just wondering if there are some people who despite going around saying, "fuck V-day!" still have that little voice that says, hmmm... maybe it would be nice to have somebody special even if it is a made up bogus holiday.

this is why its always easier to get a date in february

i think everybody wishes they had somebody.

come on, everybody, sing!

"everybody, needs somebody, to leeean ON
put your body next to mine, and dreeeeam o-on!"




ps. you'll find someone, hotcurry, right when you are least expecting it. it always happens that way.

Never ever had one either. I take pride in it at this point.

I never have a girlfriend on valentine's day that I can recall. At least not since I was like fifteen.

One time, me and my girl broke up the day before Valentine's day, and got back together like 3 days after. That is how cursed this holiday is for me.

you are the female version of me

Hot Curry! Will you be my same sex, e-valentine?

Check yes or no.

Ok, I HAVE had a boyfriend before. Thankfully, I have known the touch of a man in my lifetime. It's not like I'm a loveless hermit.

I just have never been smitten or had someone smitten with me on 2/14. And I know logically that it shouldn't be that big a deal. but it's a little deal.

YES

See... it's the people like you that I envy.

I have a Valentine for the first time in my life. Unfortunately, said Valentineboyfriend is also in Virginia.

i had a valentine in nursery school....:S other than that, no, ive never had one either!!

YAY!!!!!!!

*mentally sends a heart shaped box of chocolates to Hot Curry*

It's better than getting dumped on valentines day........

My ex-boyfriend and I did not celebrate because at the time we thought it was a stupid holiday. He did however convince me to go halves with him on a really expensive floral arrangement for my then roommate because she had no boyfriend. At the time I thought it was a sweet idea. Then I found out they were fucking behind my back.

Maybe it is a stupid holiday.

Hotcurry, you have described me perfectly. What is it about being a "smart, funny broad who's intelligent, independent, very artistic and a hell of a lot of fun to hang out with" that prevents me from having a valentine? Wait.... I've never even had a real boyfriend to speak of. Guys, do girls like us intimidate you? Or do I maybe have a third eye growing out of my forehead that I don't know about...

This is the very first Valentine's Day that I've gotten something from someone other than my father. Not that my daddy's not an awesome valentine, but it's nice to get a big present from someone else for once.