is this wrong or is this right

two nights ago she sleeps in my bed with me, last night she sleeps upstairs in my house with another guy, comes downstairs to hangout with are extremely drunk asses wrstles with me in my room then goes back upstairs to sleep with other dude.

by sleep i mean sleep, no funny business.


not that i'm upset about the whole ordeal but, doesn't that seem just not right.

Ouch, but no such thing as a universal "right" I fear.

If you can't deal with it, it's not right. But that means you need to change things, not her. Don't sleep or wrestle with her anymore, if it's bothering you.

i got ya beat.....she breaks up with me on monday....sleeps in my bed the whole week spends the night with a new guy on friday then comes home and continues to sleep in my bed for another month while occasionally sleeping w/the other guy at his house.....and feels that she didnt do anything wrong

This might sound strange, but ask her what her intentions are.......you may be suprised, but from what I hear "modern" women have opionions and stuff....this can be weird I know, but its worth a shot.

You let her. Don't complain.

Pretty much spot on.

WTF!!

First of all: is she your gf?

If she’s not then, don’t mess with her cuz all she’s doin is messin with you and the other guy… however I’d F8ck and see if the other guy lets her in bed then???!!! (or pull someone else and bring her back while she’s there… see if she ‘sleeps’ with you after that!

Secondly WTF!!!

She’s sleeping with another guy and sleeping in your bed!!! ARE YOU INSANE??
The same advise kinda applies here too i.e. pull someone else bring her back… see if she sleeps in the same bed after that!?!

Is the ‘new man’ turning into a complete walkover???

Wake up and grow some balls!

[Edited on Jan 08, 2005 by RideTimeless]

WOW, i thought i was a pussy when my ex screwd me over.

get super-drunk and make obscene phone calls to her sister at two in the morning.

or

blow her off when she starts in with the head games.

ill let you decide the more mature option

wow, that's spineless!

best to just ask her what she wants

Not right at all..

Blasphemy.

i am aware i never said they didn't

she likes me, she has a hardcore "crush" on me and wants to "be" with me

i'm not stressin over this or losin sleep or nothin, it really makes no difference to me i just felt that it was a little wierd like, sleep in my bed then with another guy the next night in my house

If that dosent work, just get her drunk, and stick your finger in her butt..........thats gold right there

What do you think...then u are probably right.
She is probably not doing any "funny business" with u but how do u know there is no "funny business" with the others? That is just gross, she must really be in need of some major attention.

Marry me.

Do you want to be with her? Maybe you shouldn't let her "bed hop" if you want to be with her. Just tell her that you're uncomfortable with it. You'll know how she feels by her response.

if you let her know you're jealous than she wins
i'd just lay back and pretend like it doesnt bother you
she'll only be more impressed and want you more when she see that you don't care...trust me

Get bunkbeds?

Right or wrong, I don't know but it seems at odds with her having a "crush" on you, maybe even inconsiderate; perhaps it's time you declared your intentions to her. Good luck.

what the fuck is with people sleeping in other peoples beds. cant they make it through the night on their own? AND after an ex moves on she still comes to sleep in your bed? throw her ass out. and the same for the other girl
edit: like stated in previous posts, while you are in the process of throwing her out may just be fun to try to get her to leave on her own. freaking out girls is still funny to me

[Edited on Jan 08, 2005 by Testm0nkey]

Somebody should Snopes this... I don't think it's true.

Wish I had a girl to share the bed with. If you've got the option and you're not the sort to be wierded out by sleeping in the same bed as another adult, having a warm body to share heat with always beats sleeping alone.