Daniel Robert Epstein: She Comes First author Ian Kerner

this book has become my bible.

The bible has become my text on pleasing women.

The good doctor should be awarded The Medal of Freedom. (Or a sainthood!) *Genuflect*

So THAT is what Posh's shirt was about!

i own this book. got it on amazon a few months ago. it's pretty good. and seeing as i'm single again, i figured it would be a good time to teach myself something new! even though i've never had any complaints...

good read.

The best bits were when he said '????' That's powerful stuff.

definitely going to check out this book, perhaps 'accidently' leave it at my bf's placen if i find it a worthwhile read. hmm. clinical sexology sounds like an interesting job, and it's nice to know that a playwriting/lit major can go on to do something so entirely different (well, except theatre people probably have more sex than most people, esp in college-- if you're hanging out with the actors, anyway.) Hmm. Like the concept, anyway. And Posh's set is just, well, yummy.

It's super fucking awesome that this dr wrote this book. I'm gunna go buy it when I'm not broke.

I still like How to Satisfy a Woman Every Time (and Have Her Beg for More) by Naura Hayden. It's the crass blue-collar slob's guide to pleasuring a woman. It's written by a female, so it's easier to believe she knows what she's talking about. She's not just a sexologist, she also has a pussy.

I also like how she speaks slowly and uses small words. As a guy of the male gender, I find it very comforting when a woman stops being all complex and confusing and talks down to my level.

Sorry, I realize this thread was supposed to be about She Comes First. All I'm saying is, if the Thinking Man's Guide isn't your speed, if you joined SuicideGirls just for the pictures, if you consider drugstore porn "probably realistic," give HSWET(HHBM) a try.

I found She Comes First to be much better than Violet Blue's The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus, even though she has a pussy and even likes to lick them herself. Her book had all this useless stuff like how to coax a reluctant lover into letting her lick you--I don't know ANYBODY who's ever had THAT problem.

Ironic, innit? Matter of personal taste, I suppose. She has her fans as well.