is it bad...

that im completely alone, depressed, and want my ex to commit suicide, just so she'll stop calling me and reminding me that she left me for a guy i fucking hate.

i hate to be a downer, but i had to get that off my chest, and tell someone.

im choking up abit while writing this so take it easy on me today.

It's not bad. I've been there. Could be worse. When I was in your situation, the guy I fucking hate knocked up the girl I used to love.

Give it time. It will get better.

no, doll it's not bad.

from one current-dumpee to another, FUCK 'em. seriously.

and you can always block her number.

ive changed my number twice, and she has the same "friends" as i do, so she found it out. id would block her number, but she has plenty of other numbers to call me from.

Oy, you really are sad, boi.

Stay strong bro...just let it roll off the best that you can. Remember, your mind is your worst enemy....just do you best to keep yourself busy in these times.

I'm not being sarcastic here, I'm just curious.

Have you asked her to stop calling you?

i know it's easier said than done, but hang in there...you know nothing will make it better but time, and time will in fact make it better. so feel self-piteous for a while. take the blows, ride it out and things will get better sooner than you imagine.

if she's calling and bringing up the new guy, you should just tell her to go stick his dick in her ass so she can stop talking out of it

but i've been drinking already

plenty of times, but simple advice, even in the form of yelling, doesnt quite get through to this girl.

ive been told many times that it wasnt anything i did to ruin this relationship, but i have my doubts.

Don't worry, I'm feeling a little hacked up inside over my ex too but not in the hating wishing death upon her way you do.

stop picking up. you don't *have* to talk to her. if you pick up and it's her, hang up.

*67 is my new enemy, i wouldnt pick up the restricted calls, if a friends phone didnt have a caller ID restriction on it

I'll just reiterate that time heals most wounds, and your life could be considerably worse.

Every feeling I've ever had for a girl has gone unrequited, so at least you have an ex

You and this girl split up, she got a new guy, she keeps calling you, you've asked her to stop calling you and you've changed your number twice an d she still calls?

That's fucked up. Get an answerphone and screen your calls. Once you've got a collection of calls write her a shoprt polite letter. "Please stop calling me. I find it distressing", nice and simple. Date it, and keep a copy. Do you have "Recorded delivery" over there? Where the postie has to get a signature for the letter? Send the letter via that, so you know she gets it. Then, if she calls again, it might be time to see the police.

I'm sorry. *hugs*. It will get better. I just don't understand why she feels the need to keep calling you and bugging you. Is she doing it just to be mean? I wish you the best of luck. Hang in there!

yeah, that's what i was thinking, too.

i'm sorry doll.

i seem to keep this thought in my head everyday for the past few weeks:

it can't rain all the time.

So far demetrius_z has give n the most sound advice.

You could try telling those friends that they don't love you anymore if you give her the next phone number...

she's just trying to...you know...get your proverbial goat...

If all else fails you can get dirty and childish and try to give her herpes by having an old prostitute wear her underwear for a week...

[Edited on Nov 13, 2004 by sadboi]

Remember what comes around goes around, she shit on you and pretty soon fate will take a big dump on her and you can sit back and laugh at it all.

Get rid of your phone. DON'T talk to her no matter what. She is fucking with you by continuing to talk to you, don't let her ruin your peace of mind. Move if you have to. I had to live upstairs from an ex for a while because I could not afford to move. I was convinced that I was going insane, and then I saved up enough money and moved far away, and only then was I able to accept that I wasn't nuts, but he was making me nuts. (and I know that all of you psych experts out there are thinking that no one can make you nuts except yourself, but someone can damn well go far in helping you along....)

Sounds like it's time for a CROSS COUNTRY ROAD TRIP!!!!!!!

You could use your journey to try and get laid in as many states as possible. Or, failing that, go to the bunny ranch in Nevada and get yourself a nice piece.

But seriously, if you're not around, they can't get to you.

just got another feeling of unease. still feeling bad.

It's not going to go away like magic. But I will go away. And, hopefully, so will she. So that one day you can look back on this thread and laugh. Or at least grin a bit. I mean, you are sadboi.