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Clairevoyance

Clairevoyance

Tallahassee, FL
July 2004

NOV 03, 2004 10:56 PM

Dish...I love you and you're my girl...my sister, but PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE think this one over...anyone who cheats on you is no good and you deserve so much better. You are beautiful and smart and funny as hell and anyone who would treat you like that doesn't deserve you. It may be hard to let go because you're attached but it would be the best thing as I see it, but you are your own woman and this is up to you and you only. kiss

TedKoppel

TedKoppel

Glendale, AZ
March 2004

NOV 04, 2004 03:02 AM

TheDishwasher said:
ok, that was just kinda mean, so for that, i will use hella more comas...

fucker, i know how to write, buit internet writing is slightly different that writing an essay, if its so hard to read than dont fucking read it mad

,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, man i love those commas


It was pretty much the nice version of this. Look, your boyfriend's an asshole. I don't feel the slightest bit guilty for calling him an idiot. I'm sorry I sorta called you an idiot, but my point was more that you're doing something dumb. I've done countless amounts of stupid shit in my life, so I can relate to that. But staying with a guy who has such double standards AND has cheated on you AND has repeatedly broken up with you for other women...it's not a smart thing to do. Just leave. The reason you were suspicious is that you have fucking good reason to be suspicious. If you can't trust a guy to drink with friends without cheating on you, the relationship is over. You're done. Move along.

TheRevolutionary

TheRevolutionary

San Diego, CA
June 2004

NOV 04, 2004 03:07 AM

ive stated my feelings to you, i need not to say more.

Timore

Timore

Macon, GA
March 2004

NOV 04, 2004 04:08 AM

Okay, the guy seems like a douche and you seem like a glutton for punishment. This sounds like a horrid relationship. You say he has broken up with you then come back multiple times. Why in the hell did you take his sorry ass back? In the beginning I did not even think him going out was a big deal. Guys going out without their girlfriends is normal. I was going to say that if you have big enough issuses with that in itself to post on here about it that instincts say it is bad.However, you have explained more than enough to validate that point. In any case, you are both fooling yourself if you think this will ever evolve into anything more than a severly dysfunctional relationship. Even if you have been together for years I still think it is a waste of time. You need to be secure enough alone before you try to trust someone else. I had a guy cheat one me once and I took him back. In the beginning people felt bad for me, they were on my side. He cheated on me again, I took him back again, and people no longer cared. Taking someone back after they cheat on you means you made a bad decision. How many times have you let him get away with it? Why would he think it'd be trouble this time? Not saying he did cheat on you, clearly he sucks either way, but if it makes you this upset it sounds like he is not worth it. Talk is just that, talk. Actions are what counts.

Dogmai

Dogmai

United Kingdom
September 2004

NOV 04, 2004 06:16 AM

leave a voicemail message of you sharpening a carving knife into the phone, that you make sure he doesn't mess about...

smile

Midnyte

Midnyte

SUICIDEGIRL

Arizona, USA

NOV 04, 2004 07:43 AM

Girl, you are young, it may FEEL like he is the only man in the world who knows you and the "one" you should be with, but really, seriously, there ARE other men out there. Wonderful men, amazing men who come home to you and listen to you and respect you and want to include you in their lives. Men who don't need to cheat on you FIVE TIMES, and then have retarded "little talks" to make it "all better." There are men out there who will treat you well, in a way you are comfortable with. If you don't like daily roses and tacky Mylar balloons I'm in no way talking about that kind of crap. I am talking about a real equal partnership with someone you adore who adores you right back in just the way you want to be adored.

Seriously, WAKE UP!! You are acting with your head so far up your ass right now it isn't even funny. People don't respect you and I have a feeling you must have a hard time respecting yourself. If you have to APOLOGIZE for being with him and feed people excuses for it, you KNOW there is a problem. That is not how it is supposed to be! If you separate yourself from him it really should not take long for you to meet a new guy who really can't be much worse than this asshat. You are retarded if you keep falling for his bullshit and you will continue to be retarded as long as you let him control your life. Seriously, right now you spend so much time worrying about his bullshit I know your life is completely controlled by this creep. Don't try and get back what you put in. A relationship like this is a bad investment. It is like throwing money into a rigged slot machine. You can keep throwing money in, and it may even throw a few pennies back at you now and then to keep you thinking there is a big pay out coming, but sister, there is NO payout. NONE! IT WILL NEVER EVER EVER HAPPEN!

waxangel

waxangel

Baltimore, MD
May 2003

NOV 04, 2004 07:56 AM

Well said.

surface

surface

Vancouver, BC
October 2002

NOV 04, 2004 08:04 AM

Midnyte said:
If you don't like daily roses and tacky Mylar balloons I'm in no way talking about that kind of crap.


i thought mylar balloons were romantic?

sexybeast

sexybeast

Metairie, LA
July 2004

NOV 04, 2004 08:19 AM

TheDishwasher said:
i guess i should reply to this since its kinda seems to be a part several people are questioning.... well one of his ex g/f thought he inpregnanted her while we were dating, so yeah thats the kind of cheating.... and he's dumped me for 5 other girls and then comes back to me in between


as bad as all that sounds, we;ve been back together for a month now and things have been going better than id ever except and i do have a lot of hope for us

and in response to cash, i trust him, but we are in a delicate time where we are both kinda earning the trust back that we originally had, but he stopped talking to his ex's (they were always who he dumped me for/cheated on me with) so i really trust him more now than i have in a while



Normally I say that if he leaves you once for someone else, then it's over but this if 5 times. I had a friend that went on like this for years with his g/f breaking up and cheating on him and then getting back together. In the end, it didn't work. I don't understand why your still with him, maybe you think you love him or maybe you think he is the best you can get or maybe you can't be alone long enough to find someone else. I sort of cheated on one g/f that I had but I never liked her. Then I hooked up with the woman that is now my wife and I've never considered cheating. I know he's not me but from my experiences if he even really likes you he wouldn't cheat on you. You are probably just a temporary fix inbetween girls.

He invited you to the party so you wouldn't get mad at him not inviting you but he never wanted you there. These are just my thoughts. Who knows I could be wrong or just stupid, I'm normally not.

Edited to say, I guess I should have read more of the thread. Some people feel the need for drama in their life, I guess you are one of them.

Edited again to say, I always think thes damn young people. The I realize I'm only 21 but I feel so much older then all these young people.

[Edited on Nov 04, 2004 by HairyGod]

[Edited on Nov 04, 2004 by HairyGod]

scotty_bane

scotty_bane

Fort Worth, TX
February 2004

NOV 04, 2004 08:42 AM

you are a girl...he is a boy.

i think the solution lies in a bottle of good aged scotch.

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