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deegee

deegee

I'm lost
July 2004

JUL 31, 2004 06:50 AM



This is a 15 year old girl who's gone and had a 5 inch tat of Winnie The Pooh on her arm as a tribute to her Grandad. (or GrandpaH as the tattoo calls him).

Her Mum is furious and is having the tattoo artist investigated for assault. In the full article it suggests that the girl was accompanied by an adult but even the quote "Julie was accompanied by an adult and so it was assumed her mother had given her consent" just goes to suggest that they knew she was underage but thought it was okay.

Is it ever okay? Anyone here have any tattoos done when they were underage? Any regrets?

a548456

a548456

United Kingdom
OLD SKOOL

JUL 31, 2004 07:02 AM

My mum's been going on about this for a while (we live near there)
I've never been asked for ID for a tattoo, but I have a 31 year old friend who's always had to sign consent forms before getting tattoos (but she does look about 12 when her hair's in pigtails thoughbiggrin)
I don't believe the girl at all when she says she'd change it, because it is a nicely done tattoo and was memorial to her granddad. She just regrets that she's got trouble for it. Wouldn't surprize me if that was the start of a whole Winnie the Pooh sleeve when she's older. As for the artist who did it... If she had an adult with her... It's hard to say... Maybe it should be compulsory that all studios should make clients sign consent forms... The guy obviously made a mistake, but I think there are quite a few tattoo artists who have done something similar. An ex of mine had some tattoos done while she was underage that she regreted and wanted them covered up (which is how we met) and they were much smaller and concealable. Because of the size and location of the tattoo, the NHS might even pay to have it lasered off. (they wouldn't with my ex because the tattoos were small and concealable)

[Edited on Jul 31, 2004 by Spike]

NotoriousCAT

NotoriousCAT

Atlanta, GA
January 2004

JUL 31, 2004 07:08 AM

I have to sign a consent form every time (even though I am friends with my artist ) and photocopy my id. That said, you can get tattooed underage in New Jersey with parental consent and for this they get ID from the parent (and child)and have the parent sign the consent form.

NotoriousCAT

NotoriousCAT

Atlanta, GA
January 2004

JUL 31, 2004 07:09 AM

edited because stupid computer double posted!

[Edited on Jul 31, 2004 by LuLuKiTTyFoo]

AndersWolleck

AndersWolleck

Astoria, NY
February 2003

JUL 31, 2004 07:10 AM

i dont agree with this at all. she needs to get consent forms signed and i would say that tattoo artist is screwed and rightly so.

Nyghtwish

Nyghtwish

Williamsburg, VA
February 2004

JUL 31, 2004 07:17 AM

I have a couple of problems with this. First of all, fifteen year olds aren't the best decision makers. Despite the fact that it's a tribute to her Grandfather, I'm sure there's a certain part of her that did it to be cool, to be different, to show off. I mean, she's 15. That's what they DO. And a hasty decision is quickly and easily regretted; it might not be that far in the future that she might wish she had gotten something other than a cartoon character to honor a loved one.

Second, fifteen year old bodies aren't done growing yet. People show so much concern over tattoos even on adults because someday the body will change; wrinkle, shrink, etc. The tattoo will distort as a result. This girl might have a head start on that.

As for the company, "assuming" that the mother had given consent isn't good enough. Just because the kid is with an adult doesn't mean it's been okayed. The parent or guardian should be the one there, if consent is truly given. Otherwise, just WAIT the few extra years.

Cherry

Cherry

SUICIDEGIRL

British Columbia, Canada

JUL 31, 2004 07:22 AM

I think it's stupid that the Tattooist did it without getting consent forms. As any artist should have to have consent forms for tattooing at any age. I've always signed a consent form to say I have agreed to give them free reign on that tattoo. I mean it's only common sense from a tattoo artist's point of view to have themselves covered. So, well, he was stupid and got himself into the situation. It doesn't matter how old she is, he should have had a consent form signed anyway. And it's quite obvious she is underage so should have had an adult sign as a parent. Then, the fault and blame wouldn't lie with him but with the adult who signed.

Then again, if I were a tattooist I would refuse to tattoo anyone that young because most adults can't make the right decissions half the time on stuff that will effect them forever, so how is a child going to ever manage that?

Anyways, as to the girl. Well it's her body, her choice. I think it's wrong if she's being punished by her parents for it. I mean, she's the one that'll have to live with it, not them. Unless she asked them first and then directly disobeyed them while she's still living at home.

Thing is. I don't think she'd have regreted the tattoo. Perhaps because it's winnie the poo. BUT, having said that lots of people love Winnie right into their adulthood. And she had it done for a very special reason (to her). I mean, there's plenty of adults that get badly done very small cartoon characters done on their arm, shoulder whatever. And that could be regretable because they look bad very quickly. But, it does look quite well done and it's a good size so it won't look like a small coloured blob after a while.

Now, having said all this. She will probably now regret it for a long time (maybe not always) because instead of having it represent her grandpa it will always represent the trouble she got into. And all the negative commotion that it's caused. And who's fault is that? The parents.

It's just a visious circle.

Cherry xoxoxox

[Edited on Jul 31, 2004 by Cherry]

a548456

a548456

United Kingdom
OLD SKOOL

JUL 31, 2004 07:22 AM

AndersWolleck said:
i dont agree with this at all. she needs to get consent forms signed and i would say that tattoo artist is screwed and rightly so.


That's the diffrence between the US and the UK... There may be laws here against tattooing underage people, but not all studios enforce that. They may have signs saying you have to be 18 and ID will be required, but as I said above, I've never been asked for ID (and at two different studios) but other friends have, and that's where the problem lies, that there doesn't seem to be any consistency on the part of the artists to get consent forms and protect themself against this kind of situation. The person who was with her may have claimed to be a parent or relative, so the artist thought that they had parental consent. I'll be interested to see how this pans out and what (if any) action is taken against the artist.

Cherry

Cherry

SUICIDEGIRL

British Columbia, Canada

JUL 31, 2004 07:25 AM

Spike said:

AndersWolleck said:
i dont agree with this at all. she needs to get consent forms signed and i would say that tattoo artist is screwed and rightly so.


That's the diffrence between the US and the UK... There may be laws here against tattooing underage people, but not all studios enforce that. They may have signs saying you have to be 18 and ID will be required, but as I said above, I've never been asked for ID (and at two different studios) but other friends have, and that's where the problem lies, that there doesn't seem to be any consistency on the part of the artists to get consent forms and protect themself against this kind of situation. The person who was with her may have claimed to be a parent or relative, so the artist thought that they had parental consent. I'll be interested to see how this pans out and what (if any) action is taken against the artist.



You know, as far as I'm aware there's actually no governing law that states how old you have to be to get a tattoo.

I believe the age restrictions are enforced by the local councils when they issue licenses.

Cherry xoxoxox

dem_z

dem_z

United Kingdom
June 2004

JUL 31, 2004 07:28 AM

This link to a childrens news service gives a few more details:
CBBC

The tatooist was a hobbyist who charged her £40 (USD $73), she's had to have tests because he didn't use clean needles.

It is illegal in the UK to tattoo someone under the age of 18 unless it is for medical reasons. Having permission from the parent makes no difference.

HSE age for tattoos

Google search for Tattooing of Minors act 1969

[Edited on Jul 31, 2004 by demetrius_z]

ModernPopCulture

ModernPopCulture

Syracuse, NY
OLD SKOOL

JUL 31, 2004 07:30 AM

You have to have consent forms signed and must show proper ID. There are a lot of places where there arent any laws about this though. It is assumed that laws are in place. In fact, i wish i knew a little more on this, there are some places where tattooing is technically still illegal to do at all! I was just having a converstion with some friends that own a body modificiation shop (Scarab Body Arts in SYracuse, NY www.scarabbodyarts.com) and it was really recently made legal in this area!

15 is too young to get any form of ink, parnet consent or not. You dont have the right decision making skills at that point. A basic piercing with parent approval, sure, you can take those out, but ink lasts a lifetime.

Hell, the ones i got when i was 18 i am working on covering up and changing still!

Cherry

Cherry

SUICIDEGIRL

British Columbia, Canada

JUL 31, 2004 07:31 AM

Blessing said:
I have a couple of problems with this. First of all, fifteen year olds aren't the best decision makers. Despite the fact that it's a tribute to her Grandfather, I'm sure there's a certain part of her that did it to be cool, to be different, to show off. I mean, she's 15. That's what they DO.

.

Yes, but then a hell of a lot of adults are exactly the same. You can't say it's a condition of being 15.

Second, fifteen year old bodies aren't done growing yet. People show so much concern over tattoos even on adults because someday the body will change; wrinkle, shrink, etc. The tattoo will distort as a result. This girl might have a head start on that.



I'd say the majority of fifteen year old girls are mostly grown in the limbs. Maybe she'll grow a little taller. But on her upper arm the tattoo won't really distort, I wouldn't have thought.





having said everything I've said. I left home when I was 16, and a hell of a lot of kids do, more than most would probably realise. Essentially I've had to live as an adult since I was 16, and yes I've done stupid things and made rediculous mistakes. But then so do a hell of a lot of people when they're growing up. Hell, as I've said, so do a lot of fully grown middle aged adults, but no one goes round criticizing them. It's easy to criticize a kid because, hell they're stupid and young.

Stupid middle aged adults however, well they can do what they like...

Cherry xoxoxox

Cherry

Cherry

SUICIDEGIRL

British Columbia, Canada

JUL 31, 2004 07:36 AM

demetrius_z said:

It is illegal in the UK to tattoo someone under the age of 18 unless it is for medical reasons. Having permission from the parent makes no difference.

HSE age for tattoos

Google search for Tattooing of Minors act 1969

[Edited on Jul 31, 2004 by demetrius_z]



Thanks for correcting me smile

Cherry xoxoxox

dem_z

dem_z

United Kingdom
June 2004

JUL 31, 2004 07:39 AM

Cherry said:

demetrius_z said:

It is illegal in the UK to tattoo someone under the age of 18 unless it is for medical reasons. Having permission from the parent makes no difference.

HSE age for tattoos

Google search for Tattooing of Minors act 1969

[Edited on Jul 31, 2004 by demetrius_z]



Thanks for correcting me smile

Cherry xoxoxox




It wasn't a correction! We posted at the same time, I took a while to hit submit because I was fiddling about with links. smile smile
Kind regards.

Ems

Ems

United Kingdom
July 2004

JUL 31, 2004 08:55 AM

On the one hand I find it scary that the tattooist didn't ask for proof of age and for her to sign a consent form.

On the other I find it very sweet that she dedicated a tattoo to someone who she clearly cared about. I think she chose to have the tattoo for the right reason - it means something to her, so it is likely that the tattoo won't be a huge regret to her in years to come.

a548456

a548456

United Kingdom
OLD SKOOL

JUL 31, 2004 09:17 AM

Whoopsie...
I was just about to mention the tattooing of minors act, but was beaten to ittongue I think it's wierd how artists should be aware of this law through their training, but not all studios insist on using consent forms surreal

[Edited on Jul 31, 2004 by Spike]

deegee

deegee

I'm lost
July 2004

JUL 31, 2004 09:45 AM

From reading the comments here it seems to me that it is stricter in America than it is in the UK. This tallies with my experience of drinking in the States - I'm 33 (and feel old on these boards) and have been carded while carrying picture ID seems ridiculous in the UK.

The girl wanted it done as a tribute to her Grandad and it seems to me that if, when she'd got to 18, she still wanted the tribute done then it would be the right thing to do. Now she doesn't have a chance to come to that conclusion.

I still wish the article told us who the adult was who accompanied her. Was it just a friend of 18 or was it a relative? If the tattoo artist can say that he thought it was okay because he assumed that the presence of an adult meant parental consent had been given then he's saying that he knew she was underage. In which case, consent or not, he should have said no to doing it and explained the law.

dem_z

dem_z

United Kingdom
June 2004

JUL 31, 2004 09:51 AM

"The tattooist who did Julie's design apparently only does the designs as a hobby."



That's the scary part. Dirty needles from someone practising in what might be unhygenic conditions., not in a real studio.

inkncarrots

inkncarrots

San Diego, CA
March 2004

JUL 31, 2004 09:52 AM

It reminds me of when I went into a tattoo shop here in California when I was 16. I asked the guy if I could get a tattoo if my mom gave consent. He told me "You can't go drink in a bar just because your mommy wrote you a permission slip now can you?" He said it really snotty, but looking back it is damn funny and true.

inkncarrots

inkncarrots

San Diego, CA
March 2004

JUL 31, 2004 10:17 AM

My boyfriend and his brother tattooed themselves a few times when they were between the ages of 12 and 16. One tattoo that my boyfriend did on himself was a tribute to a relative that had died, and he in no way regrets it today. The other one that his brother did however he has mixed feelings about. It is quality work because his brother is a gifted artist, but the tattoo definitely has that '80s feel wink .

That being said, if I were allowed to have gotten the tattoos I wanted when I was 15, I would have some pretty stupid tattoos today. I am damn thankful that there is a law against it, atleast for my own sake.

serenity_star

serenity_star

Dolton, IL
July 2004

JUL 31, 2004 10:27 AM

i got a tattoo on my back when i was 17 just because my mom said i could. it wasn't a good one needless to say because i went to someone who didn't know what they were doing. it's a chinese symbol meaning "magic" or "illusion." it can mean both. it had meaning at the time but it was so spur of the moment i basically didn't think about it long enough. if i did, i might have wound up with something bigger in a more noticeable spot, that looked even more like shit than this one does. i NEVER show it to anyone. luckily my hair is long enough to cover the damn thing when i have a tanktop on. i hope to finally get it covered this year with this design i've been working on and "daddy's girl." biggrin

[Edited on Jul 31, 2004 by serenity_star]

deegee

deegee

I'm lost
July 2004

JUL 31, 2004 11:00 AM

inkncarrots said:
It reminds me of when I went into a tattoo shop here in California when I was 16. I asked the guy if I could get a tattoo if my mom gave consent. He told me "You can't go drink in a bar just because your mommy wrote you a permission slip now can you?" He said it really snotty, but looking back it is damn funny and true.



I think this is how it should be. Because so many people look down on tattoos and see it as some kind of dangerous, dirty world, those people who feel they represent it feel they have a responsibility to be upstanding and do things by the letter of the law.

I have one tat. I had it done in America. I was 31 at the time. I had ID and I'm pretty sure I signed a consent form. I say "pretty sure" because I was blind drunk. Unfortunately for me I'm a very sober drunk who can walk and talk long after the ability to think straight has left me. Many's the time I've been drunk in possession of a credit card and lived to regret it.

HALCY0N

HALCY0N

Quitman, MS
June 2004

JUL 31, 2004 11:02 AM

I got my first one when I was like 21 I guess. If I had a kid of my own and they wanted to get a tattoo underage, I would sign the form but I would make sure it wasn't something they'd regret later. The girl got a tattoo to remember her grandfather, that's something a lot of people do. My best friend got her first (and only) tattoo in memory of her brother. It's meaningful, and not likely to be something she regrets later in life so that's okay.

FreakPirate

FreakPirate

Canada
November 2002

JUL 31, 2004 11:04 AM

I had to sign stuff when I got my tattoo and when I got my nipples pierced. I had to put my tattoo off for two weeks because my ID was gone when I went in. Even though I'd been in several times before and shown them my ID ahead of time, since I didn't have it when they needed to check my age, I had to wait.

I don't think the girl or the tattoo artist thought this one out enough. Obviously for legal reasons the artist should have checked her age and probably should never have done the tattoo. And the girl... well... I don't know how bright it is getting big tattoos like that at 15. By the time she's my age she could regret that a lot. But then again... it is her body and her decision. She's the one who has to live with it.

deegee

deegee

I'm lost
July 2004

JUL 31, 2004 11:27 AM

FreakPirate said:
I don't think the girl or the tattoo artist thought this one out enough.



I guess that's why the law is as it is. It's the licensees fault if he sells liquor to an underage drinker not the fault of the child. Rightly or wrongly, society doesn't expect children to think things through. In choosing to be a tattoo artist, he takes on that responsibility.

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