PumpkinEater said:
jeez, everybody is so eager to hit the eject button!

i say give him another chance. you guys talked about it, give him a minute to work on it and see if he does and if he doesnt, then its time to leave.

everybody has to give/take in a relationship and evolve for it to survive. if this is a flaw of his and it came out, let him mature and deal w/ it before writing him off w/o a chance. if afterwards he continues to be an asshat, then by all means move on. there are bound to be other things that come up just b/c you two are two seperate human beings w/ your own thoughts - w/ each disagreement are you going to consider dumping him? probably not. i'm sure the next time you are wrong about something, you'd want him to give you another opportunity before blowing you off.

did you see this?

ChezGeek said:

schoolgirl said:
no way. I married a guy just like that. everything started out like that. it gets worse. divorce and restraining orders are expensive and scary lessons.

seconded. except i married a girl, not a guy.

this is not a flaw. this gets bad. i gave him "another chance" all the time for 3 years. breaking pictures and phones turned into spitting in my eyes and pushing me around.

[Edited on Jul 19, 2004 by schoolgirl]

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Lain

Astoria, NY

April 2004

JUL 19, 2004 04:37 PM

schoolgirl

Christmas Island

May 2003

JUL 19, 2004 07:31 PM