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turin

turin

Denver, CO
October 2003

JUL 07, 2004 08:13 PM

it's impossible to say without knowing your mom, but not telling her sounds like a precedent you don't want to set...

SnakePlissken

SnakePlissken

Corvallis, OR
December 2002

JUL 07, 2004 08:18 PM

Tell her. If you have a healthy relationship with your mom (like it sounds you do) there's nothing you can do that will make her love you less. After all which is worse, the days and weeks of hiding it and worrying or the possible couple days where she is a bit steamed? It won't be the first time shes pissed at you and probably won't be the last.

MistakesMade

MistakesMade

USA
February 2004

JUL 07, 2004 08:19 PM

I currently have a tond of piercings..... including my septum, nipples, 2 vertical hoods, tongue web and retired surface piercing my parents do not know about.... oh also a tattoo they don't know about. In my opinion, it's better they don't know. But I can't say without knowing your mom personally... good luck either way. smile

Trevallion

Trevallion

Murfreesboro, TN
February 2004

JUL 07, 2004 08:19 PM

I wouldn't do it. My dad is the same way, loves tattoos hates piercings, so I refrained from showing him my septum when I visit.

TheDishwasher

TheDishwasher

Frederick, MD
July 2004

JUL 07, 2004 08:22 PM

i say you should tell her, dont jepordize the friendship you have with her by trying to hide something so trivial... its your body, so even if she doesnt like piercings the worst she can really do is say that... good luck kiss

sidewalker123

sidewalker123

Kalamazoo, MI
January 2004

JUL 07, 2004 08:23 PM

Why NOT? She's probably done things you don't like either.

serenity_star

serenity_star

Dolton, IL
July 2004

JUL 07, 2004 08:25 PM

tell her. honesty is key. my mom and i are the same way about that type of stuff. i got certain "body mods" i knew she wouldn't like but, she got over it in time. if you want to keep the relatioinship strong, tell her. explain to her you didn't want to tell her for whatever reason, if you have the type of relationship you say, she'd understand more. good luck in whatever you choose to do. smile

judypatricia

judypatricia

Brookline, MA
January 2004

JUL 07, 2004 08:26 PM

And here I thought I'd be strolling into a thread about virginity. Hmph.

I'd just tell her.

Pip

Pip

Framingham, MA
OLD SKOOL

JUL 07, 2004 08:27 PM

I do not understand the tattoos are ok, but piercings are bad attitude. PIERCINGS ARE TEMPORARY!! Tattoos are forever. People that hate piercings but think tattos are cool really bug me. So what, you hate needles, get over it.
/rant

Seriously, it's a surface piercing so you aren't going to have it that long. Normally I'd say tell her and tell her what I said above but in much nicer terms. But it's a surface piercing so hide it.

turin

turin

Denver, CO
October 2003

JUL 07, 2004 08:27 PM

Xixax said:

coughee said:
it's impossible to say without knowing your mom, but not telling her sounds like a precedent you don't want to set...



I was kinda thinking the same thing.

Mom, she's generally very open minded, very smart, a lot of fun. In the past, she never cared when my hair was pink, when I dressed up to go to the Dungeon, came home with a tattoo, dated a girl, play poker once a week. She has gone to punk shows, gone to sing karaoke with my friends, realized "jaegar is good" on her 48th birthday.

On the other hand, she is somewhat of a public figure in this town.



after all that, sounds to me like she could handle not liking your piercings... of course, my mom's a southern baptist, so I'm not really sure how these things are supposed to work!

sidewalker123

sidewalker123

Kalamazoo, MI
January 2004

JUL 07, 2004 08:35 PM

Xixax said:

sidewalker123 said:
Why NOT? She's probably done things you don't like either.



True!!!


K, I'm going to tell her.
SHe's in a good mood and I'm leaving to play poker in an hour anyway.

I'll let you know what happens



Good mood is good timing. Good idea.

turin

turin

Denver, CO
October 2003

JUL 07, 2004 08:39 PM

damn, this site is useful as fuck.