boy did i fuck up.

I yelled at my mother in law.



at dinner.

in a restaurant.

What the fuck do i do now. This is a bad situation.

Applogize and give her some nice flowers.

Send her flowers. and apologize in person. She is pissed off I know, and believe me.. if shes on of those parents who try to persuade their daughter about someone... good luck.

I dunno. I aint married

Did she deserve it?

yipes. The pride must be swallowed. Flowers must be bought? Appologies must be made, to your mother-in-law and wife

apologize! and ask your wife what she thinks her mom would like best. then do that.

I actually did apologize. Several times.
I'm writing her a letter since written words always seem to carry more weight.
But where am i going to find flowers when everything is closed on the fourth of july?

Don't you have superstores with flower departments that are open practically 24/7/365? Granted, they are not the greatest quality, but they may suffice.

There are rules in marriage and you crossed the next to worse one to cross. The worst rule ever to break is of course the one where you fuck her/his dead grandmother. GOOD LUCK

Go out n pickem.

What happened to the days when husbands were expected to hate their mother-in-laws?

Don't apologize. Just look at this incident as the first step towards the following decades of mutual hatred.

In fact, yell at your mother-in-law again for making you feel bad about the first yelling.

French Foreign Legion

im sure you had a valid reason.

that or just a moment of insanity.

either way. "shrug"

seconded

Could you come yell at my mother-in-law now too?

u might want to head to another country until she has forgiven u then sneak back into the states with some exotic flowers that u can only get from that country

fuck that....why did you do it? if she deserved it, fuck the apology. let her apologize.

Everything should be open in Mexico or Canada.... just jump in the car and head north or south....

Indeed. Hopefully you're not married and the relationship will eventually crumble and you'll no longer be left in this situation.

And a friendly warning - under no circumstances try to justify to the family that what you did was ok, or god forbid, justified.

Ditto.

If she deserved it she deserved it. No since worrying about it the past is the past.

well...seeing as you are already in the doghouse, this is an opportune time to let her know how you really feel about anything else thats been bothering you.

more important than your MIL being upset at you, is your wife?

Actually, my wife isn't angry at me at all. She wishes I hadn't acted the ass, but she was just as bothered by the same thing that made me yell at her. Even so, this will make the rest of the weekend particularly hellish, since they are here visiting, although staying with her aunt. And I really don't want to become a wedge and an issue between my wife and herm other.

Don't worry, you still didn't fuck up as bad as that SG member who posted a picture of his wife (also an SG member) in a thread and encouraged people to go to her journal and post how hot she is.