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USA
December 2003

MAY 09, 2004 08:05 PM

Thanks to painbearer for the link:
A New York couple has been ordered by a judge to stop having children. The couple have four children, all in foster homes. Three of the children (aged one, two, four, and five) tested positive for cocaine.

"The facts of this case and the reality of parenthood cry out for family planning education," Monroe County Family Court Judge Marilyn O'Connor ruled. "This court believes the constitutional right to have children is overcome when society must bear the financial and everyday burden of care."

The New York Civil Liberties Union is outraged. They state that it flies in the face of any precedent, stating that such a ruling violates the U.S. Constitution and the New York Constitution which permits anyone to have as many children as they'd like for no purpose, except homosexuals.

TANK_Ex_Mortis

TANK_Ex_Mortis

Yellow Springs, OH
January 2004

MAY 09, 2004 08:11 PM

Best judge ever.

Al

Al

SUICIDEGIRL

Christmas Island

MAY 09, 2004 08:12 PM

*cries*

countervail

countervail

Irvine, CA
May 2004

MAY 09, 2004 08:15 PM

It's obvious that it violates the Constitution, but at the same time...who the fuck are these people?

accessdavid

accessdavid

Dallas, TX
January 2003

MAY 09, 2004 08:33 PM

Why can't the parents simply be jailed for child endangerment? Cocaine? I'd say you have a strong case.

Clearly, these parents wouldn't be able to breed in prison. And the kids get to escape from their psycho-parents.

But instead, a judge ordering parents to not have children sets an ugly prededent for the government interferring with our lives and decisions. I'm not cool with that.

FallFromGrace

FallFromGrace

Seattle, WA
March 2004

MAY 09, 2004 08:34 PM

Well, are they purposely having kids so that they can fuck their offspring over?

They Obviously don't want these children, all they want to do is snort cocaine and fuck... The state is going to pay for 4 children now, which even in the crappy and hellish state foster care programs is quite a bit. Not to mention the irrepairable damage that's most likey been done to 3 of these children because their mom couldn't stop doing drugs.

The ACLU might have a problem with this, but Honestly, I don't care. This couple has demonstrated that they are shitty parents; Not only do they not care enough to prevent these births through contraceptions or abortion, but they choose to damage these children and then throw them at the state as it's responsibility. If I was the judge, I'd have thrown them in jail for child abuse.

mQx

mqx

Seattle, WA
January 2003

MAY 09, 2004 08:49 PM

I'm not a lawyer, but the judge isn't preventing them from having children. She's simply punishing them for it... a small, but important distinction. The charge won't be "having children"... it'll be "contempt of court".

Plus, all they need to do is prove they can parent the other four and all is forgiven.

Honestly, good for the judge. I don't buy the slippery slope argument that says next stop sterilization. Besides, we need a license to drive a car, but we can unload drug addicted tax burdens every nine months?

We take kids away from shitty parents all the time. They end up in foster care, as the other four of their children have. I'm okay with a pre-emptive strike.

Nex_Flamma

Nex_Flamma

Portland, OR
February 2003

MAY 09, 2004 09:00 PM

People fucking suck.

_Sarah_

_Sarah_

Kalamazoo, MI
January 2003

MAY 09, 2004 09:10 PM

painbearer said:
The New York Civil Liberties Union is outraged. They state that it flies in the face of any precedent, stating that such a ruling violates the U.S. Constitution and the New York Constitution which permits anyone to have as many children as they'd like for no purpose, except homosexuals.


Homosexuals aren't allowed to have as many kids as they want? Huh?

Anyway, I'm surprised the Civil Liberties Union doesn't give a rat's ass about the kids. Where the hell are their priorities?

PoliSciGuy

PoliSciGuy

Severna Park, MD
January 2004

MAY 09, 2004 09:57 PM

david said:
a judge ordering parents to not have children sets an ugly prededent for the government interferring with our lives and decisions. I'm not cool with that.



Right with you there.

But the Judge had a point about family planning education. Maybe if a little more personal responsibility and strong decision making-skills were taught in outr schools, we wouldn't have to resort to outrageous lows to cope with people who make poor decsions.



[Edited on May 09, 2004 10:01PM]

Maurauder

Maurauder

I'm lost
August 2003

MAY 09, 2004 10:02 PM

Yeah, as much as these people suck, Im inclined to disagree with this ruling. Put the parents in jail for a very long time on the charges of child abuse. The idea that the courts, and by extension the government, can 'decide' who can and cannot bear children, does not sit well with me.

Infra

Infra

La Crosse, WI
November 2003

MAY 09, 2004 10:17 PM

Mqx said:
I don't buy the slippery slope argument that says next stop sterilization.



A judge has offered that as an option to jail time. All but one guy took it.

If it's a slippery slope, we're already sliding.

"Foellger said he had considered offering women accused of multiple instances of abuse or neglect the option of having a tubal ligation. But he rejected that, saying it's an invasive procedure that could have unknown consequences.

A vasectomy, on the other hand, is simple and reversible, he said."


Switchcomb

Switchcomb

Baton Rouge, LA
December 2003

MAY 09, 2004 10:25 PM

Thats kinda fuck how they say anyone except homosexuals

mQx

mqx

Seattle, WA
January 2003

MAY 09, 2004 11:02 PM

Infra said:

Mqx said:
I don't buy the slippery slope argument that says next stop sterilization.



A judge has offered that as an option to jail time. All but one guy took it.

If it's a slippery slope, we're already sliding.



Not the same thing at all. Normally he would go to jail. Now he can go to jail or get clipped. As long as he's given a choice I'm not even going to bat an eyelash.

Just for the record, I don't think banning assault rifles will eventually lead to all handguns being banned, either; so I'm not (usually) a believer in the slippery slope thing in general.

Infra

Infra

La Crosse, WI
November 2003

MAY 09, 2004 11:57 PM

I'm not a big believer in the slippery slope argument, either. (I'm not even saying that this is one... just that if it is, the process has already started.)

As you wrote, if the parents in this situation can step up and take care of the children, they're in the clear. They can choose to do so; or they can choose to not have anymore children; or they can choose to violate and suffer the legal penalties.

The fact that these men were given a choice doesn't make the situation any different, after all... this couple was also given the choice of being sterilized at no cost to them. If anything, the difference between these cases is in the degree of punishment meeted out for the other choice, and the resulting degree to which sterilization seemed a more reasonable option to the defendant.

By making the alternative to sterilization less viable the effective degree of choice is curtailed. I think that that may fit the definition of a slippery slope argument.

[Edited after reviewing the situation a bit more.]


[Edited on May 10, 2004 by Infra]

kateyez

kateyez

San Diego, CA
April 2004

MAY 10, 2004 12:07 AM

painbearer said:
A New York couple has been ordered by a judge to stop having children. The couple have four children, all in foster homes. Three of the children (aged one, two, four, and five) tested positive for cocaine.

"The facts of this case and the reality of parenthood cry out for family planning education," Monroe County Family Court Judge Marilyn O'Connor ruled. "This court believes the constitutional right to have children is overcome when society must bear the financial and everyday burden of care."

The New York Civil Liberties Union is outraged. They state that it flies in the face of any precedent, stating that such a ruling violates the U.S. Constitution and the New York Constitution which permits anyone to have as many children as they'd like for no purpose, except homosexuals.




good for him....if it happens again...maybe he should castrate the man and tie the brods tubes...or give her a historectomy...??? spelling not sure of....but remove all her stuff too!! theres no reason to put a defensless baby through the pain of detoxing...theres also no reason for these people to have any more kids if all they obviously care about is their fix...maybe they should be put through the pain of what their babies went through.
okay i've vented for the day! mad

Deathhippie

Deathhippie

San Diego, CA
April 2003

MAY 10, 2004 12:49 AM

Mqx said:
I'm not a lawyer, but the judge isn't preventing them from having children. She's simply punishing them for it... a small, but important distinction. The charge won't be "having children"... it'll be "contempt of court".

Plus, all they need to do is prove they can parent the other four and all is forgiven.

Honestly, good for the judge. I don't buy the slippery slope argument that says next stop sterilization. Besides, we need a license to drive a car, but we can unload drug addicted tax burdens every nine months?

We take kids away from shitty parents all the time. They end up in foster care, as the other four of their children have. I'm okay with a pre-emptive strike.



Damn fucking straight. Shit, sterlization wouldn't be that bad either. Sew her vag shut, and cut the guys cock off, stop both fuckers from breeding ever again.

Muzencab

Muzencab

Federal Way, WA
November 2003

MAY 10, 2004 01:07 AM

Kill those parents. Honestly. What the fuck kind of people are we letting run around? Fucking KILL them. We dont need one year olds testing positive for cola!!!!

This kind of bullshit WE DONT NEED!!!!

Muzencab

Muzencab

Federal Way, WA
November 2003

MAY 10, 2004 01:12 AM

kateyez said:

painbearer said:
A New York couple has been ordered by a judge to stop having children. The couple have four children, all in foster homes. Three of the children (aged one, two, four, and five) tested positive for cocaine.

"The facts of this case and the reality of parenthood cry out for family planning education," Monroe County Family Court Judge Marilyn O'Connor ruled. "This court believes the constitutional right to have children is overcome when society must bear the financial and everyday burden of care."

The New York Civil Liberties Union is outraged. They state that it flies in the face of any precedent, stating that such a ruling violates the U.S. Constitution and the New York Constitution which permits anyone to have as many children as they'd like for no purpose, except homosexuals.




good for him....if it happens again...maybe he should castrate the man and tie the brods tubes...or give her a historectomy...??? spelling not sure of....but remove all her stuff too!! theres no reason to put a defensless baby through the pain of detoxing...theres also no reason for these people to have any more kids if all they obviously care about is their fix...maybe they should be put through the pain of what their babies went through.
okay i've vented for the day! mad




DONT LET THIS SHIT HAPPEN AGAIN!!! FOR FUCKS SAKE!!! God damn, again? Why should it ever happen ONCE? Sterilization? No. Hell no. What kind of bullshit excuse is this that the courts are using the Constitution as some kind of rights shield? Come on people WE are all smarter than that.

Jesus Christ on a crutch!!!

FonzieMania

FonzieMania

I'm lost
February 2004

MAY 10, 2004 01:58 AM

hahaha, here's to anti-abortion laws! hip hip!

Neyrissa

Neyrissa

SUICIDEGIRL

United Kingdom

MAY 10, 2004 02:15 AM

I agree witht he judge...I think they should both be sterilised...

Motionboy

Motionboy

Vancouver, BC
January 2004

MAY 10, 2004 03:13 AM

I think its pretty fucked up that children aged 1 , 2 , and 4 tested fucking positive for cocaine!

This sort of thing pisses me off to no end , if you cant look after the children DONT MAKE EM! its the biggest responsibility in the word and If i were the judge i would order the mans penis cut with a rusty blade and feed it back to him with rotten milk , arrrrrgh mad

madmann_83

madmann_83

Moseley, VA
January 2004

MAY 10, 2004 04:31 AM

go judge!!!

delusion

delusion

Santa Barbara, CA
March 2004

MAY 10, 2004 04:46 AM

wait are we still pretending that the constitution is the supreme law of the land? someone may want to go remind bush about that. (see: premptive war, guantanamo bay, murdering pows, integration of church & state) but hey i can see the logic, cut funding for rehabilitation and social services & then punish the impoverished & the addicted...wait, there is no logic in that is there?

see_roxxeekitty

see_roxxeekitty

Germany
April 2004

MAY 10, 2004 05:52 AM

I can see the civil rights issue but these people need to be punished and I think they got off way too easy. I see nothing wrong with the offer of sterilization or jail except that they should HAVE to spend some time in jail, in my opinion.
These people are fucked up parents and don't deserve children. This is cheesy and cliche but true, children are a blessing and it makes me sick that two shitbags like these people are making babies and then screwing them up.

People make a choice to do coke, people make a choice to proceed with a pregnancy even when they know damn well that they won't stop using while the baby is growing in the womb, people make a choice not to give them up for adoption but to instead hang onto them and neglect them. The addicted have a serious problem but they made the decision to become that way. They made the decision to screw up innocent children's lives. So, yes, they should be punished.

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