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Martyn

Martyn

Germany
May 2005

AUG 09, 2009 08:21 AM

It's about a girl I thought she would be one of my best friends. But now she married and don't invite me to her wedding. I'm sooo peeved now. But don't know what I should to do.

Now I'm so angry about her, that I don't want to talk with her, but otherwise I won't be evade forever.

hor

hor

USA
June 2005

AUG 09, 2009 09:32 AM


Thistle

Thistle

SUICIDEGIRL

California, USA

AUG 09, 2009 09:34 AM

If you two are really close, you should be able to ask her why she didn't invite you. Don't be rude about it, just ask if there was a reason. Maybe she just had a super tight budget.

Or, maybe you aren't as close as you thought.

Cash

Cash

USA
OLD SKOOL

AUG 09, 2009 09:45 AM

Martyn said:
It's about a girl I thought she would be one of my best friends. But now she married and don't invite me to her wedding. I'm sooo peeved now. But don't know what I should to do.

Now I'm so angry about her, that I don't want to talk with her, but otherwise I won't be evade forever.



You're probably not a close friends as you think you are.

That, or perhaps you just didn't make the cut due to budgetary constraints on the wedding. I haven't been invited to every single one of my friends' weddings...AND...being the best man at one wedding showed me how brutal the guest list can be for a couple.

I watched my best friend & his wife agonize over who to cut...especially when it came down to the end.

dholokov

dholokov

Toronto, ON
April 2003

AUG 09, 2009 09:50 AM

Yeah, either she doesn't really like you all that much or she just had to cut people. Remember, if the bride and groom invite an equal number and every person invited brings a +1 who wouldn't otherwise be on the guest list, then out of every 100 people there she's only choosing 25.

sitar

sitar

Philadelphia, PA
June 2004

AUG 09, 2009 10:30 AM

clearly you should make a dramatic appearance when they ask "if anyone knows of any reason"

Coyotemike

Coyotemike

USA
May 2006

AUG 09, 2009 12:11 PM

I think a tattoo of her face is in order.

Otter

Otter

SUICIDEGIRL

I'm lost

AUG 10, 2009 03:35 PM

Ooor, it could be that her fiance has a problem with you... Like, she could have revealed to her fiance that she was secretly in love with you 10 years ago... However, the above explanations are probably more logical and less dramatic!

MrStitches

MrStitches

Brooklyn, NY
November 2003

AUG 10, 2009 04:30 PM

Otter said:
Ooor, it could be that her fiance has a problem with you... Like, she could have revealed to her fiance that she was secretly in love with you 10 years ago... However, the above explanations are probably more logical and less dramatic!



I was thinking something along those lines. Without the secret love part though. Just a guy who is jealous of his fiancee's close male friend. It wouldn't be the first time.

VagabondKing

VagabondKing

Memphis, TN
December 2007

AUG 10, 2009 06:54 PM

well I think you could refine your grammar a bit, and if someone if avoiding you there is usually a reason for it even if you don't see it at the moment. i know it's not the comforting response you were hoping for or probably not the nicest thing to say but there usually is a reason as to why someone would ignore another person even if it doesn't make sense right away or seem fair.

Thistle

Thistle

SUICIDEGIRL

California, USA

AUG 10, 2009 09:12 PM

VagabondKing said:
well I think you could refine your grammar a bit



If he's really posting from Germany it seems likely that English isn't his first language. How good is your grammar in German?

VagabondKing

VagabondKing

Memphis, TN
December 2007

AUG 10, 2009 10:02 PM

Thistle said:

VagabondKing said:
well I think you could refine your grammar a bit



If he's really posting from Germany it seems likely that English isn't his first language. How good is your grammar in German?



good enough

Cash

Cash

USA
OLD SKOOL

AUG 10, 2009 10:07 PM

Thistle said:

VagabondKing said:
well I think you could refine your grammar a bit



If he's really posting from Germany it seems likely that English isn't his first language. How good is your grammar in German?



Es ist gut.

PaulNikon

PaulNikon

Melbourne, FL
February 2003

AUG 10, 2009 10:36 PM

Maybe she knows how poor you are. And knows the expense would be a burden on you.

RudieCantFail

RudieCantFail

Baton Rouge, LA
January 2006

AUG 10, 2009 11:07 PM

VagabondKing said:
well I think you could refine your grammar a bit, and if someone if avoiding you



1). Don't badger non-native speakers about grammar.

2). If you do harp on anyone about grammar and spelling, make sure your posts are beyond reproach in that respect. Otherwise, you look like a douche.

LimoWreck

LimoWreck

I'm lost
October 2007

AUG 10, 2009 11:14 PM

VagabondKing said:

Thistle said:

VagabondKing said:
well I think you could refine your grammar a bit



If he's really posting from Germany it seems likely that English isn't his first language. How good is your grammar in German?



good enough



good enough to be a prick about it though? i somehow doubt it.