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StarBelliedBoy

StarBelliedBoy

Philadelphia, PA
December 2003

MAY 07, 2009 07:56 PM

sweetloretta said:
When I was in college, I had no clue what i wanted to do either. Every discipline had bits and pieces that i liked, but that was it. Eventually, I realized that what i really wanted to study was Human Sexuality. There are about 3 colleges that actually have degrees in that and they were all too far away for me to attend so I created one at the University in my town. It was incredibly satisfying. So, I guess my point is that you may not have to shove yourself into a pre-made degree if it doesnt seem right. Just another option. Good Luck!



Without some idea of what kind of career one could get from an oddball degree like that, I don't think that's much of an answer to the op's question.

Thistle

Thistle

SUICIDEGIRL

California, USA

MAY 07, 2009 09:19 PM

Toku666 said:


Thistle, you're absolutely right, but life's opportunities have both effort requirements and timing requirements.



Very true. It's taken me a long time to be ready in my life to progress towards my dream career. But I think the OP sounds like she's considering various careers because of the financial reward, and is worried about them being too stressful or taking too much school- that doesn't sound like a person who knows what they want to do but is not ready to pursue it yet.

That said your points are spot on.

CobraR

CobraR

Charleston, TN
August 2006

MAY 07, 2009 09:41 PM

How do you know what to do with your life?



You don't. You'll stumble through it, just like the rest of us.

Cash

Cash

USA
OLD SKOOL

MAY 08, 2009 11:01 AM

Tez said:
I'm going to be a pirate. Sail the seven seas. Search for treasure and what not.



Don't forget to rape, pillage and/or plunder.

MisterSatan

MisterSatan

Portland, OR
August 2002

MAY 08, 2009 12:04 PM

Tez said:
I'm going to be a pirate. Sail the seven seas. Search for treasure and what not.



Funny, you don't look Somali.

integrated341

integrated341

Buffalo, NY
May 2009

MAY 08, 2009 04:33 PM

I was at this point about a year ago. i was 2 semesters away from my engineering BS and i realized that i didn't like what i was doing. Up until this point i had pursued a very specialized field. Lucky for me i still had some time to take some extra classes and get my hands dirty in some subjects that i had not delved into much before. I found out that it wasn't i hated what i was doing but more that i didn't have the passion for that specialized field like i had thought.

Remember that both of the fields that you brought up have multiple job-fields within them. Don't always just look at the mainstream jobs, there are always quirky little specialties that can match what you "should" be doing with what you "want" to be doing.

That being said piracy seems like a good choice... let your jolly roger fly!

ElizaTheTroll

ElizaTheTroll

Australia
January 2006

MAY 08, 2009 08:04 PM

MisterSatan said:

Tez said:
I'm going to be a pirate. Sail the seven seas. Search for treasure and what not.



Funny, you don't look Somali.



She wants to do her part in fighting global warming, which I find very admirable.

Bill_the_Cat

Bill_the_Cat

New Zealand
May 2005

MAY 08, 2009 09:14 PM

MisterSatan said:

Tez said:
I'm going to be a pirate. Sail the seven seas. Search for treasure and what not.



Funny, you don't look Somali.



Racist.

sweetloretta

sweetloretta

Seattle, WA
June 2003

MAY 08, 2009 09:34 PM

StarBelliedBoy said:

sweetloretta said:
When I was in college, I had no clue what i wanted to do either. Every discipline had bits and pieces that i liked, but that was it. Eventually, I realized that what i really wanted to study was Human Sexuality. There are about 3 colleges that actually have degrees in that and they were all too far away for me to attend so I created one at the University in my town. It was incredibly satisfying. So, I guess my point is that you may not have to shove yourself into a pre-made degree if it doesnt seem right. Just another option. Good Luck!



Without some idea of what kind of career one could get from an oddball degree like that, I don't think that's much of an answer to the op's question.



Human Sexuality is an "oddball" degree?
My point was if she found something in her studies that she enjoyed and was passionate about, but didnt have a pre-made degree in, she has the possibilty to create one that fit what she was into.

Tiger_Fodder

Tiger_Fodder

Braintree, MA
June 2007

MAY 08, 2009 09:43 PM

StarBelliedBoy said:

sweetloretta said:
When I was in college, I had no clue what i wanted to do either. Every discipline had bits and pieces that i liked, but that was it. Eventually, I realized that what i really wanted to study was Human Sexuality. There are about 3 colleges that actually have degrees in that and they were all too far away for me to attend so I created one at the University in my town. It was incredibly satisfying. So, I guess my point is that you may not have to shove yourself into a pre-made degree if it doesnt seem right. Just another option. Good Luck!



Without some idea of what kind of career one could get from an oddball degree like that, I don't think that's much of an answer to the op's question.



Oddball? And what do you do, sir? whatever

It is ridiculous how people pass judgment, particularly of this kind on this site.

motorfirebox

motorfirebox

Pittsburgh, PA
March 2004

MAY 08, 2009 10:13 PM

don't confuse "what you do with your life" with "how you make money". for a lot of people, they're the same thing; i, for instance, enjoy web design and general computer stuff, so that's how i make my income. a friend of mine, by contrast, has never held a job for longer than six months that i know of, but she's led an amazing, fulfilling life--she works for a while, saves up money, and then gets a green card in Australia or Egypt or Brazil or wherever sounds interesting. she moves to that country, stays there and works for a few months, then comes back and starts it over again. what is she "doing with her life"? she's having a blast, is what she's doing.

Exning

Exning

SUICIDEGIRL

California, USA

MAY 08, 2009 10:55 PM

My mom changed her major 4 times and finally got the career she wanted when she was about 40. So far, im on my second major change with no job experience and wasting my mothers money *sigh*

StarBelliedBoy

StarBelliedBoy

Philadelphia, PA
December 2003

MAY 09, 2009 02:05 AM

Tiger_Fodder said:

StarBelliedBoy said:

sweetloretta said:
When I was in college, I had no clue what i wanted to do either. Every discipline had bits and pieces that i liked, but that was it. Eventually, I realized that what i really wanted to study was Human Sexuality. There are about 3 colleges that actually have degrees in that and they were all too far away for me to attend so I created one at the University in my town. It was incredibly satisfying. So, I guess my point is that you may not have to shove yourself into a pre-made degree if it doesnt seem right. Just another option. Good Luck!



Without some idea of what kind of career one could get from an oddball degree like that, I don't think that's much of an answer to the op's question.



Oddball? And what do you do, sir? whatever

It is ridiculous how people pass judgment, particularly of this kind on this site.



Yeah, whatever. Picking a college major is not the same as figuring out what to do with your life, and attempting to design your own program in liberal arts, especially one with so few realistic applications will likely do nothing but make the gulf between the two even wider.

Tiger_Fodder

Tiger_Fodder

Braintree, MA
June 2007

MAY 09, 2009 04:37 AM

StarBelliedBoy said:

Tiger_Fodder said:

StarBelliedBoy said:

sweetloretta said:
When I was in college, I had no clue what i wanted to do either. Every discipline had bits and pieces that i liked, but that was it. Eventually, I realized that what i really wanted to study was Human Sexuality. There are about 3 colleges that actually have degrees in that and they were all too far away for me to attend so I created one at the University in my town. It was incredibly satisfying. So, I guess my point is that you may not have to shove yourself into a pre-made degree if it doesnt seem right. Just another option. Good Luck!



Without some idea of what kind of career one could get from an oddball degree like that, I don't think that's much of an answer to the op's question.



Oddball? And what do you do, sir? whatever

It is ridiculous how people pass judgment, particularly of this kind on this site.



Yeah, whatever. Picking a college major is not the same as figuring out what to do with your life, and attempting to design your own program in liberal arts, especially one with so few realistic applications will likely do nothing but make the gulf between the two even wider.



Gee thanks dad!
/dripping sarcasm

And I ask again, what do you do?

Judging from your profile, I can't imagine you have more life experience than Ms. Loretta. And as you so intelligently commented "yeah, whatever."

Mark_plus_Beer

Mark_plus_Beer

United Kingdom
August 2005

MAY 09, 2009 04:56 AM

I'm more worried about turning 27 this year then what i will be doing for the rest of my life.

PaulNikon

PaulNikon

Palm Bay, FL
February 2003

MAY 09, 2009 05:26 AM

Thistle said:
If whatever you're thinking about doing sounds like too much school, or too much work, or like it doesn't pay enough, or too hard, then it's not what you really want to do. If it was, none of that would stop you - you would want to go after it anyway.




I totally agree with this.

watchtheskies

watchtheskies

United Kingdom
March 2009

MAY 09, 2009 08:14 AM

Mark_plus_Beer said:
I'm more worried about turning 27 this year then what i will be doing for the rest of my life.



If you're not a rock star, then you don't have to worry about 27.

sweetloretta

sweetloretta

Seattle, WA
June 2003

MAY 09, 2009 08:58 AM

StarBelliedBoy said:

Tiger_Fodder said:

StarBelliedBoy said:

sweetloretta said:
When I was in college, I had no clue what i wanted to do either. Every discipline had bits and pieces that i liked, but that was it. Eventually, I realized that what i really wanted to study was Human Sexuality. There are about 3 colleges that actually have degrees in that and they were all too far away for me to attend so I created one at the University in my town. It was incredibly satisfying. So, I guess my point is that you may not have to shove yourself into a pre-made degree if it doesnt seem right. Just another option. Good Luck!



Without some idea of what kind of career one could get from an oddball degree like that, I don't think that's much of an answer to the op's question.



Oddball? And what do you do, sir? whatever

It is ridiculous how people pass judgment, particularly of this kind on this site.



Yeah, whatever. Picking a college major is not the same as figuring out what to do with your life, and attempting to design your own program in liberal arts, especially one with so few realistic applications will likely do nothing but make the gulf between the two even wider.



Lots of people start college not knowing what they want to do. Often times you have 2 years of GURs and working on an Associates wherein you take many courses in many disciplines. During this time, lots of people discover a love for something they may not have even thought about. I never suggested she choose my degree, which you think has "few realistic options.' Its not like I chose "Underwater Knitting in the late 1800's." I was sharing my story WITH HER as another option. Your problem with my posting was that you felt it didnt help her with her original question. So, how does your judgement on my choices and sharing my own story help her?

sldnhffg

sldnhffg

HOPEFUL

United Kingdom

MAY 10, 2009 01:20 PM

''if you're not sure what to do next in life, dont do anything, just try new things and give yourself time to decide. '' thats what someone told me anyway haha. Im another one of those indecisive teenagers.. i also thought of doing social work but heard that the workload is off the scale, and the stress rate of social workers is fucking collosal...so that was a nono for me.

if you're not sure about a particular career, do some voluntary work in the field you're intrested in- it can really help your desicion.. i thought of teaching, but after doing in-class support for an old teacher of mine, i realised it wasnt for me.

I've made a decision about university, and a career i want. Its not my first choice, as theres like 100 things ive always wanted to do, but cant rely on for a proper career... so what im saying is, think about what your motives are. If you want your dream job, work hard and cross your fingers. If you dont mind settling for someting different, it might be more practical and more stable.
good luck kiss

Kittie

Kittie

Stow, OH
August 2003

MAY 10, 2009 01:41 PM

Psychologists don't go to medical school. Psychiatrists do.

SilverBullet42

SilverBullet42

USA
December 2004

MAY 11, 2009 04:21 PM

Kittie said:
Psychologists don't go to medical school. Psychiatrists do.



That's exactly what I was going to bring up. I was going to ask what kind of degree in psychology she was pursuing that would require her to go to med school, as I am currently working on a psych degree, and nothing involves med school.

Sabine

Sabine

SUICIDEGIRL

USA

MAY 14, 2009 09:51 PM

I guess I'm wondering what you have against school. Sometimes you need to invest time in school. Don't worry about the money. Yes, you will probably need school loans, but you will not have to pay them back until you are employed post graduation.

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