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ModernPopCulture

ModernPopCulture

Syracuse, NY
OLD SKOOL

JUN 06, 2002 11:33 PM

So maybe I should be writing this now considering I just got homne and have had a few drinks but I just have to.

So here is the situation...I met this girl and she introduced me to her sister and I ws instantly taken with her. She is amazing!!! We get along so great and she is absoltuely beuatiful!!! We dont agree on everything but we accept our differences and have amazing talks about things. Whenever I look at her I just want to kiss her or tell her how I feel. I have told her that I have feelings for her and she knows in some way that I want to be more than friends.

We were out together this evening and the tension, at leats to me, is so strong!!! We are both hopeless romantics and I know we would be so great together. Sometimes some of the things she says seem like hints that I am supposed to pick up on but I am just not sure about it all. I think about her nonstop. Its a very new and strange feeling that I feel when we are together.

Well, I am off to eat a pint of ice cream and go to sleep...

DeaconKole

DeaconKole

Austin, TX
OLD SKOOL

JUN 06, 2002 11:58 PM

Uhhhh...you drank so much you forgot the advice part.


Sounds like you have everything pretty much under control, though. Just have fun. Until she breaks your heart. Then, ya gotta quit moping. Best advice I could give without knowing what advice you were seaking.

Oh yeah, never tell her she's not funny. I thought it was okay to tell a girl that, as long as you assured her everything else is perfect about her. Nope. Apparently, everything has to be perfect about them.

Eris

Eris

SUICIDEGIRL

Oregon, USA

JUN 07, 2002 02:58 AM

ok...so, the stars didn't have you in mind when creating the confident suitor. but don't dispair! virgos can have luck too, just keep in mind that astrology deems you to think about things way too much and be rather prudent when it comes to expressing your romantic feelings.

and i checked your stats against what you put as your dob. you're a libra in venus which is to your favor. libras are super social and charming, but very afraid of conflict (whereas signs like leo thrive on conflict).

my advice is to not worry about the outcome, let it happen and allow the libra in you to charm your way along.

i love astrology - eris

ModernPopCulture

ModernPopCulture

Syracuse, NY
OLD SKOOL

JUN 07, 2002 08:19 AM

Ah, you are right, I suppose I didnt ask about what kind of advice I was looking for.
When I am sitting there looking at her, so close I can feel her breath ever-so slightly, I just want to express it all in a kiss.

Is the possibilty of the most amazing relationship worth the risk of altering and mayvbe damaging one the best friendships I have ever had?

I suppose the greater the risk the greater the reward right?

DeaconKole

DeaconKole

Austin, TX
OLD SKOOL

JUN 07, 2002 10:08 AM

... or the harder you bite the dust.

Just "keepin' it real, yo."

Charlie_Stars

Charlie_Stars

USA
OLD SKOOL

JUN 07, 2002 10:31 AM

he who hesitates is lost.
study the Sun Tzu learn to conquer with out aggression.
F.A.B.

shade1

shade1

I'm lost
OLD SKOOL

JUN 07, 2002 11:31 AM

that's tite.

i never thought about applying sun tzu to relationships. like the lovely lady says, "love is a battlefield"...

complainey

complainey

Grand Rapids, MI
OLD SKOOL

JUN 07, 2002 01:11 PM

you should tell her you like her and want to take her out on a date or something. if you feel like she's hinting she probably is. girls hint a lot when they like a guy and they expect them to pick up on it..they rarely do.
good luck with everything. smile

ChaosMonkey

chaosmonkey

New Albany, IN
OLD SKOOL

JUN 07, 2002 01:26 PM

Yeah, lainey's right. A girl has to have her hand down my pants before I'm even sure there's a possibility she likes me. Just dumb, I am.

If you're picking up on something, or think something might be there to pick up on, you're doing pretty good. Better than most, I'd say.

cosmicslop

cosmicslop

I'm lost
OLD SKOOL

JUN 07, 2002 01:52 PM

Don't hesitate. Girls will lose interest if you don't make a move. Most women think that they are worth you making a fool out of yourself. Also, if they get to you comfortable with you, girls just end up wanting to be your buddy.

ereetplus

ereetplus

Pasadena, CA
July 2002

JUN 07, 2002 02:46 PM

cosmicslop said:
Don't hesitate. Girls will lose interest if you don't make a move. Most women think that they are worth you making a fool out of yourself. Also, if they get to you comfortable with you, girls just end up wanting to be your buddy.



Like the man says do not be relegated to the cul-de-sac of doom that is "buddy"

Marla

Marla

SUICIDEGIRL

I'm lost

JUN 07, 2002 07:02 PM

Just kiss her. Really soft and not slobbery. A good kiss can make all the difference. Don't get worked up over it either. Just go for it as soon as it's physically possible.

just_b_cool

just_b_cool

I'm lost
OLD SKOOL

JUN 07, 2002 08:36 PM

Marla said:
Just kiss her. Really soft and not slobbery. A good kiss can make all the difference. Don't get worked up over it either. Just go for it as soon as it's physically possible.



I'm going to have to agree with Marla on this one. If she responds great, if not... well, the world won't end. Believe me, getting a 'No, sorry, I don't like you in that way.', is whole lot better than lying awake wondering what could have been. No regrets.

ModernPopCulture

ModernPopCulture

Syracuse, NY
OLD SKOOL

JUN 07, 2002 11:55 PM

WOW!! I appreciate the help.

It all made me think of something I read on the sign at the village drycleaners "The worst risks are those not taken" or something of that sort....