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Orchid1

Orchid1

Portland, OR
August 2002

DEC 05, 2003 04:28 PM

So is this a real show or is it an idea for a show? Maybe this should have been obvious to me by now...

Michael_DeSade

Michael_DeSade

Seattle, WA
OLD SKOOL

DEC 05, 2003 04:29 PM

eh, I think the people being degraded are the men who pay to see something so trivial. It's similar to the "Women on Trampolines" bit on The Man Show.
If I want to see a woman's breast bouncing, I prefer to be the one making them bounce.
For the same twenty bucks you could get a table dance.
ARRR!!!
[edited because my two fingered typing system can't keep up with my three fingered brain]

[Edited on Dec 05, 2003 by Sadistic_Bastard]

Morgan

Morgan

SUICIDEGIRL

Illinois, USA

DEC 05, 2003 04:44 PM

DebraJean said:
well what if the hardon causer likes being degraded.



That's a hard issue to figure out. On one hand, there is nothing wrong with enjoying feeling degraded. On the other hand...there's someone who, in the end, does have respect for you degrading you (a partner, a lover, whatever) and then there's someone who has absolutely no respect for you degrading you. There's also the issue of how this kind of presentation of women affects ALL women...and there's no real black and white easy answer here.

For me, it depends on context. An example: there are schoolgirl sets on here. Because they are on SG, where models are treated and portrayed with respect, I have no problem with this. I would also have no problem with a bondage set here, etc. Then there are sites that present their models as "cum hungry sluts" and rely on treating them with disrespect. Now, I don't know how the people who actually MAKE those sites treat their models, they could be extremely respectful. But the context the images are presented in can be a problem, because so many sites like that portray women as nothing but holes and sex objects.

dirtyprettything

dirtyprettything

Los Angeles, CA
September 2003

DEC 05, 2003 04:44 PM

I'm just going to copy this post again - ya know, for shits 'n giggles


Doppelganger said:

s5 said:
considering that we actively kick off members who vocally disrespect the girls here, i think it's pretty clear that we'll happily take a paycut if respect isn't paying the bills.



im not trying to stir any shit here, just bring some facts to light about 'taking a paycut if respect isn't paying the bills'

It was said in a recent thread that Zottees are alowed to keep (and pay for) an anonymous account, they just loose their posting privies.

also, as said by sean, copied below, zotted members whom start another account under a different name are not automaticaly deleted, and are allowed to stay (and pay) so long as they behave. as far as I know, this cycle is infinite. hey, i took business 101, theres nothing wrong with a business giving its customers plenty of oppertunities to offer up their coffers.

Quote from Sean:

Look if someone was booted off the site for making a girl uncomfortable there is nothing stopping that person from resigning up and curtailing their behavior a little. As long as no one complained about the new member account, no one would care. I have seen this happen countless times on the site. Someone signs up, pisses off a girl, gets booted, signs up again, everyone knows, behaves for a while, stays on the site, eventually pisses off another girl, gets booted, signs up again, etc. etc. etc.



eeek

Morgan

Morgan

SUICIDEGIRL

Illinois, USA

DEC 05, 2003 04:46 PM

Ugh, the zotting issue again.

There are people who are zotted permanently, too, and got re-zotted if they try to come back.

dirtyprettything

dirtyprettything

Los Angeles, CA
September 2003

DEC 05, 2003 04:49 PM

we're not talking about zotting, morgan.

Morgan

Morgan

SUICIDEGIRL

Illinois, USA

DEC 05, 2003 04:50 PM

Isn't the post above me and the one it came from about zotting? I was just pointing out that SG does lose money when they uber-zot someone, and generally people get uber-zotted for being really disrespectful/creepy to SGs.

Dante0

Dante0

Sandusky, OH
September 2003

DEC 05, 2003 04:50 PM

Doppelganger said:
It was said in a recent thread that Zottees are alowed to keep (and pay for) an anonymous account, they just loose their posting privies.



If they're not posting, chances are they're not bothering anyone. Problem solved.


also, as said by sean, copied below, zotted members whom start another account under a different name are not automaticaly deleted, and are allowed to stay (and pay) so long as they behave. as far as I know, this cycle is infinite.



Again, if they behave, problem solved. And it was said in that thread that there have been cases of someone having their IP blocked. That means no more account...ever.

When I was relocating alcoholics for a living, almost everyone booted returned to the club another day. Sometimes they were good, so they were allowed to stay. Other times they were not, so they were encouraged to leave again. Sometimes it's just a case of a person losing his composure. Other times, people are just assholes by their very nature. We took polaroids of people we were forced to eject on a regular basis and posted them by the door so the doorman knew not to admit them in the first place. It's an excelent system: it keeps people who make a simple mistake in judgement from being punished for life, while eliminating the people who were their parents' mistake in judgement.

Morgan said:
Isn't the post above me and the one it came from about zotting?



Yes, but it was in response to s5's comment that SG would sooner take a pay cut than allow a model to be degraded.

[Edited on Dec 05, 2003 by Dante0]

Michael_DeSade

Michael_DeSade

Seattle, WA
OLD SKOOL

DEC 05, 2003 04:51 PM

dpt, you are certainly tenacious in your toils.
ARRR!!!

dirtyprettything

dirtyprettything

Los Angeles, CA
September 2003

DEC 05, 2003 04:57 PM

I'm talking about this part:

s5 said:
considering that we actively kick off members who vocally disrespect the girls here, i think it's pretty clear that we'll happily take a paycut if respect isn't paying the bills.

but the bottom line is that, unless you enact an across the board policy of blocking their IPaddress, they easily can get back on your site, and consequently back in your wallet.

ok I'm off to go find some kitties. byeeee!



[Edited on Dec 05, 2003 by dirtyprettything]

Dopalganger

Dopalganger

Drury, MA
January 2003

DEC 05, 2003 04:59 PM

nevermind.

[Edited on Dec 05, 2003 by Doppelganger]

purephase

purephase

Canada
November 2002

DEC 05, 2003 04:59 PM

Good god.

Shh. Please.

Olivia

Olivia

STAFF

Oakland, CA

DEC 05, 2003 07:15 PM

we used to kick people off entirely instead of just force them to be anonymous. i'm sure you can image the fuss people would raise. the anonymous thing is a pretty good solution, imho, they get to perhaps learn their lesson, look at the pretty ladies, and no one has to hear their degrading or sexist comments (if indeed that was why they had their posting rights revoked)..

if there was no other way, we would have continued with our policy of cutting people off entirely, which does indeed cause a "paycut" for SG staff. but there is a way, and it reduces hassle all round.

as for banning ips, it's not effective at all unless people have a static ip. considering that most people who log on and go "i love fat sluts with hot vag yeah show me your ovaries" are coming from an AOL dynamic IP, it would be useless. there is no point.

Lemonkid

Lemonkid

Canada
May 2003

DEC 05, 2003 07:24 PM

DebraJean said:
none of you can stop me from enjoying this program

i hope YOU all get aids

nanny nanny boo boo



Hahaha. DebraJean is the coolest, although personally I don't see the appeal of the lingerie bowl myself.

I mean women playing football in a regular football game would be way hotter than this dreck anyways.





Dante0

Dante0

Sandusky, OH
September 2003

DEC 05, 2003 07:25 PM

Olivia said:
as for banning ips, it's not effective at all unless people have a static ip. considering that most people who log on and go "i love fat sluts with hot vag yeah show me your ovaries" are coming from an AOL dynamic IP, it would be useless. there is no point.



This is true. I just heard someone state that in the "other" thread. I haven't been into the programming end for a good long while, and I wasn't sure if someone figured away around that.

(Edited because I'm clueless)

[Edited on Dec 05, 2003 by Dante0]

troglodyte

troglodyte

Victoria, BC
May 2003

DEC 05, 2003 08:00 PM

Olivia said:
"show me your ovaries"



eeek confused eeek confused

legionnaire

legionnaire

Belgium
November 2003

DEC 05, 2003 09:30 PM

Olivia said:
most people who log on and go "i love fat sluts with hot vag yeah show me your ovaries" are coming from an AOL dynamic IP



Lol, some generalizations are true.

Volkov

Volkov

San Antonio, TX
OLD SKOOL

DEC 06, 2003 12:06 AM

Olivia! you forgot to run it through the AOL translator. it should look more like:

"I LUV3 FAT SLUTS WIT HOT VAG YAAH SHOW ME UR OVAREIS!!!!11 "

shocked

Nic

Nic

SUICIDEGIRL

United Kingdom

DEC 06, 2003 04:01 AM

Hey, remember what happened when some SGs did the Foxy Boxing?

Yes, you've guessed it:

Robin

Robin

SUICIDEGIRL

Ohio, USA

DEC 06, 2003 01:03 PM

ROBIN:

"Oh, Nic! That was a delightful contribution!"

[Edited on Dec 06, 2003 by Robin]

djk29a

djk29a

Korea, D.P.R.
April 2003

DEC 06, 2003 03:15 PM

IP blocking doesn't work and can result in the wrong person getting blocked. Domain-level blocking with subnetting and IPs is one way to improve that. However, that doesn't prevent someone from going to another person's house and doing something from somewhere else.

e-mail-based blocking is easier and more "accurate" IMO. Sure, people can make a few e-mail accounts, but they'll likely have to go through a lot more trouble than just dialing up their connection again.

And for something somewhat relevant to the topic itself, perhaps we should consider that men can be "objectified" and "degraded" by women, but not necessarily physically. Like, some women will sleep with guys for money, for "status," etc. Women can also feel attracted to a guy because he has power, nice car, stable job rather than because he's a great person at heart. Also, being "nice, funny, sweet" is just as shallow to me as "big tits, nice ass, great legs" when people attempt to justify why they like someone. Is your outward behavior and appearance what defines you as a human being? Not to me, no, not at all. You can be all those qualities but still be a condescending self-righteous prick with the possibility of turning into a serial killer / rapist. Outward behaviors change radically over time - far less so than what happens inside your head.

I always asked girls why they ever went out with me, and I never found anything but things like that as responses. Made me feel completely generic, meaningless, and that I'm dealing with someone just as generic as everyone else on the planet. So, in that sense I felt like I was being treated like garbage and just dumped them, just like most girls would if she found out a guy is going out with her just for the sex.

Alisa

Alisa

SUICIDEGIRL

Ohio, USA

DEC 07, 2003 12:03 PM

not worth the drama

[Edited on Dec 07, 2003 by Alisa]

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