Typical "guy" question...

Is it considered wrong to look or stare at a random attractive girl (away from home) like in the train, mall, street etc if you have a girlfriend or if your married, well either or.



Or is it like window shopping, you can look but it's wrong if you touch or act on it

Depends on how your girlfriend or wife feels about it.

But either way, staring probably just makes you creepy.

Well not stare in the creepy stalker way, I'm talking about just a glance if anything but the type of glance that shows that you think the girl is pretty. I guess I said stare to get the point across.

Yeah, staring is creepy dude.

I don't think it's wrong to glance at anything beautiful. I think glancing at a gorgeous woman is no different than gazing at a calm lake or a tiger at the zoo or something. If you stare at a woman for a second because you find her attractive, I don't think there's anythin wrong with that in and of itself. The problem comes when either, in your own mind you wish she was yours even though you have a woman, or you're staring when your significant other is with you, implying that there are better things around to stare at than her.

Basically, if YOU feel like you are wrong when you're doing it, you're probably fuckin wrong.

That brings me to my next question, someone seems to have a wondering eye while I'm right next to them, but her excuse is that she "stares at everything" and it's no big deal... thats extremely disrespectful if you ask me.

dude, glance, don't leer.

Nope not at all, I would "glance" at someone when I'm alone but thats as far as it would get. For her on the other hand I noticed that she would do it right in front of me, now thats totally disrespectful, its one thing to do it when your alone and another thing to do it when your husband or wife is right beside you.

Its only natural for both men and women to do it ....we are animals out on the prowl looking to mate. When a hot girl walks by I feel the instinct come on to gawk....

It sounds like something you and your lady need to talk about. Couples should respect each other's feelings, and if one of you is doing something the other feels is inconsiderate or makes the other uncomfortable, then the uncomfortable person should make their feelings known (preferably in a non-accusatory, non-angry way that starts with "I feel x when you do y."

Hey guys, is it cool if I stick my (quite married) wing-wang into a random woman's hoohoodilly? Do you think my wife would get upset?

I feel x when you do y.

Hey guys, what do you think about me sticking my hand in the garbage disposal while it's running? I dropped a spoon in there, and that's not where spoons go!

If by 'wing-wang' you mean 'penis' and by 'hoohoodilly' you mean 'garbage disposal', then yes, I think your wife might be pissed.

After she stops laughing, of course.

Hey man, no offense, really, but shouldn't you have worked out the whole staring at other women thing before joining suicidegirls.com? I mean, that's kinda' the point of this site, but yeah, of course it's okay, unless you're wife is crazy possessive or something, but that problem is with her, really. Now, if you do it in front of her, that's kinda' rude, but it happens.

Word

It's wrong if it falls outside the mutually agreed-upon boundaries of your relationship.

Insecure much?

Some will argue that monogamy is not in our nature. Personally, I don't give a fuck who my partner looks at and when because I know that at the end of the day, she will be sleeping next to me.

If I were you, I'd have some fun with it. Next time you see her looking at some guy, say "I can see why you're checking him out. I bet he can crush walnuts with that ass."

BTW- Didn't you start this same thread like a year ago?

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If you are going to stare, you should be a man about it and make sure whoever you're staring at feels uncomfortable. You might have to pant a little bit. Also, get a trenchcoat. If that still doesn't work, you might have to touch yourself. People respect a man of conviction. Don't be a pussy.

Nice to know I'm still remembered even though I've been away from SG for about a year And for the record I've never asked this question before.