So is there a new word for "Metrosexual"?

I don't understand the term "metrosexual"... dressing differently has nothing to do with sexuality.

I've been called any number of insults based off of my "effeminate" attire. Fuck all y'all I love my low-cut shirts, tight jeans and pointy boots. It certainly beats the hell out of wearing band-tees and polo's constantly.

Start with me please.

Indeed.

I spend a lot of time on my skin care everyday and look extremely well for being 50. Not a wrinkle under , or around my eyes either. There is nothing wrong with looking fabulous, or putting forth the effort to be that way. Why should it be classified as a feminine thing only. As for the clothes , well, I color coordinate all my outfits ( shoes, shirt, pants, accessories) better than my secretaries do at work . I really do not see how a person's desire to look good is pretentious or gay. That is ignorant.

Ah yes, long live the culture of hate.
Try this one on for size:
The New Gentleman
Or if you prefer Fox's version:
Ubersexual Man