Sober confession???

Dude! not cool!
It's sexual assualt, and sexual assault is very very bad. especially when the perpetrator shows no remorse!

J

No, it's not. It's all about the abuse of trust/power. The kind of guy that does things like that goes on to do worse. I know as something similar happened to a friend of a friend, and the guy involved wound up raping someone.

Spike

Fucking a... is there any decency left on this planet?

Covered in sea men? What's the big deal? Sailors are awesome, I mean, those cute little suits and everything...

That's quite a bold statement, just because a friend of a friend went on to be a rapist doesn't mean this guy will and certainly doesn't mean most people who do something like that will.
It's like saying that most people who poured salt on a slug will go on to be a serial killer or mass animal killer.

It is, but I stand by it. (It was the friend of a friend that got assaulted, and the guy that became the rapist, but that's by the by) It's not a 100% certainty, but it's all about patterns of behaviour and the whole 'power trip' rapists get off on. If someone gets away with something like that once, the chances are they'll do it again.

I see the point you're making, but statistically, almost all serial killers began with animal cruelty as children. I'm not sure if all rapists 'start small and build up' but that kind of behaviour is self-perpetuating, and those that do things like that tend to keep doing it.
Do you really not have a problem with what that guy did?

Spike

Cherry - I thought I was going mad being the only one thinking that.



Spike - I still don't buy the 'he'll go on to be a rapist' thing. There is a world of difference between the two. I've heard of guys fingering girls when they've been asleep, yeah it's not right but it's not the path to being a rapist!
What this guy did is nowhere near rape and it's not even close to sexual assault.
I'm not saying it's right, clearly it's out of order, but it's no worse than 100 other stories like this i've read and to tell you the truth these stories you'll find in mens magazines like FHM designed to amuse the reader.


yeah alot of serial killers did torture animals at a young age, they also masturbated over their mothers and did alot of other fucked up shit.
Fact is, most kids who poured salt on slugs will not go on to be killers.

[Edited on Oct 19, 2003 by Matt_M]

Suppose it's real, I wonder what would happen if she read the post.

There are some real sad confessions on this site:

ive just had 2 sandwiches for lunch and im supposed to be on a diet.
one of them was a hot bacon and egg with brown sauce, the other ham, salad and beetroot.
and i had to borrow £4 to get them

this has to be for real; who would make up shit like this

Assuming it is real, it may indeed be fiction, yeah, she migh've consented at first, but once she passed out, that should've been the end of it. Would you like to have woken up in that kind of condition and now known what might have happened to you? I can only think how bad I would feel and certainly wouldn't wish it on anyone.

Spike

I'd wish it on Britney Spears, i can't fucking stand her.

I can't make you agree with me, and don't know how many female friends you may know that have been in that kind of situation, but I've known quite a few girls that have been abused and raped, so maybe I just have a different perspective on it.

Spike

I talk about really inappropriate shit sometimes but I doubt I'd tell my co-workers some fucked up shit like that. I'd be more apt to call
RAINN (a rape and incest crises center) Tori Amos and Natalie Merchant are HUGE contributors to RAINN.

Boys and girls- if you find yourself in a situation like this~ give RAINN a call. Don't try to seek help near your office water cooler.

Gross. People can be pretty gross. I believe it may be a true confession. I feel sorry for both of them. Sorry she got splooged all over and left for dead and sorry for him cuz he's on the verge of being a total serial killer. (why did he have to make sure NO ONE saw him give her a ride home?)

Cherry= TOTALLY. If she woke up and serioulsy hadn't remembered anything- I think her first thought would have been one of two things.
Most women after being raped or sexually abused try to HIDE it from EVERYONE. Even denying it to themselves.
The second instince would have been to call a close friend. (this friend if they are any type of friend at all- would have taken her to the hospitol to be checked for vaginal tears n such.)

Understandably- it could have gone in many different directions. I'm saying that those are two POPULAR choices.

Of course NATURALLY the third choic would be to go tell all your co-workers at the office water cooler. RIGHT?

LOL which part? the serial killer part?

I knew that part would freak people out.
I'm just saying.








xoxoxox- Elle

Cherry, I'm really sorry to hear that, and from what you've wrote, I see your point about her getting her side of the story over. My comment about not making someone agree with me was directed to Matt_M, not you. After our previous misunderstanding, I'd never dream of arguing with you
Spike