I appreciate all your input so much. It made me realize I have to do it myself, my own way. But it looks as thought it's going to work out and I love the fact that despite how lame the boards have gotten lately I got at least a few genuine responses.

Thank You!

clara

MODERATOR

Baltimore, MD

OCT 10, 2003 01:55 AM

mothra said:
I have to do it myself, my own way.

I'm so glad you figured that out. The hatred and sweeping generalizations in this thread are of no help to anyone.

Jeff_Fries

Humptulips, WA

September 2003

OCT 10, 2003 02:14 AM

Junior high?

One word: emoticons.

requium

Australia

June 2003

OCT 10, 2003 02:25 AM

inept said:

Seahorse said:
Be nice to her. She will start liking you. Then, she will start really liking you and sending you emails all the time. She will share her life's problems, and you will be happy to provide support. She will start sending you song lyrics and Tori Amos quotes that peg exactly how much she simultaneously loves you and hates life. Then, she will send you pictures of her kids. And they are beautiful little beings, so you will start to feel a connection with them. She will turn you onto new music and share connections in so many of life's areas. Then she will share her most personal things with you: details of tragedy and a troubled childhood. Soon, she will tell you how much she loves you and she cannot live without you. She will say that the times you are apart are the low points of her life. She will say that she needs you. She will say she loves you. You will make love with her and she will tell you it was the best she has ever had. She will then introduce you to the problematic periphery of her life and you will accept it, and even embrace it, because you care so deeply for her. Then one day, you will walk in on her fucking some guy and you will realize that women are shit and you are a fucking fool to believe anything they say.

There is absolutely nothing more to say than this.

except RUN!!!!! like the devil is chasing you!!
and don't look back or tou will turn into a pillar of shit.

handle

I'm lost

July 2003

OCT 10, 2003 02:31 AM

Think out every thing you say really well before speaking, tell her how cool you think she is without coming off as obsessive, only speak when you think you will sound clever, genuinly sweet, or just plain cool. When you think she is coming around and returning the sentiment, analyze this behavior really well, and back off (without seeming distant or uninterested) until your pretty sure what she wants. It's technical and diffucult... like fly fishing. Or landing on the carrier in the Nintento top gun game: Keep it level, if you hurry things you will crash, if you delay you will miss and eventually run out of fuel and have to start over. Good luck pilot!

suggs

United Kingdom

June 2003

OCT 10, 2003 07:52 AM

well, i couldn't be arsed reading everyuone elses suggestions, but heres my advice...

when u go out with a girl who you know isnt the one but you want to be with someone and have fun, then they dont plague your mind.... therefore you can make more rational discissions.... unfortunately some times the bitch, or for the ladeeez the butch, wont leave you alone.....

however, when your in luuuuuuuuuurve! ....its different, you become overly critical because tthe situation with them is al you can think about... "will she call?", "should i call", "how shall i act now"...... questions which asking yourself take up the time your true personality needs to show thye other party...

my advice, take some time away from the subject, have a day out or two with other people, try things with someone else.... if after that your thoughts return to her, go for it, and your head will be much clearer too....

cornelius

Tempe, AZ

OLD SKOOL

OCT 10, 2003 08:50 AM

just remember, no matter how beautiful a girl may be, somebody somewhere is sick of putting up with her shit.

-bobby

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June 2003

OCT 10, 2003 02:25 AM

I'm lost

July 2003

OCT 10, 2003 02:31 AM

United Kingdom

June 2003

OCT 10, 2003 07:52 AM

Tempe, AZ

OLD SKOOL

OCT 10, 2003 08:50 AM