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Bitch_PhD

Bitch_PhD

I'm lost
February 2007

DEC 13, 2007 12:29 PM



This story is getting linked all over the place, mostly lauding the seven-year-old who saved her mother's life by throwing herself in front of mama's murderous ex-boyfriend's gun as a heroine.

Which I guess she is, but goddamn, this is one appalling story to a mama.

A 7-year-old-girl is being hailed as an "angel from heaven" and a hero for jumping in front of an enraged gunman, who pumped six bullets into the child as she used her body as a shield to save her mother's life.

Alexis Goggins, a first-grader at Campbell Elementary School, is in stable condition at Children's Hospital in Detroit recovering from gunshot wounds to the eye, left temple, chin, cheek, chest and right arm. The girl's mother, Selietha Parker, 30, was shot in the left side of her head and her bicep by a former boyfriend, who police said was trying to kill Parker. . . . Police identified him as Calvin Tillie, 29, a four-time convicted felon whom Parker had dated for six months.


Just, holy fucking crap, you know? Mama and child got shot in their fucking heads by some motherfucking asshole. Thank God they're both alive. Seriously, thank God.

Still, this entire story is so, so depressing.

Parker called (her friend Aisha) Ford and asked if she and Alexis could spend the night at Ford's home.

"She said she had no heat and they were very cold, and I said , sure I'll come and get you," Ford said.


Jesus Christ. Mama with a baby and the fucking heat's been cut off. Or maybe they can't afford to fix the furnace. That shit pisses me off, man. Yeah yeah, the utility folks want their bills paid, but you know, heat is a *necessary service* in Detroit in the winter. I mean, have some fucking humanity.

Ford said she drove her burgundy 1998 Ford Expedition to Parker's home on Dwyer. She said as Parker and Alexis walked up to her vehicle she saw a man on the porch, who she assumed was a furnace repairman. She said Alexis, who walks with a limp, slipped momentarily on the icy sidewalk and as she helped the girl up, she saw the man and recognized him as Tillie. He was holding a gun.

Tillie ordered them into the vehicle, cursed at the women and angrily told Ford to drive him to Six Mile Road, she said.

"He looked like he was enraged and didn't care what he did. I knew if we went to Six Mile, he would kill us," Ford said. Instead, she told him she needed gas and drove to the Fast Stop Gas station in the 5000 block of East Seven Mile Road, a station that requires customers to pay the attendant inside.

"I figured if he got out to pump the gas, I was going to take off," Ford said.


Smart, smart lady. Would that we all had friends like this.

Instead, Tillie gave her $10 and told her put in $5 worth of gas.

Ford said she dialed 911 on her cell phone as she walked into the station.


The first person I hear saying that poor people should be paying their utility bills rather than owning cell phones gets slapped.

"The first operator clicked off


The holy fucking, what did you just say?!???

and I dialed again and told that operator a guy with a gun was holding me hostage with a mother and baby and threatening to kill us. I told her the name of the gas station and then she said they didn't have a unit to send."


Dear God in heaven. Let's assume that the dispatcher isn't just being an asshole here; let's assume that the problem is that the Detroit police force is seriously underfunded and undermanned. Still and all, holy crap, people: let's have some priorities here. How about some federal funding for cops when cities are too poor to fully fund their local police departments? Maybe our elected assholes will get on that now that they're done voting about whether or not they support Christmas.

Ford said she paid for $5 of gas and slowly returned to the vehicle, stalling for time as she handed Tillie the change. She said she kept stopping and starting the pump, hoping the police would show up.

"I told him I needed more gas and took money out of my purse and went back into the station," she said. The attendant, Mohammad Alghazali, 30, said he noticed Ford was crying and she told him what was happening. He called 911 as he heard shots coming from the vehicle.


Third time was the charm, I guess, since the cops will show up here in a little bit. (BTW, I was recently in a really bad accident--not my fault, and I wasn't hurt--and called 911. Five fucking times before I got through. So it's not just Detroit.)

"It was very scary. She (Ford) was scared and screaming when the guy was shooting. I was scared, too. I was on the phone talking to the police when he started shooting," he said

Parker told police that Tillie said Ford was taking too long

She said she pleaded with him but he pointed the gun at her and shot her in the side of the head. She told police she was shot in the arm as she lunged at Tillie.


Brave woman. But I bet almost anyone would lunge at a man with a gun if their child was in the car.

Before Tillie could fire again, Alexis jumped over the seat between her mother and the gunman and begged him not to shoot her mother.


Oh my God. That poor, terrified little girl.

The police report said Tillie "without hesitation" pumped six shots into the child.

As police arrived, they saw Parker, covered in blood, running from the truck, screaming, "He just shot my baby."


Gosh, it's nice that they finally showed up. Isn't it?

The officers said Tillie came out to the vehicle holding a blue steel 9 mm semi automatic and dropped the weapon when ordered to do so. Officers said they found Alexis huddled on the floor under the steering wheel, covered in blood, surrounded by spent cartridge casings, a spent bullet on the floor and teeth on the seat. There were bullet holes in the windshield and blood inside.

Alghazali said a police car on a street nearby arrived in less than a minute after his call.


I'm glad they showed up before he managed to run down the mama and execute her while the child bled to death on the floor of the car.

The little girl underwent six hours of surgery. She still can't speak, and has lost her right eye, though a medical supply company has donated a prosthetic eye for her. She already had epilepsy, which had given her a stroke and some resulting weakness even before the shooting.

Selietha Parker, her 30-year-old mother, stayed by her daughter's bedside until around 10 p.m., when numbness in her own left arm, which still had a bullet lodged in it, forced her back to Detroit Receiving Hospital's emergency room.


If you possibly can, it would be a mitzvah to try to help that little girl and her mother pay their medical bills, get the heat turned back on, and maybe even have some presents under the tree for Christmas. All About Race provides the address (and a phone number). Checks should be made out to the Alexis Goggins Hero Fund and sent to

Campbell Elementary School
c/o the Alexis Goggins Hero Fund
2301 E Alexandrine St
Detroit, MI 48207.

For information, call (313) 494-2052.



Bitch_PhD hopes her own child never, ever has to even think about being that brave.

wink84

wink84

Fulton, MO
October 2007

DEC 13, 2007 04:05 PM

I'm surprised the cops didn't just sprinkle some crack on them and run away.

Jaylin

Jaylin

SUICIDEGIRL

California, USA

DEC 13, 2007 04:14 PM

Jesus Christ.

I am speechless.

Ascanius

Ascanius

USA
October 2006

DEC 13, 2007 04:22 PM

Devastated. What more is there to say?

Caislean

Caislean

St. John's, NL
June 2007

DEC 13, 2007 04:27 PM

Jaylin said:
Jesus Christ.

I am speechless.



+1 eeek

Munchie

Munchie

Australia
June 2005

DEC 13, 2007 04:32 PM

i don't know what to say.....but what an amazing kid

TidalTantrum

TidalTantrum

Geary, NB
February 2007

DEC 13, 2007 04:41 PM

Its a sad, sad world we live in.

Speechless.

AmbientLight

AmbientLight

I'm lost
March 2005

DEC 13, 2007 04:55 PM

WTF!!!(sheds a heart-broken tear)

Aisha probably would have gotten a quicker response, if she had called the local Donut Hut!

I salute Alexis for being so brave... looks like she gets it from her mom. But I agree that NO child should ever have to be that heroic.

I will donate... more than once.

Varuka_Salt

Varuka_Salt

I'm lost
October 2006

DEC 13, 2007 05:00 PM


Police identified him as Calvin Tillie, 29, a four-time convicted felon whom Parker had dated for six months.

Why was this woman dating a 4 time convicted felon when she has a child? Did she not know? I would find that very hard to believe. I know I don't have all the facts, but I can't imagine anything that could justify bring this kind of person around children. I sure wouldn't allow someone like that anywhere near my children, much less date them. She didn't pull the trigger, but she definitely bears some responsibility in exposing this poor child to such a dangerous person. If I'm somehow wrong here, I will eat my words.

My heart goes out to the child, no child should have to endure anything even remotely like this.

code_red

code_red

Portland, OR
July 2005

DEC 13, 2007 05:00 PM

I cannot even imagine that scenario. The idea that someone would willingly hurt a child just defies my comprehension. eeek

I pray that they both recover.

gcash056

gcash056

Orlando, FL
October 2004

DEC 13, 2007 05:01 PM

"a four-time convicted felon whom Parker had dated for six months"

Hm. I usually don't go on a second date with convicted felons.

ThatTalentedHack

ThatTalentedHack

San Antonio, TX
July 2007

DEC 13, 2007 05:05 PM

wow, all I can say is wow...
tragedy like this just blows my mind.

I hope the bastard who shot that kid dies the worst death possible

Valeyard

Valeyard

Shreveport, LA
January 2005

DEC 13, 2007 05:10 PM

frown This is the saddest most fucked up story I've ever read...no words...still just trying to process this.

Flux

Flux

SUICIDEGIRL

Georgia, USA

DEC 13, 2007 05:12 PM

I read this on your blog earlier today, Bitch, and it absolutely tore my heart out.

varukasalt said:
Why was this woman dating a 4 time convicted felon when she has a child? Did she not know? I would find that very hard to believe. I know I don't have all the facts, but I can't imagine anything that could justify bring this kind of person around children. I sure wouldn't allow someone like that anywhere near my children, much less date them. She didn't pull the trigger, but she definitely bears some responsibility in exposing this poor child to such a dangerous person. If I'm somehow wrong here, I will eat my words.



Yes! And all those girls wearing short skirts who get drunk with strange men, well, they deserve what they get.

It's funny how victim-blaming comes up whenever a woman's "poor judgement" is called into question. Calvin Fuckbag probably wasn't the best dude for Selietha and Alexis to have in their lives, but the blame lies squarely upon HOMEBOY WHO SHOT A FUCKING CHILD.

Children will be exposed to dangerous people and situations; even the most helicoptery of parents eventually will realize this. But we blame the women for not being invincible, perfect androids who sacrifice everything and act with inhumanly rational judgment for The Children.

It is awful what happened, but the mother here is a victim and shouldn't have to defend herself against the likes of you.

kg

kg

Orange, CA
February 2007

DEC 13, 2007 05:12 PM

donating right now.

Ascanius

Ascanius

USA
October 2006

DEC 13, 2007 05:21 PM

Flux said:
It is awful what happened, but the mother here is a victim and shouldn't have to defend herself against the likes of you.



yup

Gentleman_Loser

Gentleman_Loser

Montreal, QC
December 2003

DEC 13, 2007 05:23 PM

This is tragic....But also, who gets in a relationship with a FOUR TIME CONVICTED FELON?? That can't be a good habit.

joker_

joker_

Minneapolis, MN
October 2005

DEC 13, 2007 05:25 PM

varukasalt said:

Police identified him as Calvin Tillie, 29, a four-time convicted felon whom Parker had dated for six months.

Why was this woman dating a 4 time convicted felon when she has a child? Did she not know? I would find that very hard to believe. I know I don't have all the facts, but I can't imagine anything that could justify bring this kind of person around children. I sure wouldn't allow someone like that anywhere near my children, much less date them. She didn't pull the trigger, but she definitely bears some responsibility in exposing this poor child to such a dangerous person. If I'm somehow wrong here, I will eat my words.

My heart goes out to the child, no child should have to endure anything even remotely like this.



This comment is some seriously inconsiderate, victim blaming bullshit.

Vulvatron

Vulvatron

Beaverton, OR
March 2005

DEC 13, 2007 05:31 PM



Yes! And all those girls wearing short skirts who get drunk with strange men, well, they deserve what they get.

It's funny how victim-blaming comes up whenever a woman's "poor judgement" is called into question. Calvin Fuckbag probably wasn't the best dude for Selietha and Alexis to have in their lives, but the blame lies squarely upon HOMEBOY WHO SHOT A FUCKING CHILD.

Children will be exposed to dangerous people and situations; even the most helicoptery of parents eventually will realize this. But we blame the women for not being invincible, perfect androids who sacrifice everything and act with inhumanly rational judgment for The Children.

It is awful what happened, but the mother here is a victim and shouldn't have to defend herself against the likes of you.



AMEN. Oh, how I wish we lived in a world where men were held 100% accountable for their violence.

Varuka_Salt

Varuka_Salt

I'm lost
October 2006

DEC 13, 2007 05:31 PM

Flux said:
I read this on your blog earlier today, Bitch, and it absolutely tore my heart out.

varukasalt said:
Why was this woman dating a 4 time convicted felon when she has a child? Did she not know? I would find that very hard to believe. I know I don't have all the facts, but I can't imagine anything that could justify bring this kind of person around children. I sure wouldn't allow someone like that anywhere near my children, much less date them. She didn't pull the trigger, but she definitely bears some responsibility in exposing this poor child to such a dangerous person. If I'm somehow wrong here, I will eat my words.



Yes! And all those girls wearing short skirts who get drunk with strange men, well, they deserve what they get.

It's funny how victim-blaming comes up whenever a woman's "poor judgement" is called into question. Calvin Fuckbag probably wasn't the best dude for Selietha and Alexis to have in their lives, but the blame lies squarely upon HOMEBOY WHO SHOT A FUCKING CHILD.

Children will be exposed to dangerous people and situations; even the most helicoptery of parents eventually will realize this. But we blame the women for not being invincible, perfect androids who sacrifice everything and act with inhumanly rational judgment for The Children.

It is awful what happened, but the mother here is a victim and shouldn't have to defend herself against the likes of you.



I didn't say I blamed her completely for what happened, but she does bear some responsibility. If you put your children in a car, you use a seatbelt, and drive carefully. If you have dangerous items or chemicals in your house, and there are young children around, you make sure they can't get to them. It's called due diligence. Your argument is incredibly sexist in that you seem to be automatically absolving this person for the sole fact that she is a woman. Are you trying to say that this woman was incapable of discerning who would be appropriate to expose her children to. Why? Because she's a woman? That would be completely sexist. I don't think that making sure your boyfriend is not a gun-toting criminal could by any stretch of the imagination could be considered 'sacrificing everything" to protect her child. If you are a parent, you are responsible for the safety of that child, this includes, but is not limited to, the types of people you associate with and expose your children to. Yes, children are exposed to dangerous situations, some of which can be avoided, some which cannot. Dating a 4 time convicted felon is negligent and caused this child to be in a situation she would have otherwise never been in. If two people rob a bank, and one of them shoots someone, they are both charged with murder, even though only one of them actually pulled the trigger. And what did you mean "by the likes of me"? You don't have the slightest clue who I am. My wife is right here next to me and she couldn't agree more with my statements. Her first question was "Why was she dating this piece of shit in the first place." And if you think I have some kind of submissive Stepford wife by my side for the last dozen years, then you definitely don't have a clue about "the likes of me".

smithers_jones

smithers_jones

I'm lost
November 2003

DEC 13, 2007 05:31 PM

Gentleman_Loser said:
This is tragic....But also, who gets in a relationship with a FOUR TIME CONVICTED FELON?? That can't be a good habit.



Please read this post. See also this post.

joenobody

joenobody

I'm lost
December 2004

DEC 13, 2007 05:33 PM

interesting story. too bad it was ruined with bitch_Phd's annoying commentary.

can i ever read something on SG newswire without someone from the newswire trying to sound witty and "in your face?" they throw irrelevant remarks into previously written articles with swears and sarcasm. they all sound like girls from the mall trying to be bad asses. is this supposed to be "edgy" or "defiant" or "rebellious?" it's hack journalism is what it is.

MadScience_7

MadScience_7

Golden, CO
June 2004

DEC 13, 2007 05:35 PM

I cant even believe this. The cops should have shot that fucker in the throat and let him choke on his own blood.

joenobody

joenobody

I'm lost
December 2004

DEC 13, 2007 05:35 PM

Vulvatron said:


Yes! And all those girls wearing short skirts who get drunk with strange men, well, they deserve what they get.

It's funny how victim-blaming comes up whenever a woman's "poor judgement" is called into question. Calvin Fuckbag probably wasn't the best dude for Selietha and Alexis to have in their lives, but the blame lies squarely upon HOMEBOY WHO SHOT A FUCKING CHILD.

Children will be exposed to dangerous people and situations; even the most helicoptery of parents eventually will realize this. But we blame the women for not being invincible, perfect androids who sacrifice everything and act with inhumanly rational judgment for The Children.

It is awful what happened, but the mother here is a victim and shouldn't have to defend herself against the likes of you.



AMEN. Oh, how I wish we lived in a world where men were held 100% accountable for their violence.



and what about women? or is this just juvenile feminism that turns its head to the fact that women are just as evil as men?

starblood

starblood

Horsham, PA
March 2006

DEC 13, 2007 05:47 PM

She can be a victim in one sense yet still be responsible in another. It's not the same as blaming a rape victim by any stretch.

Ah, who am I kidding. Parental responsibility is dead, dead, dead.

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