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Cairo

Cairo

SUICIDEGIRL

Maryland, USA

JUN 23, 2008 05:44 PM

Ladybug said:
So her mom should have read her mind and magically fixed things.

Damn her.



Not only that, but the father is not expected to be a mind reader, since having a penis apparently gets in the way of clairvoyance. Only mothers are to blame for the acts of their children, the stupid bitches. whatever surreal

Necia

Necia

San Francisco, CA
August 2005

JUN 23, 2008 06:38 PM

XvVectorvX said:
Okay, I understand that what the lady did was horrible...but she should not be to blame.

The only people to be blamed are the parents. I was in a very similar situation as a child (strangely enough, I was 13). I had planned to kill myself. I had everything set in place so that it would happen when no on could intervene. However, my mother felt there was something up. She confronted me about it, and I wouldn't talk. I was ready to die...really ready to die. She wouldn't take no for an answer, and promptly rushed me to my psychiatrists personal residence. I don't remember the exact words the psychiatrist said, but whatever it was, it broke me down. I had a nervous break down and cried for 7 or 8 hours. I cried myself to sleep at the psychiatrists house. I woke up and was asked if I would like to go to a place where they could help me to understand my feelings better. Having just poured all of my being out to my mother and my psychiatrist, I agreed. Had it not been for the treatment that was then administered, I can promise you that I would be worm meat right now. It is because of those acts that i am who i am now today. Someone who can cope with stress, who has a clear sense of what all of my feelings are, and understands how to control my thought process. By the way, my mom is a horrible parent, but she knew something was up and acted accordingly.

So, the only person to blame is the mother. Without a damn doubt she is to blame. If anyone is to be indicted, it should be her for negligence. The other lady may go down for this, but the mother will eternally live in the most horrid of places, her own damn mind that stupid bitch.



With all due respect: you were lucky. So was your mom. Period. Your experience means no less than that--because that's amazing, and I'm glad for you--but neither does it mean anything more than that.

You were lucky. Extremely so, I would say. Not everyone is, and not everyone's parents are. Have some respect--I know you think you're talking about a specific incident here, but I don't doubt that many of us know kids who have killed themselves and are extremely, extremely offended by your strident and ill-informed assertion that their heartbroken parents are somehow to blame. For every case you can find in which that's so, there are countless more in which that's not even close.

ericwine

ericwine

Charlotte Hall, MD
January 2007

JUN 23, 2008 06:46 PM

Necia said:

XvVectorvX said:
Okay, I understand that what the lady did was horrible...but she should not be to blame.

The only people to be blamed are the parents. I was in a very similar situation as a child (strangely enough, I was 13). I had planned to kill myself. I had everything set in place so that it would happen when no on could intervene. However, my mother felt there was something up. She confronted me about it, and I wouldn't talk. I was ready to die...really ready to die. She wouldn't take no for an answer, and promptly rushed me to my psychiatrists personal residence. I don't remember the exact words the psychiatrist said, but whatever it was, it broke me down. I had a nervous break down and cried for 7 or 8 hours. I cried myself to sleep at the psychiatrists house. I woke up and was asked if I would like to go to a place where they could help me to understand my feelings better. Having just poured all of my being out to my mother and my psychiatrist, I agreed. Had it not been for the treatment that was then administered, I can promise you that I would be worm meat right now. It is because of those acts that i am who i am now today. Someone who can cope with stress, who has a clear sense of what all of my feelings are, and understands how to control my thought process. By the way, my mom is a horrible parent, but she knew something was up and acted accordingly.

So, the only person to blame is the mother. Without a damn doubt she is to blame. If anyone is to be indicted, it should be her for negligence. The other lady may go down for this, but the mother will eternally live in the most horrid of places, her own damn mind that stupid bitch.



With all due respect: you were lucky. So was your mom. Period. Your experience means no less than that--because that's amazing--but neither does it mean more than that.



+1
You were fortunate enough to have a mother who, whatever her failings as a parent, was in touch with your emotional state and cared enough to do something about it when she sensed something was wrong.

Subrosa

Subrosa

San Francisco, CA
July 2004

JUN 23, 2008 06:59 PM

If there's one thing the internet will never run out of, it's know-nothing blame-the-victim douchebags. Although it's kind of nice because they always quickly out themselves for the terrible, terrible people that they are.

Case in point.

Sonrisa

Sonrisa

HOPEFUL

United Kingdom

JUN 25, 2008 03:57 AM

You can't blame the parents in that way.
I know that personally I was online at that age, my Mum looked at what I was viewing and doing, but I was good at covering my tracks. It seems like this girl actually told her mother what she was doing, she was seeing more of the conversations with this "Josh" than she would of those her daughter had offline with people she went to school with.
Also, it was stated that her parents were aware of her mental issues and she was being medicated. A good many parents do not even notice these issues and put them down to being a moody teenager. To me this shows the parents did take notice and care of their daughter.

Even if the parents could have monitored a little more (which I don't agree with), they were never going to imagine what was going to happen, how can you condemn two parents who allowed their depressed daughter to speak to someone who made her happy. Of course they'd have known if the friendship ended it would be painful, but that is an integral part of growing up.

I don't believe we have any right to condemn these parents, they have lost their daughter through the actionss of a sick twisted woman, who in my opinion should have her own children taken away, how could that possibly be someone who is bringing up her own daughter in a healthy way?

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