It's an interesting idea. I'm not sure that they'll get more accurate answers from women that polling wouldn't though, and the fact that their sample size will inevitably be smaller and their own biases will come into selecting who to talk to and who to avoid, they might not necessarily get an actual sense of how women view feminism.
Mockingbird said:
They aren't going to Chicago, but they'll go to tiny towns? That's dumb.
They're going to Philadelphia.
And obviously Detroit. I think they avoid larger progressive cities such as Chicago because they already are more receptive to this whole feminist thing.
Smaller towns are more conservative and "old fashioned" for the most part.
Of course the road trip = manly thing is ridiculous; but it's a part of the culture. Jeez, people, think of the road movies you know: Easy Rider? The Blues Brothers? Bonnie and Clyde? Bound for Glory, Down by Law, My Own Private Idaho, the Grapes of Wrath, Sideways, O Brother Where Art Thou. Of course there are some with women in them--It Happened One Night, True Romance--and the single big girls' road movie Thelma and Louise, but generally (and a lot of this is indeed Kerouac) the road is the man alone finding himself thing.
It doesn't just date back to Kerouac, though; it goes all the way back to picaresque tales like Lazarillo de Tormes. One of the reasons the convention of the road is "masculine" is obviously because of the relative freedom of movement men have had historically; part of it in the US is the cowboy = freedom trope, and yeah, part of it is the association of cars with guys.
It doesn't mean that women don't like or take road trips (hence my tagline); it just means that there's a well-established history of association, one that's obvious in Thelma and Louise, which is deliberately inverting it (and which is so famous largely because of that--after alll, it's not a terribly good movie).
JunkyardAngel said:
I didn't know road trips were innately a male thing.
Well yeah, ever since the movie Thelma & Louise, female road trips have declined by 87.5%.
I bounce all over the place about the term feminist. I really just do not like labels, I find them confining. I am just me. . .
Yeah, I agree about the label thing. I have no clue why we as a society have such a need to assess labels.
Maybe it's because people are under the impression that if you can define someone - then you can "easily" deal with them because they must be like all of the others in that label.
People can suck sometimes...and not always in the "good way."
I agree with your last 2 statements. And if people think you are easily defined they have no real reason to listen to what you have to say, and I don't know about other people, but I want people to listen when I speak to them and to base their opinions of me on ME, not a long list of labels.
And from where I stand people suck a whole LOT of the time, and not at all in a good way.
Bitch_PhD said:
Of course the road trip = manly thing is ridiculous; but it's a part of the culture. Jeez, people, think of the road movies you know: Easy Rider? The Blues Brothers? Bonnie and Clyde? Bound for Glory, Down by Law, My Own Private Idaho, the Grapes of Wrath, Sideways, O Brother Where Art Thou. Of course there are some with women in them--It Happened One Night, True Romance--and the single big girls' road movie Thelma and Louise, but generally (and a lot of this is indeed Kerouac) the road is the man alone finding himself thing.
It doesn't just date back to Kerouac, though; it goes all the way back to picaresque tales like Lazarillo de Tormes. One of the reasons the convention of the road is "masculine" is obviously because of the relative freedom of movement men have had historically; part of it in the US is the cowboy = freedom trope, and yeah, part of it is the association of cars with guys.
It doesn't mean that women don't like or take road trips (hence my tagline); it just means that there's a well-established history of association, one that's obvious in Thelma and Louise, which is deliberately inverting it (and which is so famous largely because of that--after alll, it's not a terribly good movie).
Well, in the ARTS, yes...but in the real world? I dunno if that's so true, frankly. Enh. Not that important a point, really.
And by the way BONNIE, of Bonnie and Clyde, was a woman (s'far as I know). . .
Bitch_PhD said:
Of course the road trip = manly thing is ridiculous; but it's a part of the culture. Jeez, people, think of the road movies you know: Easy Rider? The Blues Brothers? Bonnie and Clyde? Bound for Glory, Down by Law, My Own Private Idaho, the Grapes of Wrath, Sideways, O Brother Where Art Thou. Of course there are some with women in them--It Happened One Night, True Romance--and the single big girls' road movie Thelma and Louise, but generally (and a lot of this is indeed Kerouac) the road is the man alone finding himself thing.
I hate to be cliche, but I honestly have never seen the correlation. Not that it isn't there (your examples are sound), I've just never noticed it because frankly, I just saw those as stories about people as opposed to sexes.
Another point already made is that is in the arts. From my own personal experience, when I think of people I know who have gone on road trips, it's all very mixed. Probably leans slightly towards female actually, but probably just because of the company I keep.
Strelnikov said:
When you put it that way, etc. etc. etc. I'd lean towards the latter.
Well, yeah, cultural stereotypes generally aren't valid. That's why they're cultural stereotypes and not facts. Not believing them doesn't mean you don't acknowledge that they exist.
SimeonM said:
And before you say it's because i'm a man and have had loads of opportunities that women don't, it has been an uphill struggle to be taken seriously as a straight designer, and people still assume that because I make dresses and am sensitive then I must be gay.
Nice to know another straight dude with a sewing machine! I remember when I was first trying to learn to sew how every single book would refer to the reader as being a female (and I'm only reading ones published within the last few years), how the class I'm taking is totally female oriented to the point where the males have to do different work on occasion. I'm far away from being a designer (if I ever decide to go that route) but it's interesting hearing your experience.
Just to give you one anecdote, I was once banned from one side of a famous designers studio because they were doing fittings and the models where in their underwear and they thought I would be staring at them and making them feel uncomfortable! Unbelievable and totally offensive, assuming that I had no self control. I've seen so many models in their knickers, it's really not a big deal at all. Well, there you go....
legionnaire
Belgium
November 2003
OCT 24, 2007 11:12 AM