Jilla said:
I play hit my boyfriend all the time.
I've never actually hit him, though.
I don't think in my case it's abuse though, because we play fight a lot.
Well, yeah...that's a totally different situation. I also don't think it applies to a BDSM or rough sex/fantasy rape play either. Those are all controlled circumstances.
I think the situation here was discussing hitting during a fight or argument. That would be where one or both people lose control and have now become dangerous - regardless of their gender.
Jilla
I'm lost
September 2007
OCT 09, 2007 04:20 PM