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Tiger_Fodder

Tiger_Fodder

Braintree, MA
June 2007

AUG 23, 2007 03:32 AM

Roethke said:

InnocentSid said:
Has she ever heard of a passport?



I don't think you understand the level of dehumanization women suffer in Saudi Arabia. A woman cannot travel without express permission or accompaniment from her closest male relative or husband, and so a passport might be useless to Khaled. Strangely enough, a woman can legally fly a plane in Saudi Arabia, she just has to be chauffered to the airstrip.



You are right, I was being flip about this. There has to be some better options though!

Gringo

Gringo

Spokane, WA
May 2006

AUG 23, 2007 04:07 AM

TheFox said:

Rush said:

SPOILERS! (Click to view)

Imagician said:

Scinge said:
I saw a picture in National Geo once of a middle eastern girl going through the happy coming of age ritual of being circumsized.



I'm probably going to get crucified for saying this, but I don't necessarily have a problem with female circumcision. At least, the fundamental principle behind it anyway... Who are we to pass judgement on someone else's cultural practices? Is it any different to a Jewish boy having his foreskin removed? I hear you screaming "But that's done when he's a baby, he doesn't know any better!" It still means he wasn't given a choice... Yet that's far more accepted than female circumcision. What about a young African woman having her lip sliced open and a plate inserted? What about rings being placed around her neck until her neck is so elongated and weak that if the rings were to be removed the sheer weight of her head would snap her neck? Yet, these also seem to be more accepted forms of cultural practice.

To qualify my view point, I must say that, if female circumcision is to be performed, it should be performed in a sterile environment with a local anaesthetic, not just a brutal hack and slash operation which seems to be the norm.


Oh, for fuck's sake. Do you even know what female "circumsicion" IS?

Handy diagram (click the picture for bigger version):



A foreskin is comparable to the clitoral hood. Also called the "prepuce" on both men and women. Figure B, description A would be comparable to a male circumcision.

Having the clitoris removed is like removing the entire penis. Sewing up the labia would be like, I dunno, wrapping the scrotum around the penis and sewing it up.



I do wish they would call it something other than "female circumcision" - it does imply something fairly innocuous. Thanks for posting a better version of what I was gonna.


Historically, it has been also called "female genital mutilation."

I think that's a better term and isn't as misleading.

I can't believe they still do this shit in some parts of the world.

From a website on Female Genital Cutting:

FGC is practiced predominantly in 28 countries in Africa. Eighteen African countries have prevalence rates of 50 percent or higher, but these estimates vary from country to country and within various ethnic groups. FGC also occurs in some Middle Eastern countries-Egypt, the Republic of Yemen, Oman, Saudi Arabia and Israel-and is found in some Muslim groups in Indonesia, Malaysia, Pakistan and India. Some immigrants practice various forms of FGC in other parts of the world, including Australia, Canada, New Zealand, the United States and in European nations.

Lockeblade

Lockeblade

Australia
May 2007

AUG 23, 2007 04:13 AM

Seems I've touched a nerve with some. There are "facts" being thrown around that simply aren't true or, at least, are not as clear cut as they are being stated. However, I'm not going to keep repeating my argument as I've stated it about as clearly as I can and I stand by it. It's a hard line I'm taking, I know, but I honestly believe that Imposing one cultural/religious morality on another is simply universally wrong. It causes cultural/religious tension and is precisely the reason things like 9/11 and terrorism occur.

One point I will clarify though, is that not once have I said I agree with female circumcision. I do think it is unnecessary and, often, cruel. So, I think to come to the conclusion that I hate women is a little misguided and frankly not true. And, with that, I'm moving onsmile My apologies for ninja'ing the original discussion.

brained

brained

United Kingdom
May 2007

AUG 23, 2007 05:28 AM

those old cronies should leave their kids sensetive bits alone, fucked up or what!

BurningKrome

BurningKrome

San Jose, CA
April 2005

AUG 23, 2007 08:47 AM

Imagician said:
Seems I've touched a nerve with some. There are "facts" being thrown around that simply aren't true or, at least, are not as clear cut as they are being stated. However, I'm not going to keep repeating my argument as I've stated it about as clearly as I can and I stand by it. It's a hard line I'm taking, I know, but I honestly believe that Imposing one cultural/religious morality on another is simply universally wrong. It causes cultural/religious tension and is precisely the reason things like 9/11 and terrorism occur.

One point I will clarify though, is that not once have I said I agree with female circumcision. I do think it is unnecessary and, often, cruel. So, I think to come to the conclusion that I hate women is a little misguided and frankly not true. And, with that, I'm moving onsmile My apologies for ninja'ing the original discussion.


The problem is not that you've taken a hard-line, it's that you've taken a philosophical laboratory concept and attempted to apply it to a real world situation.

In theory I agree with you - that one "culture" can't define the standards of another...and when it's just a concept in a lab (or debate chat room)...that's fine. But once one hits the real world, there are not-hard-to-define places where relativism stands, and places where it's absurd.

The concept that a theory or philosophy must stand in all circumstances or fails to stand in any is naïve. To say that if one takes a stance (or even steps in to prevent) an atrocity such as female circumcision...soon we'll be requiring everyone to wear flowered polo shirts and eat cheeseburgers is just unrealistic.

Don't fool yourself into thinking that 9/11 occurred because of the western world's attempts to stop deplorable human rights violations.

Clidna

Clidna

Canada
January 2005

AUG 23, 2007 09:02 AM

Imagician said:

BurningKrome said:
Let ME explain. Deciding to wear a burhka is a "cultural decision". Being held down while someone cuts your genitals without anesthesia (clit or not) is manslaughter. I don't give a shit what your "cultural heritage" is.


So it's up to you to choose which cultural practices are and are not acceptable based on what? U.S cultural morality or religious morality? That's sure as hell not something I'd base rational judgement on...



How about human morality?

I don't even agree with male circumcision unless the male is old enough to make the decision for himself. It is a useless and pointless surgical procedure, IMO, and one that has become far too common in this day and age.

Max16Characters

Max16Characters

Korea, Republic Of
March 2003

AUG 23, 2007 10:10 AM

Imagician said:
Seems I've touched a nerve with some. There are "facts" being thrown around that simply aren't true or, at least, are not as clear cut as they are being stated. However, I'm not going to keep repeating my argument as I've stated it about as clearly as I can and I stand by it. It's a hard line I'm taking, I know, but I honestly believe that Imposing one cultural/religious morality on another is simply universally wrong. It causes cultural/religious tension and is precisely the reason things like 9/11 and terrorism occur.

One point I will clarify though, is that not once have I said I agree with female circumcision. I do think it is unnecessary and, often, cruel. So, I think to come to the conclusion that I hate women is a little misguided and frankly not true. And, with that, I'm moving onsmile My apologies for ninja'ing the original discussion.



Seems to me you're a giant douche.

Also: DOUBLE YOO TEE EFF? Stopping women from getting their clits chopped off=9/11? Holy shit...i don't even know how to respond to that.

Roethke

Roethke

SUICIDEGIRL

California, USA

AUG 23, 2007 11:36 AM

Imagician said:
Lastly, you can't compare the excise of the clit to the removal of the entire penis as many women who have been circumcised, even type 3, are still sexually functional and able to achieve orgasm. However, considering this is practiced in regions where sex is generally had for only two reasons (procreation and male pleasure) and women's pleasure is generally unimportant, i'm not sure it makes that much of a difference anyway. It's only when we storm in from our enlightened moral high ground and convince them that what's been done to them isn't "right" that they have any notion of it at all. Again, who are we to judge?


A woman can have pleasure without a man. But cutting off her external genitalia, she cannot. It does make a difference to her experience, and does make a difference even if she will never know what she missed out on.


Gringo

Gringo

Spokane, WA
May 2006

AUG 23, 2007 12:00 PM

Imagician said:
One point I will clarify though, is that not once have I said I agree with female circumcision. I do think it is unnecessary and, often always , cruel.


Fixed.

pookaa

pookaa

Cleveland, OH
December 2005

AUG 23, 2007 12:58 PM


FGM law.. a fucked up attempt to regulate our own culture through the guise of another's.....


I also agree that we shouldn't regulate other peoples cultures, mainly because the more power we allow ourselves to believe we have the more control our government has over us. By allowing them to enforce our laws and beliefs on other countries we aid our government in becoming a dictatorship. While any form of unwanted mutilation, cultural practice or oppression, especially to women, is awful and unfortunate the change needs to come from within that cultures people. Our only role as outsiders, if we feel the need to change things, should be to support their efforts if needed and wanted.

Unfortunatly, I am also very opposed to any sort of violence or oppression of women... so this makes it a tough issue to debate... confused

Fauna

Fauna

SUICIDEGIRL

USA

AUG 23, 2007 02:07 PM

Aside from whats right and what's wrong, there are health/medical reasons for male circumcision. None for female.

Am I right or am I wrong with this?

Gringo

Gringo

Spokane, WA
May 2006

AUG 23, 2007 02:14 PM

Fauna said:
Aside from whats right and what's wrong, there are health/medical reasons for male circumcision. None for female.

Am I right or am I wrong with this?


I think that's all myth. If I remember correctly, circumcisions were originally a religious ritual.

I think the religious reasons were later replaced with the belief that a circumcised penis is cleaner or easier to clean.

BurningKrome

BurningKrome

San Jose, CA
April 2005

AUG 23, 2007 09:32 PM

TheGringo said:

Fauna said:
Aside from whats right and what's wrong, there are health/medical reasons for male circumcision. None for female.

Am I right or am I wrong with this?


I think that's all myth. If I remember correctly, circumcisions were originally a religious ritual.

I think the religious reasons were later replaced with the belief that a circumcised penis is cleaner or easier to clean.


In fairness, it was considered to be for health. Even in the religious sense, a huge portion of the old testament's guidelines and rituals were based in cleanliness and the prevention of disease. Circumcision was considered the covenant with God, but was also represented heavily in the sections for disease prevention.

In the early modern era, it was continued because it was believed to reduce the risk of infection...however, all evidence has since shown that to be untrue.


BurningKrome

BurningKrome

San Jose, CA
April 2005

AUG 23, 2007 09:38 PM

Imagician said:
However, I'm not going to keep repeating my argument as I've stated it about as clearly as I can...


We don't want you to repeat your argument...we want you to defend it against very reasonable criticism. Inability to do so simply means it wasn't well thought out in the first place. wink


Fauna

Fauna

SUICIDEGIRL

USA

AUG 24, 2007 08:13 AM

Ok, so I'm not totally out to lunch.

Thanks biggrin

Twelve

Twelve

Bay City, MI
April 2007

AUG 25, 2007 04:10 PM

Imagician said:
Seems I've touched a nerve with some. There are "facts" being thrown around that simply aren't true or, at least, are not as clear cut as they are being stated. However, I'm not going to keep repeating my argument as I've stated it about as clearly as I can and I stand by it. It's a hard line I'm taking, I know, but I honestly believe that Imposing one cultural/religious morality on another is simply universally wrong. It causes cultural/religious tension and is precisely the reason things like 9/11 and terrorism occur.



Here is the thing:

Your position posits that "it's okay because it's their culture."
So all cultures have equally valid cultural beliefs.
Then a culture that believes only it's own ideals are valid has an equally valid position.

Your position is contradictory and therefore wrong. Unless you're going to break out Perspectivism, but I don't think that's what you're arguing.

freshprncebelair

freshprncebelair

Ellicott City, MD
June 2004

AUG 26, 2007 12:54 AM

BurningKrome said:

TheGringo said:

Fauna said:
Aside from whats right and what's wrong, there are health/medical reasons for male circumcision. None for female.

Am I right or am I wrong with this?


I think that's all myth. If I remember correctly, circumcisions were originally a religious ritual.

I think the religious reasons were later replaced with the belief that a circumcised penis is cleaner or easier to clean.


In fairness, it was considered to be for health. Even in the religious sense, a huge portion of the old testament's guidelines and rituals were based in cleanliness and the prevention of disease. Circumcision was considered the covenant with God, but was also represented heavily in the sections for disease prevention.

In the early modern era, it was continued because it was believed to reduce the risk of infection...however, all evidence has since shown that to be untrue.




It does however reduce the risk of contracting/spreading HIV

_Elichrusos

_Elichrusos

Australia
November 2004

AUG 26, 2007 07:29 AM

I love how y'all keep calling the freshly en-dude-ed dude "she". whatever

PointBlank

PointBlank

New York, NY
November 2004

SEP 01, 2007 05:11 PM

Imagician said:
So it's up to you to choose which cultural practices are and are not acceptable based on what? U.S cultural morality or religious morality? That's sure as hell not something I'd base rational judgement on...
.


Um, the subjugation of (and forcible injury) of one group by another is simply wrong, no matter what the culture. Try to defend slavery using your same, braindead "logic".

It's really not difficult to understand.

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