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almostfamous

almostfamous

NEWSWIRE

United Kingdom

APR 12, 2007 03:20 PM



Two British parents who used their prescribed methadone to keep their infant from crying were told yesterday that only one of them will face prosecution.

Mitchell Bate, aged 22 months, was found dead at home in Rodney Street, Hartlepool, in September 2005.

Gemma Fennelly, 24, of Edinburgh Grove, had originally been accused of giving her son the drug to keep him quiet.
[...]
Fennelly admitted "allowing and/or failing to prevent" her son from swallowing a lethal dose of methadone.


Given her plea the court decided no action would be taken against the father, despite blood samples proving Mitchell's sedation was not a unique event and had been happening "regularly over a protracted period."

The case rather raises the question as to why two recovering heroin addicts, both on a prescribed heroin substitute, were allowed to remain caring for a young child.

Gemma Fennelly will be sentenced on May 3rd.

CyberEdZ

CyberEdZ

United Kingdom
January 2005

APR 12, 2007 05:21 PM

Reminds me of one of my favourite jokes.

"I was brought up in Glasgow, but I was never smacked as a child.

Well, maybe a gram or two to get me to sleep at night..."

Life imitates Art once again. Not to mention the fact that they lived in Edinburgh Grove.

Bitch_PhD

Bitch_PhD

I'm lost
February 2007

APR 12, 2007 05:57 PM

The case rather raises the question as to why two recovering heroin addicts, both on a prescribed heroin substitute, were allowed to remain caring for a young child.

Um, because they were in recovery? And were taking legal medication?

Kinto

Kinto

Marina Del Rey, CA
February 2003

APR 12, 2007 06:03 PM

Bitch_PhD said:Um, because they were in recovery? And were taking legal medication?

It worked really well.

Bitch_PhD

Bitch_PhD

I'm lost
February 2007

APR 12, 2007 06:05 PM

Kinto said:

Bitch_PhD said:Um, because they were in recovery? And were taking legal medication?

It worked really well.



Obviously not, and that's a tragedy. But as far as I know, we haven't yet arrived at the point where we arrest people or take their children away before they commit a crime.

DownNeck

DownNeck

Jersey City, NJ
March 2006

APR 12, 2007 06:48 PM

Bitch_PhD said:

Kinto said:

Bitch_PhD said:Um, because they were in recovery? And were taking legal medication?

It worked really well.



Obviously not, and that's a tragedy. But as far as I know, we haven't yet arrived at the point where we arrest people or take their children away before they commit a crime.



heroin's still illegal in the uk, right?

Cash

Cash

USA
OLD SKOOL

APR 12, 2007 06:53 PM

DownNeck said:

Bitch_PhD said:

Kinto said:

Bitch_PhD said:Um, because they were in recovery? And were taking legal medication?

It worked really well.



Obviously not, and that's a tragedy. But as far as I know, we haven't yet arrived at the point where we arrest people or take their children away before they commit a crime.



heroin's still illegal in the uk, right?



Only if you get caught.

emotedcreations

emotedcreations

Germany
July 2006

APR 12, 2007 06:55 PM

Bitch_PhD said:
Obviously not, and that's a tragedy. But as far as I know, we haven't yet arrived at the point where we arrest people or take their children away before they commit a crime.

Minority Report...

Zarth

zarth

Seattle, WA
December 2004

APR 12, 2007 07:09 PM

DownNeck said:

Bitch_PhD said:

Kinto said:

Bitch_PhD said:
Um, because they were in recovery? And were taking legal medication?


It worked really well.


Obviously not, and that's a tragedy. But as far as I know, we haven't yet arrived at the point where we arrest people or take their children away before they commit a crime.


heroin's still illegal in the uk, right?


The point of this being . . . ?

apesamongus

apesamongus

Atlanta, GA
July 2002

APR 12, 2007 07:37 PM

Zarth said:

DownNeck said:

Bitch_PhD said:

Kinto said:

Bitch_PhD said:
Um, because they were in recovery? And were taking legal medication?


It worked really well.


Obviously not, and that's a tragedy. But as far as I know, we haven't yet arrived at the point where we arrest people or take their children away before they commit a crime.


heroin's still illegal in the uk, right?


The point of this being . . . ?


That they had committed a crime.

aleksa

aleksa

Tacoma, WA
April 2006

APR 12, 2007 07:46 PM

And I'm sure since the mother was in recovery, and that giving her son drugs only "accidentally" killed him, she'll get a slap on the wrist for it.

StarBelliedBoy

StarBelliedBoy

Philadelphia, PA
December 2003

APR 12, 2007 07:49 PM

Bitch_PhD said:
The case rather raises the question as to why two recovering heroin addicts, both on a prescribed heroin substitute, were allowed to remain caring for a young child.

Um, because they were in recovery? And were taking legal medication?



So this is pretty much the logical conclusion of your pet meth mommies. How bout that.

emotedcreations

emotedcreations

Germany
July 2006

APR 12, 2007 07:52 PM

nm

Zarth

zarth

Seattle, WA
December 2004

APR 12, 2007 08:44 PM

apesamongus said:
That they had committed a crime.


It doesn't say why they were at liberty in the article, but it may presumed that since they were being prescribed methadone, they were ostensibly in recovery.

Or do you just want everybody to have their children confiscated by the state and arrested and arrested if they've ever done a crime?

Because that's what you seem to be getting at.

Obviously, whatever program they were in didn't work. Equally obviously, they were not competent parents. And that's a breakdown of whatever monitoring system was supposed to have been in place. And hopefully, controls will be tightened.

But it's either idiotic or fascist to advocate disallowing parents to take care of their own children simply on the basis of their past mistakes, especially when they're manifestly attempting to reform.

SocietysPliers

SocietysPliers

Ocala, FL
October 2004

APR 12, 2007 09:22 PM

DownNeck said:

Bitch_PhD said:

Kinto said:

Bitch_PhD said:Um, because they were in recovery? And were taking legal medication?

It worked really well.

Obviously not, and that's a tragedy. But as far as I know, we haven't yet arrived at the point where we arrest people or take their children away before they commit a crime.

heroin's still illegal in the uk, right?

First, I'm NOT defending the parents. Second, heroin IS still illegal, which one would assume is exactly why they were taking the LEGAL methadone INSTEAD of heroin, thereby breaking no laws, and in fact, doing the RIGHT THING (at least up to that point). Methadone, while still psychoactive, is a synthetic (opioid) reather than an actual opiate, and had a much longer half-life (3 days), which means it stays in the system a lot longer, thus lengthening the time serious withdrawal can set in. SA heroin user ma need to ingest more heroin in a few hours(some less), and spend all their lives trying to score it , oftencommitting other, often violent, crimes to obtain it; methadone can be taken once daily, legally. Locally, it's 15 bucks a day regardless of the strength they issue you. You show up at 5 AM and they give it to you and you then can more or less fuction as a law-abiding citizen.

What is NOT legal is drugging your child. Tragically, there wasno way to know they'd do that. Prior to that they seem to have followed the law - get legally prescribed methadone instead of illegal heroin.

So here I must agree with Bitch_PhD and Zarth. There was no way to know that the parents, who as far as the story reads were living upstanding lawful lies, were going to break laws and kill their baby. Without the slightest reason to suspect them, why would their kids get taken away? The government is not psychic (sometimes borderline psychO, perhaps) and could not possibly have foreseen this awful thing. I doubt they announced to the whatever child protection services are there that they were going to drug their baby, so how could the child have beenremoved from the home. By that logic, anybody taking potentially harmful prescription meds should have their offspring taken from them.

almostfamous

almostfamous

NEWSWIRE

United Kingdom

APR 13, 2007 12:59 AM

Bitch_PhD said:
The case rather raises the question as to why two recovering heroin addicts, both on a prescribed heroin substitute, were allowed to remain caring for a young child.

Um, because they were in recovery? And were taking legal medication?



some people seem to think the odds of recovery are slim

There are a wide variety of treatment methods being used today, administered based on whatever school of thought the treatment provider believes in. With a 16% to 20% recovery rate based on statistical analysis of national averages, the message is clear that we have a lot more to learn if we are to bring the national recovery rate to a more desirable level.



stats seem hard to find online, that one comes from a heroin treatment centre though.

Zarth said:
Obviously, whatever program they were in didn't work. Equally obviously, they were not competent parents. And that's a breakdown of whatever monitoring system was supposed to have been in place. And hopefully, controls will be tightened.



This is exactly my point, they weren't competent, the prosecutor claimed t hey had been giving this baby methadone for as long as 5 months, and traces of both heroin and cocaine were also found in his hair samples.
I'd hope whomever was prescribing them methadone had a responsibility to alert social services that there was a potential risk to their child, and i'd say that 2 drug addicts looking after a baby is at the very least a massive red flag that should put them at the top of the monitoring list. more than a third of neglect cases involve drug addicted parents, how many does it take before it's considered a big enough risk that the child should be taken into care until the parents have made it through recovery?

edith

edith

France
April 2006

APR 13, 2007 01:39 AM

geez not this again..

those parents sucked, but there is no reason to take the child away from people who are in recovery. there is no making it "through" recovery...you are in recovery forever.

and this http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Methadone_maintenance is something many people, including parents, need to do for their entire lives. some people have pain issues and some people have addiction issues. but lots of people on methadone maintenance also have children, and do a perfectly fine job raising their children.

you guys can be so bossy. once again you can't take people's kids away because of their past, nor can you decide who should or shouldn't have kids. lots of stupid idiots have kids every second of every day. 14 year olds have kids. crack addicts have kids. psycho child molesters have kids. nazi skinheads have kids. etc.

maliceide

maliceide

Oklahoma City, OK
December 2006

APR 13, 2007 04:07 AM

We should stop putting assholes like this in jail. It doesnt work. Five lashes with a whip would work wonders however. Anyone who would commit a crime like this against a child does not deserve our sypathy. These people are no better than rapeists or child molesters. Any crime against children should carry severe conseqenses.

stigmatamartyr13

stigmatamartyr13

Indianapolis, IN
February 2007

APR 13, 2007 04:40 AM

if everyone would just stop fucking we wouldn't have these problems.

edith

edith

France
April 2006

APR 13, 2007 04:42 AM

i think rapists and child molesters are worser.

TheFuckOffKid

TheFuckOffKid

NEWSWIRE

Australia

APR 13, 2007 04:56 AM

edith said:
i think rapists and child molesters are worser.



And angels are totally betterer.

DhD_No_Pants

DhD_No_Pants

Katy, TX
May 2006

APR 13, 2007 06:31 AM

Bitch_PhD said:

Kinto said:

Bitch_PhD said:Um, because they were in recovery? And were taking legal medication?

It worked really well.



Obviously not, and that's a tragedy. But as far as I know, we haven't yet arrived at the point where we arrest people or take their children away before they commit a crime.


edited because i don't even feel like gettting into it today. it's a tragedy.

Zarth

zarth

Seattle, WA
December 2004

APR 13, 2007 06:49 AM

almostfamous said:
I'd hope whomever was prescribing them methadone had a responsibility to alert social services that there was a potential risk to their child, and i'd say that 2 drug addicts looking after a baby is at the very least a massive red flag that should put them at the top of the monitoring list.


We agree on that.

almostfamous said:
more than a third of neglect cases involve drug addicted parents, how many does it take before it's considered a big enough risk that the child should be taken into care until the parents have made it through recovery?


That's a good question, and it involves much thornier issues. Nor am I an expert on those issues. In a very real sense, anyway, every case is unique. I'm just pretty leery of any kind of preemptive invasion by state authority in general, so I'd want to be careful about setting the bar for state action high enough while remaining consistent with protecting the welfare of the child.

SPOILERS! (Click to view)
That was mealymouthed politicianspeak for "I don't know," in case you didn't catch that.

Kes

Kes

USA
August 2006

APR 14, 2007 12:25 AM

edith said:
you guys can be so bossy. once again you can't take people's kids away because of their past, nor can you decide who should or shouldn't have kids. lots of stupid idiots have kids every second of every day. 14 year olds have kids. crack addicts have kids. psycho child molesters have kids. nazi skinheads have kids. etc.



- you most certainly can take away people's kids if (like this couple in question) they have heroin and cocaine in their possession (not to mention are feeding a heroin substitue to their toddler)


And, uh, just because you've taken a trip to the methadone clinic and have some in your house does not automatically mean that you're in "recovery".
Doesn't work like that. Sorry




SockPuppet

SockPuppet

I'm lost
July 2006

APR 14, 2007 06:28 PM

DownNeck said:

Bitch_PhD said:

Kinto said:

Bitch_PhD said:Um, because they were in recovery? And were taking legal medication?

It worked really well.



Obviously not, and that's a tragedy. But as far as I know, we haven't yet arrived at the point where we arrest people or take their children away before they commit a crime.



heroin's still illegal in the uk, right?



Not necessarily. It's possible to get it on prescription, in certain cases. But this is about methadone.

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