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RumpusParable

RumpusParable

Copperas Cove, TX
April 2003

MAY 01, 2003 04:35 AM

but an entire relationship, especially agreed upon rules of behavior, are entirely decided by the feelings of the two (or whatever #) involved....

so one's partner's feelings are exactly 1/2 of the question of cheating....

if they cared in no way whatsoever about a given action, then there wouldn't even be the question about whether something was cheating or not, no matter what that action was.

the status of cheating is based on beforehand discussed & understood feeling regarding various types of behavior and the actions each partner feels is ok/permissible and the agreement reached -even (and often) implied.

Shimano092

Shimano092

New Britain, CT
January 2005

JUL 11, 2007 01:33 PM

Prudence said:
i don't know if it's exactly cheating, but it certainly is an indication that there are probably problems in the relationship of the girl and her boyfriend, and that she should DEFINITELY talk to him about, if not what actually happened.

was that a run-on sentence or what?!




Why is this an indication of problems in a relationship. It seems often I read responses along the lines of all or nothing. For example, someone will say, "I have a girlfriend and I find this other girl attractive" and the response will be that "you should break up with the girlfriend or stop being attracted to other people" I wonder, is it possible to attracted to multiple people. Perhaps there are people out their that believe in soulmates or something but just doing the math there must be many people you are compatible with. Odds are whoever you end up with isn't even the most perfect person on the planet for you. Without making it too clinical, in a way, 99% of people settle for the best that they can find.

Cash

Cash

USA
OLD SKOOL

JUL 11, 2007 01:56 PM

"Cheating" = going outside the mutually agreed-upon boundaries of your relationship.

/thread

DevilsReject

DevilsReject

Cleveland, OH
February 2007

JUL 11, 2007 09:31 PM

Shimano092 said:

Prudence said:
i don't know if it's exactly cheating, but it certainly is an indication that there are probably problems in the relationship of the girl and her boyfriend, and that she should DEFINITELY talk to him about, if not what actually happened.

was that a run-on sentence or what?!




Why is this an indication of problems in a relationship. It seems often I read responses along the lines of all or nothing. For example, someone will say, "I have a girlfriend and I find this other girl attractive" and the response will be that "you should break up with the girlfriend or stop being attracted to other people" I wonder, is it possible to attracted to multiple people. Perhaps there are people out their that believe in soulmates or something but just doing the math there must be many people you are compatible with. Odds are whoever you end up with isn't even the most perfect person on the planet for you. Without making it too clinical, in a way, 99% of people settle for the best that they can find.



It's one thing to be attracted to another person while in a relationship, it's an entirely different thing once you start acting on that attraction.

I know i would be pretty butt-hurt if i walked in to a room and saw some dude caressing my girlfriends face and touching her like he cares about her.

Of course my girlfriend is imaginary.......

teddy__kgb

teddy__kgb

Albuquerque, NM
February 2007

JUL 12, 2007 12:27 AM

Cash said:
"Cheating" = going outside the mutually agreed-upon boundaries of your relationship.

/thread



didnt you read this, dammit? although, i have ONEHELLUVAHOT imaginary girlfriend myself.

Shimano092

Shimano092

New Britain, CT
January 2005

JUL 12, 2007 06:08 AM

SourPatchKid said:

Shimano092 said:

Prudence said:
i don't know if it's exactly cheating, but it certainly is an indication that there are probably problems in the relationship of the girl and her boyfriend, and that she should DEFINITELY talk to him about, if not what actually happened.

was that a run-on sentence or what?!




Why is this an indication of problems in a relationship. It seems often I read responses along the lines of all or nothing. For example, someone will say, "I have a girlfriend and I find this other girl attractive" and the response will be that "you should break up with the girlfriend or stop being attracted to other people" I wonder, is it possible to attracted to multiple people. Perhaps there are people out their that believe in soulmates or something but just doing the math there must be many people you are compatible with. Odds are whoever you end up with isn't even the most perfect person on the planet for you. Without making it too clinical, in a way, 99% of people settle for the best that they can find.



It's one thing to be attracted to another person while in a relationship, it's an entirely different thing once you start acting on that attraction.

I know i would be pretty butt-hurt if i walked in to a room and saw some dude caressing my girlfriends face and touching her like he cares about her.

Of course my girlfriend is imaginary.......



Three Questions:

Would it matter if you had a real girlfriend but the guy that was touching her was imaginary? (You or your girlfriend may have to be crazy in this scenario) What if your imaginary girlfriend started liking a real guy other than you but said she still wanted to be with you? Lastly, I assume you would have a serious problem with an imaginary guy hitting on your imaginary girlfriend. Then again, it may be time to let her go in this case, they seem to have to much more in common. PLus, if you imaginaryily love her, it would be best to allow her to be happy. Just a thought.

RudieCantFail

RudieCantFail

Baton Rouge, LA
January 2006

JUL 12, 2007 06:29 AM

Shimano092 said:

Three Questions:

Would it matter if you had a real girlfriend but the guy that was touching her was imaginary? (You or your girlfriend may have to be crazy in this scenario) What if your imaginary girlfriend started liking a real guy other than you but said she still wanted to be with you? Lastly, I assume you would have a serious problem with an imaginary guy hitting on your imaginary girlfriend. Then again, it may be time to let her go in this case, they seem to have to much more in common. PLus, if you imaginaryily love her, it would be best to allow her to be happy. Just a thought.



Cigarette

Cigarette

Cleveland, OH
April 2004

JUL 12, 2007 07:30 AM

Al said:
They say you need 4 hugs a day minimum to survive



Source plz.

Nighkolay

Nighkolay

Robinson, IL
October 2006

JUL 12, 2007 07:36 AM

Flirting with others can actually help a good and healthy relationship. However, if the relationship is not stable then it is just harmful.

DevilsReject

DevilsReject

Cleveland, OH
February 2007

JUL 12, 2007 11:38 AM

Shimano092 said:
Three Questions:

Would it matter if you had a real girlfriend but the guy that was touching her was imaginary? (You or your girlfriend may have to be crazy in this scenario) What if your imaginary girlfriend started liking a real guy other than you but said she still wanted to be with you? Lastly, I assume you would have a serious problem with an imaginary guy hitting on your imaginary girlfriend. Then again, it may be time to let her go in this case, they seem to have to much more in common. PLus, if you imaginaryily love her, it would be best to allow her to be happy. Just a thought.



I have imaginary women touching me all the time, so i guess it would be kind of owed to me by my girlfriend to take on like a twelve guy imaginary gangbang. But just so you know, most of my girlfriends, imaginary or not, are crazy.

My imaginary girlfriend is tied to the bed, has to deal with hours of imaginary oral sex, all three meals served to her in bed, and has nothing to do but sexually stimulate me. Therefore she really doesn't have the chance to meet the other guys. She just watches TV, showers, and then touches herself in preparation of me doing her. Best. Imaginary Girlfriend. Ever.

This imaginary girlfriend did do something to make me angry. She told me i have to get rid of my imaginary Liger. That the Liger scared her. I tried to convince her she has nothing to worry about, but she still fears the Liger. The imaginary girlfriend will go before the Liger does.


Shimano092

Shimano092

New Britain, CT
January 2005

JUL 12, 2007 08:04 PM

You know, if your imaginary girlfriend has not aggreed to this imaginary situation, I am afraid I have to call the imaginary police. I am sending them to your imaginary address, 123 Fake Street(yes, its a Simpson's reference, and I am aware of it) You'd better let her go before someone gets hurt...imaginaryily....

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