recursive said:
But I must respect the sanctity of their crappy, dysfunctional relationship."?
yeah you should....
you know why?....cause it isn't your realtionship and you have no right or say.
And a person thinking that they and one of the people would make a good pair, isn't a vaild excuse.
They may be just going from one crappy relationship to the other.
It just boils down to a person being impatient and selfish, because they want something they can't have.
See the part of this i have to disagree with is the bit about having no say. I feel like in the case of friends for instance you have every right to tell them that they are in a shitty relationship and should dump the guy/girl.
Talking to a friend about being in an unhealthy relationship,
is a WHOLE other story than breaking a couple up so that you can get with one of the people.
saltonsea
Toronto, ON
July 2004
DEC 10, 2006 07:58 PM