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MaxRadical

MaxRadical

Toronto, ON
October 2006

NOV 04, 2006 09:06 AM

A lot of people automatically assuming "loyalty" refers to relationship.

Loyalty is knowing what is important, and worth respect, then acting accordingly no matter the cost or difficulty.

BlastProcessing

BlastProcessing

USA
OLD SKOOL

NOV 04, 2006 10:16 AM

Baby don't hurt me.

Don't hurt me.

jerawyn

jerawyn

USA
December 2003

NOV 04, 2006 10:19 AM

I think you have to have loyalty, to appreciate it in others.

It's like hope, but less etherial, and much more steadfast.

Sinnocence

Sinnocence

Woodstock, GA
May 2004

NOV 04, 2006 09:49 PM

MrCrisp said:

dmac said:

MrCrisp said:
"loyal" is just a nice way of saying "whipped."



I've always thought I was a loyal person. True to the end....come hell or high water.....blah blah blah. In retrospect, it's probably why I've been dumped on and hurt so many times. Loyalty seems to mean "abuse the weakling" these days. Feels like it anyway.


"being loyal" is also another way of saying "having a submissive personality."

but don't listen to me. i'm bitter and jaded.



loyal = submissive personality. totally me. how about that. hm.

DannyDMc

DannyDMc

Fargo, ND
July 2003

NOV 05, 2006 12:40 AM


Loyalty is feeling a commitment towards another. To stand by their through the darkest nights, knowing full well that they will do the same. Its having a buddies back during a fight, dropping what ever you are doing to help a friend who is hurting, its giving up your last can of beer to a friend who needs it more than you.

I'm not sure if you can even really put it into words; except to say that its being willing to put someone elses well being ahead of your own.

I've been told that I'm an increadibly loyal person and, although I don't know if thats true or not (I am sometimes the worst judge of my own actions), I can say that its one of the most important characteristics I look for in my friends. If you can't show me the basic respect which loyalty represents, than I simply don't want you around.

xani

xani

Charlottesville, VA
May 2006

NOV 05, 2006 01:08 AM

loyalty in friendship is something specail. i went through a breakup and could barely leave the house. i finally pulled myself together to go to ihop one morning. my friend thought she was being my good friend by telling me "hey, you should really wear makeup"

i looked at her like, wtf, but i couldn't go off at her because she truely thought she was saying the right thing. she thought she was sticking with me when i was down, but i felt like she just kicked me in the tummy. turns out she moved in with my xbf a few weeks later. i think thats funny tongue

Necia

Necia

San Francisco, CA
August 2005

NOV 06, 2006 01:27 PM

Loyalty belongs to oneself first. People need to get it out of their heads that putting everyone else before themselves is somehow a virtue. Rarely have I found that my doing something for someone else was mutually exclusive of my doing what I need to do for myself, unless it was something that I shouldn't have been doing for someone else in the first place (or unless it was something that I didn't really need myself).

Phantasy

Phantasy

Australia
October 2005

NOV 06, 2006 07:12 PM

You know who your friends are when you move house.

Chainlink

Chainlink

Key West, FL
August 2005

NOV 06, 2006 07:12 PM

I believe Loyalty is a strength of character.

I'm a bit shocked to see some people percieve loyalty as a weakness. Blind faith is a weakness. Not loyalty.
It needn't be associated with a physical relationship. It stands alone.

I wholeheartedly endorse Necias statement :

Loyalty belongs to onesself first.


I may futher expound upon that statement and say that it may be that loyalty belongs only to onesself.

If you are loyal to yourself and your own beliefs you extend that loyalty. In the same way that it is said you can't truely love someone else until you love yourself. The loyalty that you show to your country, your wife, husband, bf,gf, friends, or your gerbil is just that, your loyalty , you just show it to them.

I am as loyal to my dog as she is to me, but she does not give me her loyalty, she shows it to me. It is a trait inherent in her character.
A good one I might add.

DannyDMc

DannyDMc

Fargo, ND
July 2003

NOV 06, 2006 07:29 PM

chainlink said:
I believe Loyalty is a strength of character.

I'm a bit shocked to see some people percieve loyalty as a weakness. Blind faith is a weakness. Not loyalty.
It needn't be associated with a physical relationship. It stands alone.

I wholeheartedly endorse Necias statement :

Loyalty belongs to onesself first.


I may futher expound upon that statement and say that it may be that loyalty belongs only to onesself.

If you are loyal to yourself and your own beliefs you extend that loyalty. In the same way that it is said you can't truely love someone else until you love yourself. The loyalty that you show to your country, your wife, husband, bf,gf, friends, or your gerbil is just that, your loyalty , you just show it to them.

I am as loyal to my dog as she is to me, but she does not give me her loyalty, she shows it to me. It is a trait inherent in her character.
A good one I might add.




Thank you; you put that much more beautifully than I could. Nice to see some like minded folks out there!

Twisted_Raff

Twisted_Raff

Plymouth, MA
June 2006

NOV 07, 2006 04:49 AM

chainlink said:
I believe Loyalty is a strength of character.

I'm a bit shocked to see some people percieve loyalty as a weakness. Blind faith is a weakness. Not loyalty.
It needn't be associated with a physical relationship. It stands alone.

I wholeheartedly endorse Necias statement :

Loyalty belongs to onesself first.


I may futher expound upon that statement and say that it may be that loyalty belongs only to onesself.

If you are loyal to yourself and your own beliefs you extend that loyalty. In the same way that it is said you can't truely love someone else until you love yourself. The loyalty that you show to your country, your wife, husband, bf,gf, friends, or your gerbil is just that, your loyalty , you just show it to them.

I am as loyal to my dog as she is to me, but she does not give me her loyalty, she shows it to me. It is a trait inherent in her character.
A good one I might add.

i believe the same way that you do so that why i start is topic
in the first place

Nessuno

Nessuno

Washington, DC
May 2006

NOV 09, 2006 02:10 PM

Loyalty is a kick-ass song by American-Head Charge.

swooshpimp

swooshpimp

I'm lost
October 2006

NOV 10, 2006 10:24 PM

Loyalty - being true to that of which somebody believes in and not abandoning it for an unjust cause or persuasion - thats just a thought

abracadabra

abracadabra

Seattle, WA
April 2004

NOV 10, 2006 11:53 PM

kimberleyfantasy said:
You know who your friends are when you move house.



That is the truth !..Their reward is pizza and a case of beer right ?

Necia

Necia

San Francisco, CA
August 2005

NOV 11, 2006 06:33 PM

chainlink said:
I believe Loyalty is a strength of character.

I'm a bit shocked to see some people percieve loyalty as a weakness. Blind faith is a weakness. Not loyalty.
It needn't be associated with a physical relationship. It stands alone.

I wholeheartedly endorse Necias statement :

Loyalty belongs to onesself first.


I may futher expound upon that statement and say that it may be that loyalty belongs only to onesself.

If you are loyal to yourself and your own beliefs you extend that loyalty. In the same way that it is said you can't truely love someone else until you love yourself. The loyalty that you show to your country, your wife, husband, bf,gf, friends, or your gerbil is just that, your loyalty , you just show it to them.

I am as loyal to my dog as she is to me, but she does not give me her loyalty, she shows it to me. It is a trait inherent in her character.
A good one I might add.



Exactly.

YourNextPresidnt

YourNextPresidnt

Pittsburgh, PA
OLD SKOOL

NOV 11, 2006 10:09 PM

Loyalty is acting the same way when a person is not around that you do when you are with them.

DhD_No_Pants

DhD_No_Pants

Katy, TX
May 2006

NOV 12, 2006 09:23 AM

Loyalty is being willing to drop what you are doing to help them if they need it, and doing it because you know they would do the same for you, not because of some desire to make them love you more.

Cash

Cash

USA
OLD SKOOL

NOV 12, 2006 10:39 AM

karr_sic_ said:
Loyalty is Jack Kerouac!




I had no idea that loyalty was a crappy, overrated writer of boring novels.

Phantasy

Phantasy

Australia
October 2005

NOV 12, 2006 03:01 PM

razoryoyoyaya said:

kimberleyfantasy said:
You know who your friends are when you move house.



That is the truth !..Their reward is pizza and a case of beer right ?



Yep, but in Australia it converts to snags on the barbie and a carton of beer! wink

Phantasy

Phantasy

Australia
October 2005

NOV 12, 2006 03:03 PM

darn double posting!

_Tersch_

_Tersch_

Australia
April 2005

NOV 13, 2006 02:43 AM

chainlink said:
I believe Loyalty is a strength of character.

I'm a bit shocked to see some people percieve loyalty as a weakness. Blind faith is a weakness. Not loyalty.
It needn't be associated with a physical relationship. It stands alone.

I wholeheartedly endorse Necias statement :

Loyalty belongs to onesself first.


I may futher expound upon that statement and say that it may be that loyalty belongs only to onesself.

If you are loyal to yourself and your own beliefs you extend that loyalty. In the same way that it is said you can't truely love someone else until you love yourself. The loyalty that you show to your country, your wife, husband, bf,gf, friends, or your gerbil is just that, your loyalty , you just show it to them.

I am as loyal to my dog as she is to me, but she does not give me her loyalty, she shows it to me. It is a trait inherent in her character.
A good one I might add.



Well said sir. There is absolutely no need for me to elaborate when it has been written so eloquently.
Kudos

NathanialBlood

NathanialBlood

United Kingdom
August 2006

NOV 13, 2006 03:05 AM

jerawyn said:
I think you have to have loyalty, to appreciate it in others.

It's like hope, but less etherial, and much more steadfast.



+1

poptard

poptard

United Kingdom
November 2003

NOV 13, 2006 05:50 AM

you know what loyalty is to me


its saveing up points on a shitty card i always forget untill i have £5 saved up and perchase a C i didn't want in the first place from there shitty music section

Daevric

Daevric

Medford, MA
November 2003

NOV 13, 2006 10:11 AM

hadees said:
Loyalty is a 7 point word in scrabble.



I'd give this a +1, except it's totally a 13 point word.

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