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Marisa_DiMattia

Marisa_DiMattia

NEWSWIRE

I'm lost

OCT 23, 2006 08:38 AM

Should you have to cover up your tattoos and take your piercings out at work?

This was the big question in tattoo news over the past week, prompted by an Associated Press article, Body Art and Tattoos in the Workplace, which was picked up by major news outlets all over the world.

The article starts by introducing us to the heavily tattooed Colleen Harris who “doesn't fit the stereotype of the buttoned-up librarian.” Colleen, with her multiple Masters degrees and visible ink, works at the University of Kentucky's research library, doesn’t cover up her knuckle tattoos, and leaves her sleeves on view. But as Colleen rightly points out, she works in academia, which can be more accepting than the corporate world.


Tattooed librarian. Photo by Associated Press.

I’d light to point out that I’m writing this just before heading to my corporate job. Unlike Colleen, I don’t have the luxury of showing off my own tattooed sleeves to my fellow lawyers, so I put on a suit. I don’t wear backless dresses at office dinner parties to avoid revealing my backpiece, and the small tattoo on my hand is easily covered with a ring, bandage or make-up. And you know what? That’s ok. Do these dress choices stop me from being who I am? No. It stops me from having to answer stupid questions about my tattoos in the office.

Tattoos can be a distraction. Whether you chose to seek attention or not, body art draws the eye, it can spark curiosity about the wearer, create a strong emotion from the viewer…the bottom line is that it sucks focus from the bottom line, making money for the employer.

But employers also have a responsibility. They need to draft clear and unambiguous dress code policies that do not discriminate on classifications including religion, sex, national origin, among others. To simplify, a dress code policy cannot allow tattoos for men but not women. If you want to know more, read my article on employment discrimination and tattoos here and some cases I’ve commented on.

Times are a’changin, though. Maybe one day the heavily tattooed won’t carry the stigma that forces us to cover up in conservative work environments. With approximately half of people in their 20s sporting some form of body art in the US, the professional climate should be very different a decade from now. So chill. Work hard and maybe we can change those stereotypes a bit quicker. Making money for your company may just overshadow that nonsensical Kanji on your ankle. But until then I say, long pants and sleeves will not compromise the essence of your being. Anyway, you are not a beautiful and unique snowflake.

I've heard all the counter-arguments. Yes, I understand that tattooing the body can be a way to make a profound statement. In this week’s news alone, there are many stories that do just that: A UK cancer survivor is getting the charity logo of her hospital tattooed on her head in gratitude to the medical staff there. In the US, the artists at Scorpion Tattooing in Massachusetts offered free pink ribbon tattoos yesterday to breast cancer survivors. In New Zealand, a woman tattooed roses over the scars on her wrists that were made when two policemen bound and raped her. Heavy statements, indeed. The question is whether these statements should be discussed in the workplace.

Marisa_DiMattia is a lawyer and editor of Needled.com, a blog on tattoo art and culture.

Rude_Ruca

Rude_Ruca

I'm lost
December 2004

OCT 23, 2006 12:17 PM

Man, it totally sucks that folks with body art are still forced to cover up, but like I tell a lot of people in my peer group, and discuss with people of my parents generation, we are the body art generation. In twenty years, there won't be a CEO, project manager or administrative/HR person un-ink'd. I wholeheartedly believe this, and the proof is in the fact that EVERY person I know has SOMETHING done somewhere.....granted not everyone in corporate america will be found sleev'd, however, I think there IS in fact a growing acceptance of this. Case in point, I have a half sleeve on my right arm, and a large art nouveau piece on my left arm, both pieces covering the outside of my arm, from my shoulders to my elbows. Anyway, I work in a kitchen and bath remodeling/design company and it is of no concern to the CEO's or the customers that I am tattoo'd. So, good luck to those of you who are still in places where you have to hide you tattoo's.... whatever

Jamie_Trecker

Jamie_Trecker

Chicago, IL
January 2003

OCT 23, 2006 12:48 PM

Hmm. Well, I've been working in newspapers and magazines for almost 20 years now and haven't ever covered up. In fact, when I went to my latest job interview, I didn't make any attempt to hide my knuckle tattoos either.

Now, I work in a fairly free-wheeling field, but I can attest that _ at least as it bears on sports _ my tattoos have probably helped get me closer to some athletes than my (also) grey-haired colleagues have been able to.

-jamie

ravengrrl

ravengrrl

Denver, CO
August 2006

OCT 23, 2006 01:37 PM

I work in the nonprofit world and you would think there would be a level of freedom (particularly for those like myself in the "we never see donors" side of things). Unfortunately, this is not the case. I got a gift cert for a local tattoo shop for my b-day (I have piercings, but no tats yet) and I am stressing about where to put it. Perhaps it's because I have worked for large national hospitals and higher ed?

At some point employers have to acknowledge that times are changing and that their employees are too. I feel like a hypocrite every morning when I take out my jewelry, hence why I am looking for a new job.

mrpenbrook

mrpenbrook

Oak Park, IL
February 2004

OCT 23, 2006 01:43 PM


Times are a'changin, though. Maybe one day the heavily tattooed won't carry the stigma that forces us to cover up in conservative work environments.



I hope not, where's the fun in that? They'd stop being "SuicideGirls" and start being just plain "Girls." wink

JoLeigh

JoLeigh

SUICIDEGIRL

Florida, USA

OCT 23, 2006 02:02 PM



Do these dress choices stop me from being who I am? No. It stops me from having to answer stupid questions about my tattoos in the office.



that couldn't sum it up more...

Dexy

Dexy

SUICIDEGIRL

United Kingdom

OCT 23, 2006 02:25 PM

a year after i was hired in an office for a large American medical company they told me that i may have to cover up my tattoo on my hand (i had it when i was hired so they couldn't sack me after the new dress code pollicy was started) my response was 'fine.. i will wear lace fingerless gloves everyday'.

it shut them up.

even better was the fact that when i sat at lunch with the head boss, she never noticed the tattoo or holes in my face where my piercings were.

TheSuicideKing13

TheSuicideKing13

Manchester, NH
February 2005

OCT 23, 2006 02:38 PM

I think a major issue is being overlooked here. I hate to be all serious and negative, but i don't truly believe "times are a changing" quite to the degree most of the people that have been commenting seem to think it is. I don't believe the discrimination we feel in the modified category has anything to do with being modified. The prejudice and discrimination are inherent in human beings. Let me explain.

There will still be a fair amount of discrimination at the work place even when more than half of the CEO's have tattoo's. There will still be discrimination in the work place when statistically 75+% of the CEO's have tattoos. Because the discrimination will be based on "degrees" rather than the mere presence of tattoos / piercings / brands / scars / etc.

there is a great amount of discrimination present amongst members of the modified community as is. For all of you out there with tattoos or piercings, have you not at some point thought someone else with them was a "freak"? that you just didnt understand the "degree" of which this person decided to modify their own body?

Fakir Mustafar, The Lizardman, Bear, Trigger, Stalking Cat, Paul Booth, even Mike Tyson or The Rock are more prominent figures in the modified community, and in the public eye. Tell me not a single one fo you has not at some point considered one of them a freak for even a second, or not understand WHY they would go as far as they did. These people went to a further degree than most of us, and most of us do not see what made them do what they did. So chances are your boss with a tramp stamp or an armband or a nose ring or his nipples pierced still wont understand why you have that entire sleeve or forehead tattoo, or huge septum bone very large stretched earlobes.

and of course there is the opposite effect. People who are more heavily modified thinking that dude with a taz tattoo or an eagle, or an arm band is not in the same category. If you don't think this happens, first of all try thinking really hard about your own opinions of others. Let me tell you, you see it really quick when you work in a tattoo shop. The artists a lot of the time will see the customers as mindless sheep following a trend. There are all kinds of inside jokes about different designs, and placements. As if the artists are truly enlightened and know what is cool and what is not, acceptable or subject to ridicule. as if the artist are better than the people we induct into the scene. I am guilty of this same thing, and i feel guilty for it, but it is in my (and all of our) nature.

Not to mention the prejudice and lack of tolerance between different studies of modification. If you have tattoos, you might not understand why people pierce their face. if you have piercings, you might not understand scarification (cutting), or branding, or tooth sharpening, tongue splitting, suspension, implants....so on and so forth.

So i agree, the world is changing and we are getting a lot more tolerance (and more "tolerable"). and by we, i mean the "modified community". i am proud to be a part of that community. I am what i would refer to as "moderately modified". i am not a dabbler, nor do i consider myself "heavily" modified. I do have many facial piercings and plenty of visible tattoos, and i have had to cover them / take them out for work many times and felt mistreated for it. I say all the time that the world is changing in reference to this subject. I have a very special anecdote on how this world is changing and how "we" are gaining more tolerance from the "normals". But tolerance and acceptance are very different things.

I realize that as humans we will always be discriminated against for some reason by someone. this is human nature, the law of the pack. someday we may all have tattoos. or piercings. But it wont stop people from hating others for almost no reason. Racism, sexism, hatred based on religion, gender, sexual preference, nationality, political affiliation, height, weight, hair color, you name it, someone hates someone else for it. it always was, and will always be. And for this i am so sorry and ashamed.

Someday we may all have tattoos. But dont we all have enough in common already to stop hating each other?

TheSuicideKing13

TheSuicideKing13

Manchester, NH
February 2005

OCT 23, 2006 02:44 PM

sorry for writing an article length comment on an article.

chickenlips

chickenlips

Newport, RI
February 2004

OCT 23, 2006 02:48 PM

I just left Japan after three years, and I'm still (pleasantly) amazed at how open tattoos are over here in the States. With a few very limited exceptions, a Japanese person cannot have anything we would consider a career or professional job with tattoos, whether they're covered up or not by clothing. My first tattoo (of four) was easily covered up even by an ankle sock, yet that would have made me unemployable over there, once a boss knew that I had it. Yes, we have a long way to go towards acceptance, and I agree with the writer that there should be a middle ground between the employer and employee, but we could be a lot worse.

RubberSoul

RubberSoul

Los Angeles, CA
February 2003

OCT 23, 2006 02:57 PM

Why get heavily tattooed if you need to cover them up anyway?

Margot_Dent

Margot_Dent

Los Angeles, CA
February 2004

OCT 23, 2006 03:16 PM

RubberSoul said:
Why get heavily tattooed if you need to cover them up anyway?



because you don't have to keep them covered all the time?

Marisa_DiMattia

Marisa_DiMattia

NEWSWIRE

I'm lost

OCT 23, 2006 04:09 PM

RubberSoul said:
Why get heavily tattooed if you need to cover them up anyway?



i enjoy feeling like a secret agent. smile

i appreciate everyone's thoughtful comments on the column. some very interesting ideas!

pavlovsdog

pavlovsdog

Asheville, NC
May 2004

OCT 23, 2006 05:31 PM

Here in Asheville it almost seems like a tattoo is a pre-requisite for getting a job here. I know it's not true, but you can hardly go to any restaurant downtown and not see a tattooed hostess or server. I guess however that corporate jobs are different than the service industry.

Rude_Ruca

Rude_Ruca

I'm lost
December 2004

OCT 23, 2006 05:56 PM

TheSuicideKing13 said:
sorry for writing an article length comment on an article.



I personally thought that your 'article' was both romantic about this issue, as well as writtin on a pratical level. Thanks for sharing wink

cgilbe1

cgilbe1

Cambridge, MA
OLD SKOOL

OCT 24, 2006 01:18 AM

I heartily disagree.

the whole proto-libertarian argument that places of employment can or should be biased in regards to prospective employees with bodymods is highly troubling.

In the first instance, if the bottom line for businesses is to make money--then the sole criterion for employee selection should be competence.

The strongest objection to my heretical view might be that this could lead business to lose profits--both in lost productivity (through distracting other employees) as well as through the loss of customers who may (rightly or wrongly) view tattooed individuals with suspicion.

In response, we currently forbid companies to discriminate based on characteristics that society holds irreleveant to job performance--gender, sexual preference, ethnicity and so forth. we do this WHETHER OR NOT some individuals at a company might find it "distracting" to have a co-worker in one of these categories, and WHETHER OR NOT businesses claim that their customer base would prefer all-white sales reps, or all-female flight attendants.

We forbid this behavior because as an (ostensibly) democratic and egalitarian society we hold that people should be judged solely on their own merits--which in the job market should be confined to performance rather than looks. After all, most of us would find it highly troubling if a company said "we only hire lawyers/teachers/retail clerks that are exceptionally attractive". why is it any less troubling when companies refuse to hire otherwise competent employees because they prefer a certain "look"?

What is more, the loss of customers is a collective action problem. If companies could not discriminate against individuals based on physical appearance then customers would quickly have to get over their aesthetic preferences (as well they should in a democratic society) if they wanted goods and services.

I do not think an individual should have to live to work. If an employee is competent and would work diligently for an employer--bringing added value to a company--I find it reprehensible that they should be compelled to make a decision between working in their industry of choice or having an inescapably visible tattoo or piercing.

sermon's over.

Marisa_DiMattia

Marisa_DiMattia

NEWSWIRE

I'm lost

OCT 24, 2006 06:10 AM

cgilbe1 said:
I heartily disagree.



You make some excellent arguments. I think some are a bit utopic making them hard to disagree with an an ideological level. On a practical level, they are easier. As someone who works in the corporate field, even in industries not based on media attention or fashion "the look" is very important nonetheless.

For example, it has been found that juries respond to attractive lawyers more so than nonattractive ones, irrespective of arguments. I know doctors who were hired for major Manhattan practices because their look was in line with the patient population who responded better to doctors they could relate to. These were decisions made by the people and business was responding, not the other way around.

The biggest problem I see with the discrimination argument is that protected classes are largely based on immutable characteristics -- like gender, race, sexuality (assuming homosexuality is biological) ... tattoos and piercings are a choice and I think private employers do have a right to judge their employees on certain choices.

My husband is a tattooer who owns his own shop. He hires people to work at the shop who are tattooed. Perhaps a PhD in tattoo studies would walk in the door and ask for a job, but if that person was not tattooed, it would be unlikely that he or she would be hired because of the first image customers would see at the shop would be a nontattooed person -- a image that my husband would not like associated with his business. Why should he be forced to hire that person?

There are more practical arguments that could be made but these are the ones that just pop to mind.

In essence, all I'm saying is that people should be responsible for their actions. If you choose to tattoo yourself and you know society is biased, you will have a better time changing that biased from the inside -- covering up, doing well, and then surprise, letting people know you're tattooed -- as opposed to banging on doors and making a lot of noise from the outside.

Rude_Ruca

Rude_Ruca

I'm lost
December 2004

OCT 24, 2006 06:41 AM

Marisa_DiMattia said:

cgilbe1 said:
I heartily disagree.



Perhaps a PhD in tattoo studies would walk in the door and ask for a job, but if that person was not tattooed, it would be unlikely that he or she would be hired because of the first image customers would see at the shop would be a nontattooed person -- a image that my husband would not like associated with his business. Why should he be forced to hire that person?

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Well, I think this is more an issue for the customer more so than the employer (though, yes, business would be affected in the end). When getting tattooed, I think there is a certain comfort for those new to it if the person tattooing them seems to have gone through it before, as well. I think it goes beyond just the fact that they are tattoo'd. Recently, I met an older gentleman who was a tattoo artist, and on his way to opening up his own shop. However, when I looked at his tattoos, and the quality, and even though they'd been done ions ago, it made me reluctant to get tattoo'd by him. And, I felt bad for a moment about the fact that I felt that way, but, well, I forgot what I was trying to say becasue it's the AM and I am without my caffine....but I THINK you all get my drift...

Marisa_DiMattia

Marisa_DiMattia

NEWSWIRE

I'm lost

OCT 24, 2006 07:06 AM

Rude_Ruca said:
Well, I think this is more an issue for the customer more so than the employer (though, yes, business would be affected in the end). When getting tattooed, I think there is a certain comfort for those new to it if the person tattooing them seems to have gone through it before, as well. I think it goes beyond just the fact that they are tattoo'd. Recently, I met an older gentleman who was a tattoo artist, and on his way to opening up his own shop. However, when I looked at his tattoos, and the quality, and even though they'd been done ions ago, it made me reluctant to get tattoo'd by him. And, I felt bad for a moment about the fact that I felt that way, but, well, I forgot what I was trying to say becasue it's the AM and I am without my caffine....but I THINK you all get my drift...



Exactly! It's about perception!

Targeted

Targeted

Willsboro, NY
June 2006

OCT 24, 2006 01:12 PM

Margot_Dent said:

RubberSoul said:
Why get heavily tattooed if you need to cover them up anyway?



because you don't have to keep them covered all the time?



Because you love body mods? And your not an ignorant asshole?

Perdita

Perdita

SUICIDEGIRL

I'm lost

OCT 24, 2006 09:11 PM

I think this is an eloquent and thought provoking essay.

I'm still highly wary of anyone who audibly complains about lack of employment due to heavy modifications though. Should you be able to look however the hell you want? Well yes, but realistically that might not be a possibility.

JessykaAddams

JessykaAddams

Australia
April 2006

OCT 25, 2006 02:22 AM

Hmmmm...I can see both sides here,personally I work in data entry and they don't give a fuck about any of my piercings or tattoos-in fact I think my boss favours me because of them.But I was interested in this

"Do whatever you want to your body, but I don't want to be subjected to it in the workplace,"

Soooo...my gay workmates cubicle-adorning pics of his boyfriend licking his hairy belly can in fact be torn down and burnt?

Cause I agree-do whatever you want, but I don't wanna have to look at it.

And does this apply to obese people in midriff tops?

Emperor_Norton

Emperor_Norton

Phoenix, AZ
February 2006

OCT 25, 2006 03:27 AM

TheSuicideKing13 said:
sorry for writing an article length comment on an article.



Don't be; what you wrote was worth the read. I couldn't have articulated my own views on the subject any more clearly than how you've written them. So kudos to you, good sir.

Benhamin

Benhamin

Grayslake, IL
December 2005

OCT 25, 2006 09:47 PM

On the one hand, i love getting tattooed and having tattoos. Apparently people that i've worked with consider me "heavily" tattooed (5 tattoos, none bigger than my open hand, doesn't seem liek that much to me). However, over time I've realized that it actually is easier just to cover them up. I'm tired of talking about them, and I don't really think anyone else cares about my tattoos' meanings, if they even really have any meaning. Plus, I don't generally want to see anyone else's tattoos -unless it's certifiably awesome.

One of the good things about getting/having tattoos is that we tend to wear a lot of clothes in our daily lives at work. It's not much of a stretch to cover up your wrists, your entire legs and feet and up to around your collar bone. There's plenty of real estate to fill with ink and still keep a little bit of privacy (I want to avoid the term "modesty"). Plus having a little ink peeking out is kind of cool in it's own discreet way.

If other people got over my tattoos, I wouldn't be so inclined to cover up. I realize that being "heavily tattooed" (in some peoples' eyes) does carry a certain amount of meaning, and in general it only gets in the way of the day to day stuff. But that doesn't mean I won't get more tatttoos!

deboraborealis

deboraborealis

United Kingdom
December 2005

JAN 02, 2007 09:35 AM

on the one hand, covering up my tattoos and piercings for work does make me feel like a hypocrite and a square. i have tattoos and piercings because they are a part of who i am, and covering them up makes me feel really uncomfortable and sometimes quite resentful of my employer. however, i agree with melissa in that covering them up can make things a whole lot easier. especially if your colleagues ARE total squares and really have no idea where you're coming from with the whole tattoo/piercing thing and, if they find out about them, will simply conclude that you're some kind of weirdo. a good example of this is in my last job - my boss's PA noticed the tattoo my forearm, pulled up my sleeve and said 'OH MY GOD! WHAT ON EARTH MADE YOU DO A THING LIKE THAT??!'. and then hardly spoke to me for the rest of the time i was there. how are you supposed to respond to that kind of thing? better to cover up. surreal

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