i got ditched... again...

so i got to thinking... is there something fundamentally wrong with me that every guy i have even a slight interest in invariably decide they like their ex/my best friend/some other girl they met the day after me better?

i'm cute, right? and i'm nice and smart and funny and kinda dorky... someone's gotta like the loogie causing post nasal drip, right? and here's where i get really pathetic... why won't anyone love me!?!?!?!?!11eleven

Look. It's not me, it's you.

Learn from it and move on. You're only 20 so you have barely begun.

see that kinda scares me...if i've only barely begun, there's gonna be a whole bloody lot of shit coming to me... excuse me, i have to go cower in a corner...

at least boygeorgeismymom will love me... i'd say that's a pretty good deal...

[Edited on Jun 22, 2004 by emilyrocks]

Indeed. When you're counting your blessings, you just got a big one.

Personnaly, I find cute, funny, geeky girls attractive. It's their loss, girl.

You're adorable, and boys are just nutty sometimes. I say ignore the dumb ones (obviously the ones that don't know what they're missing ) and run on your merry way toward the better ones.

I have no idea where they hide but I hear they exist. Nice boys like the ones that are on SG.

well i'm certainly glad i have your permission, since i have every intention of doing so tonight...

Do you perhaps have an offensive odor?

We're no dumber than ladies.

I have the same affliction as she just reversed, since I'm not into guys and all.

You're cute and seem sweet. If I was in California I'd totally not talk to you, just like I don't talk to every girl . But less socially awkward guys than myself are missing out by passing you up

Edited for clarification's sake

[Edited on Jun 22, 2004 by BillHaverchuck]

i think that's a compliment? i think i'll take it as one since that was actually the whole point of the thread. emilyrocks = nrdcore

Maybe you need to pick better guys?

*sigh* I'm used to getting ditched too ... but see ... I have a reason. I'm unattractive, scary looking, tower over people and ... well ... actually ... I dunno what it is ... I never get the chance to ask.

But you ... damn ... I dunno what the reasoning could be. You're too cute for words ... and you look like one of those girls that is totally cool to hang out with.

Meh ... guys are generally jerks. They never know what they are missing until it is too late.

5{ER=abadinfluence] said:
They never know what they are missing until it is too late.


yeah they need to figure it out a lot sooner. cause it really sucks for me when they don't...

*shrug* Errr ... just 'cause I spoke out against 'em ... don't think imma be the one to get their asses in gear cutie.

You could just move to Toronto and solve all your problems.

::raises hand:: Please move to New York so we can be together...

Move to washington..then you can dump someone else for a change(me) heh,,Cause i'v had the same prob..except i just have the funny dork thing going..not much else...btw that is a sort of complament...and this is a real one..Your beautiful the world just isnt dont lettiing everyone get a taste of you yet, nature needs to do that so when you find the right one everyone else will be jealous

[Edited on Jun 22, 2004 by roguemind]

guys can be so dumb that way. but theres always a better one around the corner

You get my vote for total cutie. I have never been to Sac-town but it sounds like it has some fairly dumb dudes inhabiting it.

Boys ARE dumb. Find yourself a man, baby.

I wish I could find a cool chick like you.

Sweetie, you're hella cute... so cute, I just had to use the word "hella."

Really, was this guy so great? I mean, come on, he smelled, didn't he? Huh? Did he smell? Come on, be honest, he smelled. Like cabbage.

Go to a coffeeshop sometime (not Starbucks...you know that cool one with the neat decor that all the punks, goths, hipsters and interesting people seem to hang out at and smoke a lot). Go there about 6 times...if you see a painfully shy and awkward, but-cute-in-a-blushing-and-stammering-kind-of-way, who may keep glancing at you and ask what his screen name is.

He'll say, "Um hi...it's max16characters. You're the girl of my dreams. I'm glad you said something and now i will treat you awesomely."

But what you should really do and what will really happen is you can start up a decent conversation with him and you may find you have similar interests. I'm sure this dorky shy guy will treat you right...or at least be a good friend if there's no chemistry. But i have no idea what your type is so maybe that won't work.

For some reason nice, humble, considerate guys like myself are overlooked all the time. Sometimes, we are like white wallpaper to hot girls, we are there but you really dont see us. I guess I'll have to start being an arrogant dick so I can get a date.

For some reason nice, humble, considerate guys like myself are overlooked all the time. Sometimes, we are like white wallpaper to hot girls, we are there but you really dont see us. I guess I'll have to start being an arrogant dick so I can get a date.