OK I've been reading the posts lately and I've noticed alot of girls responding to guys as if they're pushovers.
Well Im not a pushover, but I do believe that women should be treated nice, and that if I think a woman is beautiful it is ok for me to tell her. I dont say it if I dont mean it, so its not like Im just trying to make someone happy or someting. If I find you unattractive I'll tell you that as well. I dont like people who lie to each other. THAT is how people get hurt, through lying, not by expressing your true feelings. Also i do do alot for women, but I also do alot for male friends, the only difference is what I do. (my male friends want help with there cars, but probably wouldn't want a massage, while women i can do both).
In my relationships I DO always fall into the friend zone, but I dont let friends or girlfriend talk down, or abuse, or take advantage of me and you cant boss me around, but if you ask for my help, if I can I will try to help.
Well my question is, does this make me a pushover?
I think I know you well enough to say no, you're getting better. You used to kinda be with that girl that shall remain nameless... but I know you are doing a lot better.
ah fuck, weve all been there. almost every guy at some point in his life has been...well...pussywhipped. the secret is learning to grow some sack and realize that being pretty and fun to look at naked doesnt give someone an exuse to be an asshole.
funny thing is, ive often ended up attracting girls like that. because theyre used to being treated like gold and i ignore them. this usually gets their attention. hell if i can explain it
I know I'M a motherfuckin' pushover. I'm sorry, but all i've learned from dating girls in the past two years is that they LOVE drama and they like to be treated like crap. In the words of a fellow lesbian, "You are too romantic. You gotta go up to a girl and smack her in the face with your balls. Stir her drink with your dick."
You know what, fuck that shit. I'm tired of being a hopeless romantic. I'm not doing it anymore.
Alright, who wants to be the first to be smacked in the face with my balls? Get in line, bitches!
I'm a pushover. I'll be the first to admit it. I'm horrible at it. With women at least. Men, I have no issues with. Cause worst come to worst, I can hit them.
Zechariah
Las Vegas, NV
August 2002
APR 22, 2003 10:32 AM