The Complain Thread

Okay I'm gonna outright start a complain thread because I get reamed or ignored when I complain on other threads. So anyone else who wants to complain about random things can do so here.

It seems to me that the population of this site, from what I have seen myself, is made up mostly of people who go out and party all the time and have wild sex lives and get guys/girls all the time and are loved the world over. Now I'm not saying this is everyone, but the majority of what I've seen. Now, my life is nowhere near this. I do not go out all the time (doing so is hard in my current state, until I can get a modified vehicle of my own) and I have never been popular with the ladies, let alone have any sex life whatsoever. While there are various Philly events, which I am normally not attending (do to lack of attention, nervousness, or inability to), there are many other events around the country that are very exclusive (prom, for example, which even though it had attending members from across the country, it's not like it's a breeze for one such as myself or anyone else on my half of the country to attend) and then the attendees make threads upon threads of how fun it will be to go there while many of us are left behind and unable to go.

While I have made various attempts at making friends on this site, most of those people lose interest in me and have bunches of fun with their other sg friends (and no, it's not always because I complain all the time). And when I look at a lot of members on here, they're popular and fun and always covorting with many, many friends. Now, while I've been told before in threads where I complain that it's easy to fit in and make friends and do things once I try, this is not quite the case as many people would have it seem.

So while I was hoping to meet people on this site who were like me, unique, I find that once again I am the outcast, and that no one seems to have a genuine interest in me, and I'm left in the back row watching a carnival of social delight, alone.


Now, I felt the need to spout off my feelings so that perhaps I won't have to complain about such things in other threads, and so I could get it off my chest.

And of course, I'm leaving this thread open to anyone else who has things to complain about. Because no one seems to read my journal, so I'd like to give a chance to similar folk to vent

i think you're only seeing what you want to see.

Have you ever actually come out to an event?

Just wondering...

Dude, you've got to be posting comments. Nobody commented on my journal either until I started commenting like crazy. 100 comments ain't gon' make you a lot of friends man! Try 1000!

Tuffy vents all his internal strife and feelings of alienation on his stuffed animals.

And Donkey's posterior.

wow. that's a lot to think about. i didn't get involved on this site to make any new friends...and although i've only been on a month or so i've met people w/ similar interests at least and they've been cool enough to me that i have a good feeling about the site. i think that's pretty cool...if i end up making friends that's even better!

as far as going out...yeah, i go out a lot. don't party quite as much as i used to (too poor), but i'm still out seeing bands play 3 or 4 nights a week. it's my lifeblood...sometimes i have friends there, sometimes not (like last night). one person last night knew me and i've known the guy for years but can't remember his name for the life of me. see, i'm a bad friend...ugh!

women and sex? hahaha. that's laughable. i haven't been on a date in two years. sex...it's been over a year for sure, but i'm not keeping track. i can't even remember to ask a girl out (see my most recent journal)!

so, we all have our problems and nothing will change over night or even over weeks and months of trying. "stay the course" though and you'll probably meet a couple genuinely cool people 'round here i'm sure.

Greenpins: A lot of people may feel the way you do at first, but I've found SG a welcoming community once you relax and start posting on the boards, writing in your journal, relaxing with the wide variety of SG peeps. This next will sound like heresy, but it also helps if one doesn't make SG (or the computer!) the center of one's life. Then whatever happens here can be enjoyed in perspective.

Also, I'd have to say you're not the only "unique" person around here. There are many! I mean, I'm not one of them, but there are many. Good luck.

This post wasn't meant to be a place for people to comment on my problems it was suppose to be a place for people to vent about their own. I wasn't asking for sympathy or anything, I was just voicing what I felt I needed to. That's all. Next. Move on. Someone else vent about whatever you need to vent about.

And seriously - I'll try to arrange something, a gathering at a place that I can easily get to. I'll try to get them to "come to me" but I doubt anyone would be willing to come hang out at a place I could get to easily - it would be too far away from any large place like philly, it'd probably be an hour or half hour north in some place nobody knows.

But we'll see.

Ok. Seriously. Next...someone complain, this isn't "Greenpins" complain thread.

some of us keep our complaints to ourselves
as it should be

I would post a comment here but I don't have the time between the two hot super models sucking my cock and the giant pile of coke on the table in front of me. After I'm done here, I'm taking my limo to a private sex orgy in the Hollywood Hills thats only for the coolest and most popular members of SG. I think Avril Lavigne will be there.

ok here's my complaint:

i didn't get any bunnies for easter




happy now?

But we don't have anything to complain about... life is a happy, happy puppy dog, snoozing in the sun, while fair haired maidens pick wildflowers and shove them up my butt.

Complaining is what your journal is for. I know you mentioned that you think no one reads it, but I bet you'd be surprised with the amount of people who read and don't comment on it.

Be jealous ALL OF YOU. Amina is mine mine mine.......and whomever the lucky gang bangers are........

I have no access to events, no wild parties and zero sex life. Do I complain? Yes. But usually in a foolish entertaining manner. Humor man. Laugh a little. Goes a long way. Believe me.

I was at one of those gang bangs- it was rad. Plus, the hors d'eourves really made it special. Melissa, how did you make those watercress sandwiches so small?

[Edited on Apr 21, 2003 by MisterSatan]

it's kinda like high school...popularity counts....if you're new here, you're unknown...

I didn't know you could have a gang bang without watercress sandwiches.

I agree. A lot of times, I think, people feel they can only add their complaints in response to complaints in a journal, and that seems so dismal they just move on to something else.

As for complaining itself, I dunno. I pretty much believe whatever I might complain about exists because either I didn't put forth the energy to change it, or it can't be changed. In the first case, I feel ridiculous complaining, and in the second case, there's no point. So I just go and eat pie.

Edited to add: Or sometimes watercress sandwiches.

[Edited on Apr 21, 2003 by StickyRice]

You mean you've never had a high tea sex-a-thon? You are so missing out man.

gang banging watercress sandwiches? dude- you're sick!!!

i'd love to know where all these drunken orgies are happening. i must be going to the wrong parties

oh, yeah- here's my complaint: i'm hungry, and i really want a watercress sandwich...

[Edited on Apr 21, 2003 by Anne]

I would complain with you Greenpins, but I can't, I have nothing to complain about, cause all the raging sex parties kick ass.