Question for the ladies (regarding how far you will go)

it's bull.
Although it's rare, I HAVE changed my mind once, twice, eh, a few times, during the course of whatever the hell I was doing with the person.
Some people seem fine at first, but then you notice something's wrong, or something's creepy, or it's just awkward and crappy.
it varies widely by how well I know a person, and what I expect from them, and the vibes I get before and during.
For the most part, I know what I expect from someone before I even touch them, but it's always good to be able to change one's view or mind.

I think that I can tell when someone won't be going anywhere at all within five minutes..other than that...how far? ...no, not always.

definitely. helps to fight the beer goggles.

i think it takes a very good instinct, though.

I think it's true, pretty much of almost ANY human interaction, not necessarily just sexual encounters, that the nature of a relationship is pretty much based on ones initial first impression. The times I've ignored my first impression are usually times I've regretted ultimately.

I can pretty much tell within 5 minutes if I will be sexually involved with any given person. There have been few exceptions in my experience, when I've been surprised at the outcome of an initial meeting.

I think this is a very disempowering attitude for men to take. Nothing turns me off more than getting an indication from a girl that I have just passed some sort of test and can now run and fetch my biscuit. I had a date a while ago this reminds me of...we were having dinner, and the girl mentioned offhand that she would show me some (non-sexual) object later, when we were at her place. Honestly, she was hot, but there were things about her that vaguely irritated me, and the more she said, the less attractive I found her. The implication that *of course* I wanted to end up back at her place was enough to seal it for me. When we pulled up in front of her building and she started matter-of-factly talking about where I could leave my car, I told her that it would be easier if I just dropped her off right there. The look of utter incomprehension on her beautiful face was better than the best sex I've ever had, by a long shot.

I know within the first five minutes of a date whether or not I'm even going to kiss someone. It's just a feeling, I guess.

But how long does it take before you know you're gonna schtup them? Or is "kiss" you euphemism for that?

i have a thing for quirky features on girls so usually if i think a girl is sort of an ugly-pretty first then something about them gets to me and i'm uterly floored. so it definitely takes more then five minutes. but then i'm hooked for life.