I just found out my friend (who is on a break with her significant other) slept with my crush.
I've had a crush on this guy ever since I've known him, and I've known my friend less than that. Lately I've confided in her a lot of details. My crush and I were hanging out a lot and getting cozy. I've never told him how I felt, so I'm not holding anything against him. However, my friend knows every little thing about what he and I do because I've told her everything.
I didn't think that these things happened in real life. I'm very hurt and have no idea what to say to her.
I'd say don't even bother talking to her, but that's just me, I have an extraordinarily low bullshit tolerance. Everytime I give someone a chance they fuck it up, so I quit.
i have a low bullshit tolerance too...but i also am too upfront to let that slide. i would talk to her about it, explain how shitty that was, probably bitch her out a little, and then get her out of your life.
well then she wasn't your friend in the first place. And he was a free agent help mess up your friendship. They made their bed, let em lie in it. Walk away with some dignity and rise above it love.
So you have been friends with her for a shorter amount of time than you have had the crush, yet she knew about the crush and the object of it did not? Not everyone has the same values about who it's ok to sleep with, and she probably thought it didn't matter since you never made your crush known to the guy. Anyway I would stop hanging out with both of them and get a real boyfriend.
Synnove
SUICIDEGIRL
New Brunswick, Canada
JAN 22, 2005 09:30 PM