Asked to quit Suicide Girls

I have seen a few members been asked of their partners to quit Suicide Girls as they do not approve. My question is how do you feel about this.

I feel like it is about control and jealousy, but that is how I feel.

Insecure or it somehow goes against their values?
Why would it be any different than any other social website?
My Space is full of bands promoting themselves, Twitter comedians, models, numerous celebs...
Facebook is for everyone, Linkedin is for "professionals"

This site is controversial, though it's toned down alot since the early 2000's

If a partner doesn't like something it doesn't mean you can't like it.

It would be difficult, since a large part of my interaction with friends is on here.

I've seen lots of people leave because their significant other hates them being on here. Six months or so later, they're back because they've realized their now-ex is a controlling asshole.

People should be able to define the terms of the relationships they'd like to have without people's scrutiny an judgment, as long as it's doesn't include abuse.

I'm waiting until the CEO of Chik-fil-A weighs in on this matter to form an opinion.

Ahh... Nice one....

He's too busy counting profits from yesterday's "Chickens for Jesus".

LOL!

A long time ago the gal I was with asked me if I'd be jealous if she started stripping. My gut reaction was that if I were being honest, yes I probably would feel at least a little jealous. Maybe insecure would have been more accurate to say? Anyway I don't think she was serious about it, because it never came up again. And although I like to think I could have handled it just fine if that had been something she had really wanted to do, it's a lot easier to imagine you'd be cool with something when it's not a situation you're actually in.

i have a few friends on here who have left because of this, its sad, mainly because their other halves just did not understand exactly what it is, they see porn and that's it, and one of those wasn't even a model she just had an insecure bf assuming she was chatting with guys on here all the time and felt butthurt over her admitting things in the sex groups.

this is excellent, cheers for sharing you feelings on this

This.
I've made so many friends on here, that if my SO couldn't understand that, it wouldn't work out anyway. It would be like telling me not to interact with my real life friends. I wouldn't stand for such a thing.

Luckily everyone I've been with has either been a member themselves or been cool with me being on here, knowing full well that there is nudity (mine and other people's).

If someone is uncomfortable with the site, the best thing is to express those concerns in a logical, non-controlling way. I would be more than willing to show them around, let them watch my normal activities on the site, even read my messages if they wanted - even the unsolicited cock shots (see honey, this is what the "ignore" button is for).

SO glad that both my husband and girlfriend are so supportive. I was in a 5-year relationship a while back and wanted SO HARD to try out for SG, so I put in an application, but he slut-shamed me with his religious beliefs and I gave in. That was a huge mistake. Ladies, if you want to try for an opportunity as awesome as SG I would seriously hope that your partner supports it. I wasted too much time letting that asshole keeping me from trying.
Stand up for yourselves, ladies! Like Anna and Toxic said, just SHOW them what the site is all about. It could really make them excited for you, even!

^^^^
True dat!

I told Patty the day I got the membership. Given that I've always been upfront about my love of looking, she's confident enough to know I'd never be touching (not without her permission of course ). We both also know that a little flirting not only keeps your spark alive, but is also a nice ego boost.

As for someone being asked to quit by a significant other, it could be jealousy, control or a little of each. Sometimes jealousy is rightly there, I've seen that with friends of mine. Control is never rightly placed, so if that were the reason it would suck and (were it me) I'd seriously have to reconsider the relationship.

No matter which way you slice it, I'm thankful every day that she doesn't have a jealous or controlling bone in her body. I also know I have to walk that line (to steal some Cash, as it were) if I want it to stay that way.

Same here. Damn near impossible. SG is so convenient for interacting with people and planning so many aspects of my life that were I to no longer be a part of it, my entire life would change dramatically. That certainly wasn't intentional, it just kindo slowly evolved that way, but I've somehow been ok with it. Even tough SG could call it quits and shut the site down at any time.

As far as how I'd react to anyone telling me I couldn't be a part of SG anymore, short of losing my kids, I can't think of anything that could ever make me wanna stop using it and I can't say I'd ever accept anyone's telling me I couldn't.