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Ilectra

Ilectra

SUICIDEGIRL

USA

JUL 26, 2008 09:48 PM

I dig um..just another fun feature of the site..

FreakPirate

FreakPirate

Canada
November 2002

JUL 26, 2008 09:52 PM

creativename said:

lollercoaster said:
but... but....they make me so happy!



Well they can PM you then.



Or, you know, they can post a testimonial so other people can see what they think of you...

brideofspanky

brideofspanky

Portland, OR
October 2007

JUL 27, 2008 03:36 AM

we used to be able to edit them.

Abbiss

Abbiss

SUICIDEGIRL

Belgium

JUL 27, 2008 08:07 AM

They are personal, I think. No worry, what you wrote will be forgotten.

I personally like them/mine, but I don't read any others' one, except if they are the last ones left before I leave one.

Moira

Moira

SUICIDEGIRL

United Kingdom

JUL 27, 2008 09:43 AM

I wish we were able to delete/edit ones we have left, not just the ones we've received. Definitely.

girlysound

girlysound

Ann Arbor, MI
February 2007

JUL 27, 2008 09:57 AM

^^ I agree.

I like the feature. When someone tries to friend me I look at them, if they have none I question their activity and possible creepiness on the site.

Lotion

Lotion

Ontario, CA
April 2003

JUL 28, 2008 04:44 AM

I do love that the testimonials feature is there. I especially like leaving drunken ones where I pour my heart out and proclaim my ever-lasting love for someone. They're fun as hell to read the next day, two months, or years down the road. It's a nice way to see a snapshot of what your relationship with that person was at the time. While it might not be what a lot of folks see as the intended purpose of the feature, it does provide some use.

I love seeing ones that people have left for me years back. Obviously I don't read them near as much as say the My SG page or the groups listing, but every so often I'll go through and read what people had to say about me ages back. It even serves as a lil bit of a graveyard kindo thing.

I've thought for some time it'd be cool as hell to be able to edit someone elses testimonial that they left for you and put in whatever you want. The potential for abuse is certainly most definitely there but it's the abuse that'd make it so fun. But of course after a matter of minutes of us having that ability all of the testimonials on the entire site would be nonsense that only the poster and reciever would understand.

I actually like the idea that no one could edit or delete them (except for the moderators in the event of a TOS violation). A testimonial should be there forever. A reply button, however, that could be useful. So that we could reply to something and say how your opinion of the person has changed. Not that it's much trouble to copy n paste what you wrote before into a new post though. biggrin

Lavenderrr

Lavenderrr

I'm lost
April 2006

JUL 29, 2008 04:07 PM

Ilectra said:
I dig um..just another fun feature of the site..



I agree. They make me laugh every single time I read them and I love leaving them to other people that deserve it. Not so much for serious stuff, but indeed a fun feature.

smile

Lycoris

Lycoris

Toronto, ON
October 2005

JUL 29, 2008 05:10 PM

creativename said:
Just get rid of testimonials. They are stupid. No one really needs to "vouch" or whatever on someone profile. IF they want in a regional group have someone in the group vouch for them.



I agree with you. It seems that people are using testimonials now to say "thanks for the add!" and "thanks for the comment on my set!" rather than ... actual testimonials. It's NOT your journal, people.

Quirky

Quirky

Birmingham, AL
October 2005

JUL 29, 2008 06:04 PM

Lycoris said:

creativename said:
Just get rid of testimonials. They are stupid. No one really needs to "vouch" or whatever on someone profile. IF they want in a regional group have someone in the group vouch for them.



I agree with you. It seems that people are using testimonials now to say "thanks for the add!" and "thanks for the comment on my set!" rather than ... actual testimonials. It's NOT your journal, people.



Then just delete the fucktarded comments and let people like me keep the honest words of old left by friends and allies.

Bellica

Bellica

Mexico
February 2007

AUG 27, 2008 06:30 PM

FreakPirate said:

creativename said:

lollercoaster said:
but... but....they make me so happy!



Well they can PM you then.



Or, you know, they can post a testimonial so other people can see what they think of you...



I think it's a fun feature and it's actully put a smile on my face from time to time...

Elichrusos

Elichrusos

I'm lost
October 2007

AUG 30, 2008 01:42 AM

creativename said:
Just get rid of testimonials. They are stupid. No one really needs to "vouch" or whatever on someone profile. IF they want in a regional group have someone in the group vouch for them.


Yesw. How entirely fucked that people can leave a glowing statement for the world at large to see.

Ridley

Ridley

SUICIDEGIRL

California, USA

AUG 30, 2008 02:08 AM

Elichrusos said:

creativename said:
Just get rid of testimonials. They are stupid. No one really needs to "vouch" or whatever on someone profile. IF they want in a regional group have someone in the group vouch for them.


Yesw. How entirely fucked that people can leave a glowing statement for the world at large to see.



Yes only the ones that are nice though, right? And if people actually used them correctly it would still be a superfluous feature.

Elichrusos

Elichrusos

I'm lost
October 2007

AUG 30, 2008 02:52 AM

creativename said:

Elichrusos said:

creativename said:
Just get rid of testimonials. They are stupid. No one really needs to "vouch" or whatever on someone profile. IF they want in a regional group have someone in the group vouch for them.


Yes. How entirely fucked that people can leave a glowing statement for the world at large to see.



Yes only the ones that are nice though, right?

...elichruid emphasis my own


Forgive me, but could you note the total lack of dissonance between the bolded sections, then kindly explain what you meant?

They're called testimonials; of course we'll want "only the ones that are nice". If someone's sufficiently bollocks-faced that random fuckbags need to be warned away, they tend to get publicly shamed well enough on their own. Or zotted.

And if people actually used them correctly it would still be a superfluous feature.


If the point of testimonials was regional group vouching, maybe. It's not, never was.

It's one part making your friends feel special, and one part "I'm Elichrusos and I want you to know that such and such is in no way a cunt-face".

Nobody needs to be able to list their ten favourite bands, or books, or artists. Nobody needs to be able to declare their level of kink, or pick the pidgeonholes that suit them. That shit's all superfluous; should we kill those features too? Some people don't know how to send PMs; just last week someone sent me surprise internet penis. Should we nix PMs because a bunch of douches can't wrap their heads around envoyettes?

You don't like them? Feel free not to use them. Honestly! You can go not leave me a testimonial right now. Only, I'd appreciate if you'd also excercise your right not to pee in my pudding while you're at it.

Ridley

Ridley

SUICIDEGIRL

California, USA

AUG 30, 2008 03:48 AM

Elichrusos said:

creativename said:

Elichrusos said:

creativename said:
Just get rid of testimonials. They are stupid. No one really needs to "vouch" or whatever on someone profile. IF they want in a regional group have someone in the group vouch for them.


Yes. How entirely fucked that people can leave a glowing statement for the world at large to see.



Yes only the ones that are nice though, right?

...elichruid emphasis my own


Forgive me, but could you note the total lack of dissonance between the bolded sections, then kindly explain what you meant?

They're called testimonials; of course we'll want "only the ones that are nice". If someone's sufficiently bollocks-faced that random fuckbags need to be warned away, they tend to get publicly shamed well enough on their own. Or zotted.

And if people actually used them correctly it would still be a superfluous feature.


If the point of testimonials was regional group vouching, maybe. It's not, never was.

It's one part making your friends feel special, and one part "I'm Elichrusos and I want you to know that such and such is in no way a cunt-face".

Nobody needs to be able to list their ten favourite bands, or books, or artists. Nobody needs to be able to declare their level of kink, or pick the pidgeonholes that suit them. That shit's all superfluous; should we kill those features too? Some people don't know how to send PMs; just last week someone sent me surprise internet penis. Should we nix PMs because a bunch of douches can't wrap their heads around envoyettes?

You don't like them? Feel free not to use them. Honestly! You can go not leave me a testimonial right now. Only, I'd appreciate if you'd also excercise your right not to pee in my pudding while you're at it.



I'm sorry we disagree on testimonials.
But what I was getting at is people delete bad testimonials, because they can. So they aren't a really good way to judge that "so and so is not a cuntface". Because one person may like someone for whatever reason, while another truly thinks they are despicable. But you won't really be seeing the "bad" testimonials all that often.

And I will pee in your pudding. It's a fetish of mine and we're all allowed to get freaky once in a while right? wink

Lavonne

Lavonne

SUICIDEGIRL

Alberta, Canada

AUG 30, 2008 12:43 PM

I like having them (it's nice to get them, and I get a lot of feedback from models I worked with, which is useful).

I think a delete feature would be good, but maybe not an edit feature. You can always delete and repost something anyways.

Yulia

Yulia

SUICIDEGIRL

Canada

AUG 31, 2008 09:12 AM

I pretty much agree with creativename and think they're kinda... pointless. At most, what they show is the number of site users that wrote a testimonial to the person. I guess you could get all research-y and compare the percentage of users who use testimonials regularly with those who commented and see what percentage of avid testimonial-givers left one (and presumably left a nice, one, assuming that anything nasty, or simply accidental like a blog comment or blank entry, was deleted)... But who's really gonna sit down and do that?

I'll admit that it's lovely to receive one, and sometimes it's nice to have the option of publicly vouching for someone else's awesomeness. But even then, it's just something stranded in time. Most of the relationships I've been building here have come through groups/threads/blogs and assorted comments therein, not one-time testimonials. So I think there's a lot more lasting value in the groups/boards/blogs.

Elichrusos

Elichrusos

I'm lost
October 2007

SEP 01, 2008 05:22 AM

creativename said:

I'm sorry we disagree on testimonials.
But what I was getting at is people delete bad testimonials, because they can. So they aren't a really good way to judge that "so and so is not a cuntface". Because one person may like someone for whatever reason, while another truly thinks they are despicable. But you won't really be seeing the "bad" testimonials all that often.



It's true, they're not a perfect litmus; but then nothing is. If you go to a party anda friend introduces you to someone they describe in glowing terms, you're not going to find out every significant negative perspective on the person[1].

And really bad people get the zot, or shamed so thoroughly the enter our vocational context[2]. I just don't think something that serves a purpose should be canned because it's not perfect.

SPOILERS! (Click to view)
1: Unless you're quite neurotic and have google in your pocket.

2: Quod vide: It's like the hardest job ever...



And I will pee in your pudding. It's a fetish of mine and we're all allowed to get freaky once in a while right? wink


I'm cool with the pee and all, getting people's kink good and sated is something of a hobby, only now my pudding isn't vegan. frown

Kylepus

Kylepus

I'm lost
November 2006

SEP 01, 2008 05:44 AM

Elichrusos said:

And I will pee in your pudding. It's a fetish of mine and we're all allowed to get freaky once in a while right? wink



I'm cool with the pee and all, getting people's kink good and sated is something of a hobby, only now my pudding isn't vegan. frown



It is if she consents.

> <
MM

Metta

Metta

I'm lost
September 2006

SEP 01, 2008 07:54 PM

my question is:

who leaves a BAD testimonial???

wouldnt that person just NOT bother anymore...

I wouldnt take the time to write something negative about that person on thier page.

seems kind of childish surreal


Mocha

Mocha

New Orleans, LA
April 2006

SEP 01, 2008 10:36 PM

creativename said:

SPOILERS! (Click to view)

Elichrusos said:

creativename said:

Elichrusos said:

creativename said:
Just get rid of testimonials. They are stupid. No one really needs to "vouch" or whatever on someone profile. IF they want in a regional group have someone in the group vouch for them.


Yes. How entirely fucked that people can leave a glowing statement for the world at large to see.



Yes only the ones that are nice though, right?

...elichruid emphasis my own


Forgive me, but could you note the total lack of dissonance between the bolded sections, then kindly explain what you meant?

They're called testimonials; of course we'll want "only the ones that are nice". If someone's sufficiently bollocks-faced that random fuckbags need to be warned away, they tend to get publicly shamed well enough on their own. Or zotted.

And if people actually used them correctly it would still be a superfluous feature.


If the point of testimonials was regional group vouching, maybe. It's not, never was.

It's one part making your friends feel special, and one part "I'm Elichrusos and I want you to know that such and such is in no way a cunt-face".

Nobody needs to be able to list their ten favourite bands, or books, or artists. Nobody needs to be able to declare their level of kink, or pick the pidgeonholes that suit them. That shit's all superfluous; should we kill those features too? Some people don't know how to send PMs; just last week someone sent me surprise internet penis. Should we nix PMs because a bunch of douches can't wrap their heads around envoyettes?

You don't like them? Feel free not to use them. Honestly! You can go not leave me a testimonial right now. Only, I'd appreciate if you'd also excercise your right not to pee in my pudding while you're at it.





I'm sorry we disagree on testimonials.
But what I was getting at is people delete bad testimonials, because they can. So they aren't a really good way to judge that "so and so is not a cuntface". Because one person may like someone for whatever reason, while another truly thinks they are despicable.



but but but... what if i take Elichrusos's opinion to mean a lot to me? or say, anyone creativename wants to totally bone is probably a goodlookin piece of ass i should try to e-mack on?

it's just another way of understanding the complicated social community that is SG.

but maybe i'm just being too anthropological, and we should get back to the tits and forget interaction whatsoever whatever

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