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PointBlank

PointBlank

New York, NY
November 2004

DEC 11, 2006 12:12 PM

herbancowboy said:

MrMatt said:
Isn't it time for the whole world to call bullshit on the way women are treated by Islamic law? Well, why not?



I'd put much more stock in it if the WOMEN of the world took care of that. If it's men that are doing the "calling out," I have to wonder if they're also just manipulating women to promote their own patriarchal misogynistic agenda under the guise of "helping women out."


Err..."womens rights" are "human rights." So, sorry...you don't need a vagina to call rape (or even less serious oppressions) wrong.

stainedecho

stainedecho

Bloomington, IN
September 2005

DEC 11, 2006 12:14 PM

PointBlank said:

herbancowboy said:

MrMatt said:
Isn't it time for the whole world to call bullshit on the way women are treated by Islamic law? Well, why not?



I'd put much more stock in it if the WOMEN of the world took care of that. If it's men that are doing the "calling out," I have to wonder if they're also just manipulating women to promote their own patriarchal misogynistic agenda under the guise of "helping women out."


Err..."womens rights" are "human rights." So, sorry...you don't need a vagina to call rape (or even less serious oppressions) wrong.



Word.

Geisterfaust

Geisterfaust

Tempe, AZ
June 2006

DEC 11, 2006 12:16 PM

seanvegas said:
Ahhhh, religion, one of the greatest gifts to have been put forth on this Earth! whatever



Yeah, without religion, i cant bear to think of how fucked up the world would be.

herbancowboy

herbancowboy

Houston, TX
June 2004

DEC 11, 2006 12:20 PM

Bodhistarr said:
Dude, now I have totally fucking read and heard everything possible. Are you fucking kidding me?!

You know, due to a bad experience with a immigrant from Pakistan, I really have no respect for those fartknockers anyway.




I really hope I don't sound like an apologist for misogynists in any part of the world, but do you think that rape does not go unpunished in Baltimore? Do you think that cops, the very people who are supposed to enforce laws, don't rape sex workers and addicts all the time? Do you think that the politicians right down the road from you who make the laws don't use their power to coerce women (and pages) into doing things they don't want to do, then use their power to intimidate their victims into silence, or drag their reputations through the mud when they speak up against their rapists?

Please don't use this small group of people to justify your racisim. I don't think the article even states the number of people that were at this rally.

herbancowboy

herbancowboy

Houston, TX
June 2004

DEC 11, 2006 12:32 PM

stainedecho said:

PointBlank said:

herbancowboy said:

MrMatt said:
Isn't it time for the whole world to call bullshit on the way women are treated by Islamic law? Well, why not?



I'd put much more stock in it if the WOMEN of the world took care of that. If it's men that are doing the "calling out," I have to wonder if they're also just manipulating women to promote their own patriarchal misogynistic agenda under the guise of "helping women out."


Err..."womens rights" are "human rights." So, sorry...you don't need a vagina to call rape (or even less serious oppressions) wrong.



Word.



You're twisting my words. I'm not talking about rape, I was referring to the above comment that "it's time for the whole world to call bullshit on the way that women are treated by Islamic law."

I'm saying that if anybody is going to "call bullshit on the way that women are treated by Islamic law," then that movement should be led by women--for a number of reasons. For one thing, they might tell us Rambo wannabes that we're plenty misogynistic ourselves. For another thing, men "rescuing" women implies that women can't organize and protect themselves, or ask for help if they really want it, which is, again, a misogynistic attitude.

Which brings me back to what I've been saying all along. If you're a man who wants to "fight" misogyny, start by asking the women close to you what you can do (he said on the porn site.) Let them call the shots, or tell you to fuck off and leave them alone...whatever the case may be.

Molleh

Molleh

Silver Spring, MD
November 2006

DEC 11, 2006 12:37 PM

These protesters give a bad name to Islam, a fundementally peaceful religion. Whatever.

Grobog

Grobog

Houston, TX
January 2005

DEC 11, 2006 01:45 PM

herbancowboy said:

stainedecho said:

PointBlank said:

herbancowboy said:

MrMatt said:
Isn't it time for the whole world to call bullshit on the way women are treated by Islamic law? Well, why not?



I'd put much more stock in it if the WOMEN of the world took care of that. If it's men that are doing the "calling out," I have to wonder if they're also just manipulating women to promote their own patriarchal misogynistic agenda under the guise of "helping women out."


Err..."womens rights" are "human rights." So, sorry...you don't need a vagina to call rape (or even less serious oppressions) wrong.



Word.



You're twisting my words. I'm not talking about rape, I was referring to the above comment that "it's time for the whole world to call bullshit on the way that women are treated by Islamic law."

I'm saying that if anybody is going to "call bullshit on the way that women are treated by Islamic law," then that movement should be led by women--for a number of reasons. For one thing, they might tell us Rambo wannabes that we're plenty misogynistic ourselves. For another thing, men "rescuing" women implies that women can't organize and protect themselves, or ask for help if they really want it, which is, again, a misogynistic attitude.

Which brings me back to what I've been saying all along. If you're a man who wants to "fight" misogyny, start by asking the women close to you what you can do (he said on the porn site.) Let them call the shots, or tell you to fuck off and leave them alone...whatever the case may be.



I'd like to see a plan where women are going to demand rights in any country dominated by religious zealots who own their women like cattle. I'm sure they would love to hear how much the women of the rest of the world despise their islamic laws. It would be foolish to suggest that women from anywhere enter such a country to begin protesting anything. The leaders of the rest of the world (who are predominately male) must inform the leaders of extremist islamic states (who are 100% male) that their inhuman treatment of women will not be tolerated. Or we could just live and let live. If the women in those countries don't like how they are treated they will do something about it won't they. Let them take charge, and get stoned to death(or splashed with acid, or shot, or raped then stoned to death). The women in those countries cannot organise and protect themselves. It is against the law and they will be killed.

Nokturn

Nokturn

United Kingdom
April 2006

DEC 11, 2006 01:47 PM

In other news from the region, the holocaust never happened, so given that this makes humanity as a whole at least 25% more virtuous that it was when we all knew the holocaust happened, perhaps we have space in our universal ethical conscience to have a real holocaust.
Lets start with these guys demonstrating in Pakistan
skull

Wendy

Wendy

SUICIDEGIRL

Israel

DEC 11, 2006 01:51 PM

herbancowboy said:

stainedecho said:

PointBlank said:

herbancowboy said:

MrMatt said:
Isn't it time for the whole world to call bullshit on the way women are treated by Islamic law? Well, why not?



I'd put much more stock in it if the WOMEN of the world took care of that. If it's men that are doing the "calling out," I have to wonder if they're also just manipulating women to promote their own patriarchal misogynistic agenda under the guise of "helping women out."


Err..."womens rights" are "human rights." So, sorry...you don't need a vagina to call rape (or even less serious oppressions) wrong.



Word.



You're twisting my words. I'm not talking about rape, I was referring to the above comment that "it's time for the whole world to call bullshit on the way that women are treated by Islamic law."

I'm saying that if anybody is going to "call bullshit on the way that women are treated by Islamic law," then that movement should be led by women--for a number of reasons. For one thing, they might tell us Rambo wannabes that we're plenty misogynistic ourselves. For another thing, men "rescuing" women implies that women can't organize and protect themselves, or ask for help if they really want it, which is, again, a misogynistic attitude.

Which brings me back to what I've been saying all along. If you're a man who wants to "fight" misogyny, start by asking the women close to you what you can do (he said on the porn site.) Let them call the shots, or tell you to fuck off and leave them alone...whatever the case may be.



If you're a man who wants to fight misogyny, fucking fight it. You aren't barred from fighting for basic human rights because you were born with a dick. That's ridiculous. The rulers of the world are male. If they take a stand against the mistreatment of women under Islamic law, women everywhere are NOT going to call them a bunch of rambo wannabees and tell them to step off. Are you kidding?

herbancowboy

herbancowboy

Houston, TX
June 2004

DEC 11, 2006 01:55 PM

Grobog said:
I'd like to see a plan where women are going to demand rights in any country dominated by religious zealots who own their women like cattle. I'm sure they would love to hear how much the women of the rest of the world despise their islamic laws. It would be foolish to suggest that women from anywhere enter such a country to begin protesting anything.



I actually had the privilige of hanging out with a woman (who works for Code Pink now) last weekend who spent two years in Afghanistan. So people can get in if they want to. But that's still not what I'm talking about. There are LOCAL people fighting to make change in these places you're talking about, and they can use your support.

Grobog said:
The leaders of the rest of the world (who are predominately male) must inform the leaders of extremist islamic states (who are 100% male) that their inhuman treatment of women will not be tolerated.


You're assuming way too much. Pakistan has had the same female prime minister twice in its history. But why leave change to "leaders," anyway? There are people at the grassroots who need your help.

Grobog said:
Or we could just live and let live. If the women in those countries don't like how they are treated they will do something about it won't they. Let them take charge, and get stoned to death(or splashed with acid, or shot, or raped then stoned to death). The women in those countries cannot organise and protect themselves. It is against the law and they will be killed.



Actually, I linked to the website of the Revolutionary Association of the Women of Afghanistan (RAWA) in my initial comment, who've been active in Afghanistan since 1977.

But this thread is about Pakistan, I understand, which must have similar organizations on the ground. If you're so fired up to help the women of Pakistan out, I'm sure you'll have no trouble finding places to plug in or send donations.

Morgan

Morgan

SUICIDEGIRL

Illinois, USA

DEC 11, 2006 01:57 PM

Wendy said:
If you're a man who wants to fight misogyny, fucking fight it. You aren't barred from fighting for basic human rights because you were born with a dick. That's ridiculous. The rulers of the world are male. If they take a stand against the mistreatment of women under Islamic law, women everywhere are NOT going to call them a bunch of rambo wannabees and tell them to step off. Are you kidding?



What she said. This is a HUMAN rights issue, meaning that all humans should be taking part in changing things. Saying that only women should be heading the movement for basic human rights like not being raped is implying that this issue is a "women's issue" and not a human rights issue.

So get off your ass and take part, don't be inactive just because you're a dude!

herbancowboy

herbancowboy

Houston, TX
June 2004

DEC 11, 2006 02:11 PM

Wendy said:
If you're a man who wants to fight misogyny, fucking fight it. You aren't barred from fighting for basic human rights because you were born with a dick. That's ridiculous. The rulers of the world are male. If they take a stand against the mistreatment of women under Islamic law, women everywhere are NOT going to call them a bunch of rambo wannabees and tell them to step off. Are you kidding?



All I'm saying is that any "feminist" movement that is initiated or led by men is suspect from the get-go. It runs a steep risk of PERPETUATING the patriarchy that it claims to fight.

What if you show up in a place to "help out" some poor locals and they tell you to bug off, you're just going to make their life worse in the long-run? Do you insist on "helping" them? Does their input matter at all, or do you know what's best for them?

Otoki

Otoki

SUICIDEGIRL

Minnesota, USA

DEC 11, 2006 02:15 PM

Morgan said:

Wendy said:
If you're a man who wants to fight misogyny, fucking fight it. You aren't barred from fighting for basic human rights because you were born with a dick. That's ridiculous. The rulers of the world are male. If they take a stand against the mistreatment of women under Islamic law, women everywhere are NOT going to call them a bunch of rambo wannabees and tell them to step off. Are you kidding?



What she said. This is a HUMAN rights issue, meaning that all humans should be taking part in changing things. Saying that only women should be heading the movement for basic human rights like not being raped is implying that this issue is a "women's issue" and not a human rights issue.

So get off your ass and take part, don't be inactive just because you're a dude!



Sorry, ladies, but herbancowboy was making a different point:
The fights should be headed by women (but not fought exclusively by them) because there is a chance (we've all observed this in history) that someone not of the oppressed group claiming to fight for said group may be doing so to manipulate said group in order to support their own agenda.

Either way, definitely contribute to orgs like RAWA (thanks for the link, herbancowboy) and similar orgs in Pakistan.

I would also like to second HC's statement to Bhodistar. Even after my NUMBEROUS negative experiences with southern indian men, I don't discount all of them. I've met some nice ones who actually follow my damn rules and don't ask for sex. ONE person does not a country of assholes make.

emotedcreations

emotedcreations

Germany
July 2006

DEC 11, 2006 02:16 PM

herbancowboy said:

Wendy said:
If you're a man who wants to fight misogyny, fucking fight it. You aren't barred from fighting for basic human rights because you were born with a dick. That's ridiculous. The rulers of the world are male. If they take a stand against the mistreatment of women under Islamic law, women everywhere are NOT going to call them a bunch of rambo wannabees and tell them to step off. Are you kidding?



All I'm saying is that any "feminist" movement that is initiated or led by men is suspect from the get-go. It runs a steep risk of PERPETUATING the patriarchy that it claims to fight.

What if you show up in a place to "help out" some poor locals and they tell you to bug off, you're just going to make their life worse in the long-run? Do you insist on "helping" them? Does their input matter at all, or do you know what's best for them?



I'm pretty sure if you asked a Paki woman whether they wanted it to be easier or harder for them to be raped, they'd say; 'harder'. But hey that's just a guess. I'd tend to agree with the previous posters who relegated this to the category of human rights. The point you're trying to make might make sense where the women have an equal voice. Unfortunately, in Pakistan you're a whore if only three men watch you get raped.

Otoki

Otoki

SUICIDEGIRL

Minnesota, USA

DEC 11, 2006 02:19 PM

I'd also like to take a moment to express my growing irritation at FTR's writing style. Sarcasm is great when used with the right timing. Non-stop sarcasm is boring.

_kungfoo_

_kungfoo_

Los Angeles, CA
April 2005

DEC 11, 2006 02:20 PM

Bodhistarr said:
You know, due to a bad experience with a immigrant from Pakistan, I really have no respect for those fartknockers anyway.



Yeah, they must all be that way. Fuck Pakistan. Let's bomb em'!

YEEEEEEEE-HAW!!!

herbancowboy

herbancowboy

Houston, TX
June 2004

DEC 11, 2006 02:21 PM

Morgan said:

Wendy said:
If you're a man who wants to fight misogyny, fucking fight it. You aren't barred from fighting for basic human rights because you were born with a dick. That's ridiculous. The rulers of the world are male. If they take a stand against the mistreatment of women under Islamic law, women everywhere are NOT going to call them a bunch of rambo wannabees and tell them to step off. Are you kidding?



What she said. This is a HUMAN rights issue, meaning that all humans should be taking part in changing things. Saying that only women should be heading the movement for basic human rights like not being raped is implying that this issue is a "women's issue" and not a human rights issue.

So get off your ass and take part, don't be inactive just because you're a dude!



Well, I'm not inactive, for starters, and I'm glad that some women have joined in this discussion so I'm not just debating feminist issues with a bunch of dudes. It's just that this whole thing sounds a lot like the argument people used in the colonial era to justify barbaric acts under the guise of spreading civilation and Christianity among the "natives."

It's not like we've eliminated misogyny in the west, you know? So if we (men) want to help do that, then I think we should turn to "western women" and ask them how we can help. And we should listen to them. Likewise, if you want to do something about genital mutilation in Sub-Saharan Africa, let's start by talking to women-led groups in Sub-Saharan Africa.

If a man rushes off to "save" the women without consulting them, first, I'd think that he was coming from a place where he views them as his property.

s5

s5

STAFF

San Francisco, CA

DEC 11, 2006 02:22 PM

herbancowboy said:
All I'm saying is that any "feminist" movement that is initiated or led by men is suspect from the get-go. It runs a steep risk of PERPETUATING the patriarchy that it claims to fight.

What if you show up in a place to "help out" some poor locals and they tell you to bug off, you're just going to make their life worse in the long-run? Do you insist on "helping" them? Does their input matter at all, or do you know what's best for them?



In this thread are two women (one of them, Morgan, is a full time academic in gender studies) saying that men should help speak out for women on human rights issues. Yet you're arguing against them, effectively doing exactly what you're warning others not to do.

Issay

Issay

SUICIDEGIRL

Canada

DEC 11, 2006 02:22 PM

thats fucked

Morgan

Morgan

SUICIDEGIRL

Illinois, USA

DEC 11, 2006 03:06 PM

herbancowboy said:
If a man rushes off to "save" the women without consulting them, first, I'd think that he was coming from a place where he views them as his property.



So consult them first. I'm guessing most women would rather not be raped, and would be happy to accept your help in preventing it from happening to them.

McFlynnTHM

McFlynnTHM

Somerville, MA
January 2006

DEC 11, 2006 03:09 PM

I feel that when the placard you're waving around reads "Down with the Women Protection Law," meaning you're against protecting half the population, it's kind of a call that you need to take a serious look at your religion and its values.

FearTheReaper

FearTheReaper

NEWSWIRE

I'm lost

DEC 11, 2006 03:23 PM

Otoki said:
I'd also like to take a moment to express my growing irritation at FTR's writing style. Sarcasm is great when used with the right timing. Non-stop sarcasm is boring.



Hilarious. One sentance with sarcasm in it. Two previous articles, not the tiniest bit of sarcasm.

In the end, don't fucking read it. Just like if I don't like your pictures I won't look at them.

Wendy

Wendy

SUICIDEGIRL

Israel

DEC 11, 2006 03:23 PM

s5 said:

herbancowboy said:
All I'm saying is that any "feminist" movement that is initiated or led by men is suspect from the get-go. It runs a steep risk of PERPETUATING the patriarchy that it claims to fight.

What if you show up in a place to "help out" some poor locals and they tell you to bug off, you're just going to make their life worse in the long-run? Do you insist on "helping" them? Does their input matter at all, or do you know what's best for them?



In this thread are two women (one of them, Morgan, is a full time academic in gender studies) saying that men should help speak out for women on human rights issues. Yet you're arguing against them, effectively doing exactly what you're warning others not to do.



and the other is a full time academic in psychophysiological sex and gender research wink
*steps down off of the horse*

herbancowboy, I do not agree that men need to "check" with women first before they do as little as "call bullshit on the way women are treated under Islamic law," which is what the initial conversation was referring to. A man does not need a woman's permission to condemn this. While some women may be threatened by men who try to organize and help, I don't think that this is the norm and I personally don't think that men should feel inferior or subordinate when wanting to fight to change these issues. As sad as it is, sometimes women DO need help and CAN'T change things themselves. You can all jump all over that comment if you want, but it's true. I also do not feel as if it is necessary to wait until they ask for help either, as has been illustrated by comments before me, this can potentially be dangerous.

I certainly can't speak for all women, but speaking for myself, you do not need my permission before "rushing off to save me" if I am living under a government with regulations/lack of regulations towards women such as those discussed in this article. I will not think that you view me as your property. I will thank you.

Bicycle_Samurai

Bicycle_Samurai

York, ON
September 2003

DEC 11, 2006 03:24 PM

I want to live in a free sex zone. confused

Zarth

zarth

Seattle, WA
December 2004

DEC 11, 2006 03:29 PM

herbancowboy said:
It's just that this whole thing sounds a lot like the argument people used in the colonial era to justify barbaric acts under the guise of spreading civilation and Christianity among the "natives."



It has its similarities. However, cultural relativism is no solution to this. We have to work within whatever our moral framework may happen to be at the time, and leave it to posterity to judge us for our sins - whatever they may be.

In other words, there's a right and a wrong to the controversy over this law. And recognizing our own failings and limitations doesn't mean that taking a stand on those of others is always inappropriate. So long as we do, in fact, recognize our own failings and limitations.

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