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SleepyLady

SleepyLady

Los Angeles, CA
October 2007

NOV 23, 2007 11:14 PM





As you read this from the comfort of wherever it is that you go online, some kid in Mokcheon, South Korea is running an obstacle course at the Jump Up Internet Rescue School in order to kick his web addiction.



MOKCHEON, South Korea _ The compound _ part boot camp, part rehab center _ resembles programs around the world for troubled youths. Drill instructors drive young men through military-style obstacle courses, counselors lead group sessions, and there are even therapeutic workshops on pottery and drumming.





The rescue camp, in a forested area about an hour south of Seoul, was created to treat the most severe cases. This year, the camp held its first two 12-day sessions, with 16 to 18 male participants each time. (South Korean researchers say an overwhelming majority of compulsive computer users are male.)





I was snooping around on some message boards to see how other people were responding to the idea of a boot camp for web addicts.



One person wrote:



I balk at the use of the term "addict" to describe someone whose problem doesn't involve an actual substance with the concomitant changes to brain-chemistry. An addiction is something that afflicts you because you take the drug, regardless of the other circumstances.





I disagree. I absolutely think there is web addiction just like there is food, sex and shopping addiction. I think addiction is a personality type and has nothing to do with a chemical imbalance created by drugs. There's research out there that will back this up.



There was this episode of A&E's "Intervention" where this kid was addicted to video games. He had a consistently crazed look in his eyes. He was unable to return the affections of his female friend because he was suicidal and gaming was the only thing that made him happy. And unlike most of the addicts on Intervention, rehab didn't help him. Every one I know that saw that episode argued with me that gaming didn't count as addiction because gamers and web addicts can stop anytime they want to.



According to the New York Times article about 2.4 million people in Korea are at risk of becoming Internet addicts.



One participant, Lee Chang-hoon, 15, began using the computer to pass the time while his parents were working and he was home alone. He said he quickly came to prefer the virtual world, where he seemed to enjoy more success and popularity than in the real one.



He spent 17 hours a day online, mostly looking at Japanese comics and playing a combat role-playing game called Sudden Attack. He played all night, and skipped school two or three times a week to catch up on sleep.



When his parents told him he had to go to school, he reacted violently. Desperate, his mother, Kim Soon-yeol, sent him to the camp.





"I don't have a problem," Chang-hoon said in an interview three days after starting the camp. "Seventeen hours a day online is fine."





Researchers in Korea have developed the K-Scale, a test that determines if a person's web habits are under control or headed into compulsive territory.



The K-Scale has not been published on line yet but this test comes pretty close (and it's fun to take! It's like a little game!)



How did you score? I scored 25. That means that I'm a normal web-user.



While I agree that web addiction is real, I'm not sure how tried and true the methods of rehabilitating these addicts are. Anything to do with an obstacle course and/or harnesses and pulleys sends a shiver down my spine. It reminds me of forced interaction with jerks in my gym class or my Girl Scout Troop. But climbing all over a wet obstacle course seems to be working for little Chang-hoon:







Wet and shivering, Chang-hoon began climbing the first obstacle, a telephone pole with small metal rungs. At the top, he slowly stood up, legs quaking, arms outstretched for balance. Below, the other boys held a safety rope attached to a harness on his chest.



"Do you have anything to tell your mother?" the drill instructor shouted from below.



"No!" he yelled back.



"Tell your mother you love her!" ordered the instructor.



"I love you, my parents!" he replied.



"Then jump!" ordered the instructor. Chang-hoon squatted and leapt to a nearby trapeze, catching it in his hands.





Uh-oh. I don't know if you should teach vulnerable loners that it's socially acceptable to scream from trees, "I love my parents!" Are these kids lives being saved only to get their ass kicked by bullies once they're back at school? However, if a bully challenges Chang-hoon to a trapeze-off, this kid could end up a hero.



jon_o

jon_o

United Kingdom
July 2006

NOV 24, 2007 12:40 PM

i scored 40 - still average.
I love the image they have in the title bar of that quiz....good ol istock images, I think ive used that for a few clients

Crissis

Crissis

Ecuador
January 2007

NOV 24, 2007 01:24 PM

52
You are experiencing occasional or frequent problems because of the Internet. You should consider their full impact on your life.
I have internet in my room and whatever Before I was normal.

Valium

Valium

SUICIDEGIRL

France

NOV 24, 2007 01:25 PM

i made a 43. 17h online is really crazy...

erratic_prophet

erratic_prophet

San Diego, CA
December 2006

NOV 24, 2007 02:21 PM

I'm a web designer and a gamer and I don't think I've ever put in 17 hours online.

SockPuppet

SockPuppet

I'm lost
July 2006

NOV 24, 2007 02:24 PM

62. Most of that is spent here...

DCruz

DCruz

Montreal-nord, QC
November 2006

NOV 24, 2007 02:51 PM

39

still average but it's true that I've tried to cut back my online, or at least my pc, time but hasn't worked. And while right now I'm jobless, even when I had a job, pretty much all of my free time was spent here, in front of a pc... whatever

Aglaya

Aglaya

Milledgeville, GA
May 2004

NOV 24, 2007 02:59 PM

33, so I'm not too bad. Also, whoever thought that addiction doesn't apply to things like gaming and the internet or anything that isn't a drug was completely wrong. I used to have a roommate who was addicted to LARPing. I actually took her to the grocery store once where she declined to buy food, despite desperately needing it, so she would be able to afford her LARP event that weekend. Anything that provides people with an escape has addictive potential.

Strega

Strega

Minneapolis, MN
October 2005

NOV 24, 2007 03:18 PM

41. I honestly can't believe I scored that high. Almost everyone I know spends significantly more time online than I do.

Tekky

Tekky

SUICIDEGIRL

Ontario, Canada

NOV 24, 2007 03:44 PM

60! hahaha. no suprise there.

OstrichDeity

OstrichDeity

New Albany, IN
February 2007

NOV 24, 2007 03:45 PM

33. That test is broken, I'm a much bigger nerd.

seaniesean5

seaniesean5

Buffalo, NY
July 2005

NOV 24, 2007 03:49 PM

30 good score if you ask me biggrin

harden

harden

Germany
OLD SKOOL

NOV 24, 2007 03:51 PM

33

I suck at the internet

PantherNesmith

PantherNesmith

Gloucester, VA
June 2006

NOV 24, 2007 03:55 PM

33 as well.

I'm more of a shopping addict anyway.

Maudite

Maudite

Mesquite, TX
March 2004

NOV 24, 2007 04:05 PM

29
Yay for me!

ohash

ohash

Columbus, OH
May 2007

NOV 24, 2007 04:46 PM

25. I have never spent more than 3 or 4 hours sitting here. I always get up and find something to do around the house for a while. I get antsy just sitting.

Lockeblade

Lockeblade

Australia
May 2007

NOV 24, 2007 05:35 PM

35 for me. I would have been a LOT higher before I quit playing World of Warcraft. I was never addicted to WoW like many of the people I played with though. Yes, I spent most of my free time playing it but whenever something social was happening I never chose WoW over socialising and when I quit playing I didn't experience any separation anxiety. I missed the daily contact I had with the friends I'd made on there but I didn't miss the game.

Whoever says that the internet/gaming isn't addictive CLEARLY hasn't played WoW. I knew people who could easily sit down and put in an 18 hour session, sleep for 6 hours then get up and do it again. And they were neglecting their real lives to do it.

xazapdmytinu

xazapdmytinu

Fort Collins, CO
July 2007

NOV 24, 2007 05:56 PM

Anyone who says the internet isn't brain altering hasn't taken a psychology class in thirty years. It doesn't matter what you are doing, if something provides the chemical cue to your brain that you desire, then it's a fucking addiction. If we are going by chemistry that I could say I'm chemically dependent on Water, Food, and Air!

I scored 30...but I think that a) if you are forming relationships with new people online that really alright...I mean, you are interacting with society...sort of.

Rockoval

Rockoval

I'm lost
July 2006

NOV 24, 2007 06:38 PM

52, no surprise there.

SleepyLady

SleepyLady

Los Angeles, CA
October 2007

NOV 24, 2007 06:43 PM

What is LARPing?

_DictionaryGirl_

_DictionaryGirl_

NEWSWIRE

San Diego, CA

NOV 24, 2007 06:44 PM

43. "You are an average on-line user. You may surf the Web a bit too long at times, but you have control over your usage."

Whew! I think what saved me is that, while when I'm at home I can screw around on the internet for hours on end, I will pretty much never pick the internet over going out with friends in real life. blush

_DictionaryGirl_

_DictionaryGirl_

NEWSWIRE

San Diego, CA

NOV 24, 2007 06:46 PM

SleepyLady said:
What is LARPing?



Oh, man. biggrin

It's like Dungeons and Dragons, but the whole world is your game grid.

trapper

trapper

Neffs, PA
July 2007

NOV 24, 2007 06:48 PM

27 here. I'm trying to become a sex addict, just hard to do alone frown

cspeedball

cspeedball

I'm lost
July 2003

NOV 24, 2007 07:09 PM

I only got a 23 frown

PaulNikon

PaulNikon

Melbourne, FL
February 2003

NOV 24, 2007 07:52 PM

28. Honestly surprised its not higher.

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